Love Life Chaos, Advice plz, ... in need of much help... but its gonna get REALLY LONG Options

[drummergirlmarim...]

hi, im lisa and im a freshman in california. im the perky kind of person i guess. i love smiling, hugging and am seriously tempted to tickle anyone ticklish, i hug, and link arms. and one last thing. im TOTALLY ditzy. many guys think that i like them cuz of my actions but i dont., not like that. i would like to change me, but i cant. its just ME! but anyways, my love life is in total chaos right now.

i like this one guy, A but he doesnt seem to like me at all (he doesnt talk to me in class, in the ahllways, etc. and he onlii talks to me when i go up to him.) he seems distracted when i talk to him and he only says hi when i say hi.

but on the other hand, this guy VC likes me, he told me so in valentines. i turned him down, saying i liked another, but he stills follows me around on campus and calls me on my cell phone (i gave my # to him before i knew) without any reason to call and wants ME to bring up a topic to talk about. he knows my whole schedule, he walks me to them even though i make it clear that i dont want him to, he knows my house phone though i didnt tell him, and since my skoo is very small and over populated, he tries to make a grab for my hand every time he gets the chance (which i avoid by jerking away or waving hi to some friend.) he is so like s stalker that it scarres me.

some guy G from the orchestra that im in liked me since the day we met (a performance at disneyland) and has been bothering me with i love u's and even pressured me into being his valentine!!! okay. but then one day he ims me saying "im happy" "im gonna win my nxt tennis match for this grl" and im like "okay, great" cuz i dont like him like that one bit. but what bothers me bout him is that every time something good happens between his new gf which is an 8th gr (hes a sophmore) he comes to report it to me! im like why are u telling me that??!?!? but anyways, our orchestra went to sanfransisco to go to a music festival to perform/compete. and when we went to fishermans something, he started acting like aJERK to me. he acted as if I LIKED him. he was like burping, taking my stuff, telling me sexual jokes that he noes i dont feel comfortable listening to and etc. when i said "arent you hot with that heavy jacket?" with pure intensions (i didnt want him to have heat exhaustion, etc) he was like "ohh, you want me to take off my clothes huh, sorry lisa, i noe you like me but it wont work. im already taken!"


this guy VW, he likes me he doesnt tell me but he he makes it very obvious. not going into details bout him cuz he doesnt bother me at all.

and lastly, this guy K likes me, he told me so before i went to sanfran he was like "oh yeah i need to tell u something before you go... i like you"

so bottom line is.... how do you turn down a guy that you wanna be good friends with and how can i get more close to A?

sry for making this so long, thank you for those who read up to here.