what to dooo!?!? |
 May 23 2006, 09:53 PM
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the guy i had a crush on for a long time ...so i finally told him i liek him..cuz hes told me he likes me so i didnt feel too wierd telling him even tho im crazyy shyy BUT he said he could go out...<i>but</i> in september im going to school in a diff country...and he doesnt want a long distance relationship...not cuz he doesnt trust himself but becuz he has a need to be with the one he loves...ya no...so we agreed to wait a yr and see if we still have the same feelings for eachother, granted it won't be the same since both of our feelings and emotions are really out in the open right now...and theres a reallllly good chance we wont have the same feelings for eachother then becuz im really going away to "change myself..." well not really change...but to "find myself"....to understand my feelings better ...and hes really sorta lookin 2 get married already...not exactly but sorta...(hes older than me)...
we both still like eachtoher even tho were not going out...do u think we should go out or just have "fun"? is there a point in going out if were actually planning on breaking up in 3 months and maybe....there is a good enuff chance ...that we'll go out when i get home... |
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May 23 2006, 11:15 PM
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 Jake - The Unholy Trinity / Premiscuous Poeteer. Group: Member Posts: 1,272 Joined: May 2006 Member No: 411,316 |
Don't do it. I wouldn't do it. I'm like him. I want to be in a relationship where I see the girl often and that's not far away. But considering my life is going to change, I can't say that really. Haha. But I wouldn't do it. Just to make things easier.
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| *This Confession* |
May 24 2006, 02:03 AM
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I don't see why you two can't have fun?
Even if you do go away. I wouldn't get in a relationship though and only end up knowing its going to end and then go away not knowing if its going to be the same when you come back.. |
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| *Uronacid* |
May 24 2006, 09:30 AM
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look, not everyone is cut out for the long distance things... no joke, its hard sometimes. i think its very mature for the both of you to agree on or talk about something like this. like holly said, "I don't see why you two can't have fun." You guys should hang out and enjoy eachother, but always realize the truth. Don't live in a fantasy world or you will get end up making some pretty tough choices in the end.
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May 24 2006, 11:17 AM
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good for you
i like how you both agreed not to be in a relationship because you're moving away. like what Josh(?) and Holly said, you guys can still keep each other company and have fun together. |
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| *Uronacid* |
May 24 2006, 11:34 AM
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QUOTE(_sarcastic_ @ May 24 2006, 12:17 PM)  good for you i like how you both agreed not to be in a relationship because you're moving away. like what Josh(?) and Holly said, you guys can still keep each other company and have fun together. yes, my name is josh... -_- |
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May 25 2006, 09:14 PM
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 the name is ada. Group: Official Member Posts: 4,688 Joined: Dec 2005 Member No: 334,608 |
QUOTE(_sarcastic_ @ May 24 2006, 9:17 AM) good for you i like how you both agreed not to be in a relationship because you're moving away. like what Josh(?) and Holly said, you guys can still keep each other company and have fun together. I agree |
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