ahh!! need help!!, soo shy! |
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 May 11 2006, 06:41 PM
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so the guy i like ...likes me back...and we've made out a couple of times but he keeps telling me that i have to make a move too...but im scared to! one time after we kissed...he asked me once like 2 seconds after to kiss him...and i just couldnt!! and i dunno why! i really like him alot and i think hes gonna think i dont like him the same!! i dont want him to move on cuz i've liked him for a really long time (like 6 months out of the 1 yr i've known him) and i found out he liked me for a while also but never made a move since im 4 yrs younger than him and hes more advanced than me (i got my first kiss right around the time i met him...and he knew that)...so what can i do to make sure he knows i like him and that i am interested??
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May 11 2006, 06:45 PM
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 Newbie Group: Member Posts: 9 Joined: May 2006 Member No: 404,621 |
! th!nk you should do wat inside your heart.. if u feel like theres a future.. but if u feel like he is gonna be a jerk well den no!
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May 11 2006, 06:47 PM
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 Bay Area YadadaDiiiig. Group: Official Member Posts: 4,249 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 103,202 |
Well making out with him is a sure sign you like him.
Just ask him out already. He's asked you once and you said no for no reason when you really did like him because you were shy ? What's shy about saying yes. If you'd rather not him go on and forget about you ask him out. He told you he likes you, hes asked you out, he kisses you all the time. what's to be worried about at the moment. Ask him out. |
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May 11 2006, 06:47 PM
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 What the fack. Group: Official Member Posts: 6,164 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 8,519 |
I think that you should take a little initiative and just kiss him, instead of him just being the first one to start kissing. But then again, he should understand that since you're younger than he is, and not as experienced, that of course you'd be shy about making a move.
Everyone does things differently and at their own pace. You two will just have to find a way to compromise. |
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May 11 2006, 08:18 PM
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 the name is ada. Group: Official Member Posts: 4,688 Joined: Dec 2005 Member No: 334,608 |
Try to feel more confident and ask him out.Since you really like him,
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May 11 2006, 08:30 PM
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dont do anything... let him ask you out... its his job, hes the man. you shouldnt have to chase him down, but you do have to let him know you like him somehow... especially if you're 4 years younger than him... he might feel bad comming on to you if your that much younger than him without knowing that you like him...
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May 14 2006, 09:13 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 101 Joined: May 2006 Member No: 405,463 |
try to spend more times with him then he might notice that you really like him for real :)
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May 15 2006, 01:00 AM
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GD. <3 Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 1,222 Joined: Aug 2005 Member No: 198,566 |
well, if you can't be brazen, then do the cute stuff. those little things that show him your care. notes, those random hugs, telling him you like him. etcetc.
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May 15 2006, 02:03 PM
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 <(- -)><(- - <)(>- -)><(- - )> Group: Member Posts: 646 Joined: May 2006 Member No: 400,609 |
QUOTE(Uronacid @ May 11 2006, 8:30 PM)  dont do anything... let him ask you out... its his job, hes the man. you shouldnt have to chase him down, but you do have to let him know you like him somehow... especially if you're 4 years younger than him... he might feel bad comming on to you if your that much younger than him without knowing that you like him... i agree and really if this guy likes you i mean really LIKES you he has no right to force you or presuade you into anything you are not ready. you should never have to do anything you dont want to and a true gentlemen understands that. or again he might be the really shy type and be embarrased to ask you out but really that is not an initiative to be all forcing you to ask him out so he can just go to his friends and brag that you asked him out. He should not feel embarrased of asking you out. GOOD LUCK. and remeber there are other guys out there not just him. |
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May 15 2006, 09:02 PM
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GD. <3 Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 1,222 Joined: Aug 2005 Member No: 198,566 |
^ true that, but he can't work on 0% initiative on his side. its logical that he might think its one sided if she always keeps her distance.
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