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 Jul 16 2006, 03:07 PM
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is it bad to get your friends to tell the guy you like you like him?
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Jul 16 2006, 04:57 PM
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 daughter of sin Group: Member Posts: 1,653 Joined: Mar 2006 Member No: 386,134 |
Yes.
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Jul 16 2006, 05:14 PM
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 roosternamedingo. Group: Member Posts: 1,211 Joined: Dec 2005 Member No: 333,926 |
tell him yourself... = ]
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Jul 16 2006, 05:17 PM
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it's better to tell him yourself
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Jul 16 2006, 05:59 PM
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 the name is ada. Group: Official Member Posts: 4,688 Joined: Dec 2005 Member No: 334,608 |
Its best to tell him yourself because he may think they`re playing around or something.
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Jul 16 2006, 08:15 PM
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from my experience it gives a better impression if you tell them urself
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Jul 16 2006, 08:34 PM
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 [BRITT;;] Group: Member Posts: 764 Joined: Jul 2006 Member No: 433,210 |
yes.
unless you're.. in like, first grade or something, where then it's acceptable. =D |
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Jul 16 2006, 09:42 PM
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 <3 Group: Member Posts: 3,657 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 64,493 |
not really
but i think it will be better if you tell him yourself. it's a little more personal |
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Jul 16 2006, 10:20 PM
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well i really would but whenever im around him theres always adults and i hardly ever get a chance to spend alone,and i dont want to tell him in front of my parents..=\
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Jul 16 2006, 11:14 PM
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 M0DED x] Group: Member Posts: 78 Joined: Jun 2006 Member No: 427,292 |
Yep, its bad to.
First of all; if you ask a friend to tell him, the word spreads around and *BAM* rumors may start and maybe everyone will keep coming up to you, to hear what you have to say about it. Second, my friend who's a guy said that it makes the guy feel special that you have a crush or like him. And like everyone stated, it makes it personal. Aww, well just ask him to go outside with you, then tell him. does he go to your school? |
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Jul 16 2006, 11:16 PM
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 What the fack. Group: Official Member Posts: 6,164 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 8,519 |
I wouldn't necessarily say it's a bad thing.
It's just that telling him yourself would be better because then he wouldn't consider the following possibilites: 1. You're playing mind games with him. 2. Your friends are lying. 3. Maybe you really do like him, but why couldn't you tell him yourself? He may think you're a coward. Also, things starting off between you, him, AND your friends isn't as good as things just starting off between you and him. If you like him, you should tell him yourself. Hope things work out. 
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Jul 16 2006, 11:17 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 1,476 Joined: May 2005 Member No: 135,305 |
Yes.
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Jul 16 2006, 11:21 PM
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you really have to trust your friend that you tell it to; b/c they can sometimes twist the story ;
w/ me, my friends were there for me 100%.. this had recently happened to me. my friends told my crush like two months ago [may] that i liked him. i thought he didnt like me, we did hug and everything [talk ofcourse]. then later on there were rumors that he was gonna ask me out [which i found hard to believe] --- it was then when he asked me out on my bday ! i was so happy lol [we'r still together too  ]
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Jul 16 2006, 11:48 PM
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QUOTE(katherinee @ Jul 16 2006, 11:14 PM)  Yep, its bad to. First of all; if you ask a friend to tell him, the word spreads around and *BAM* rumors may start and maybe everyone will keep coming up to you, to hear what you have to say about it. Second, my friend who's a guy said that it makes the guy feel special that you have a crush or like him. And like everyone stated, it makes it personal. Aww, well just ask him to go outside with you, then tell him. does he go to your school? nope,we go to different schools,and we only see each other at horse shows around a ton of other people..its hard to get away from everyone.  QUOTE(pinayprincess @ Jul 16 2006, 11:21 PM) you really have to trust your friend that you tell it to; b/c they can sometimes twist the story ; w/ me, my friends were there for me 100%.. this had recently happened to me. my friends told my crush like two months ago [may] that i liked him. i thought he didnt like me, we did hug and everything [talk ofcourse]. then later on there were rumors that he was gonna ask me out [which i found hard to believe] --- it was then when he asked me out on my bday ! i was so happy lol [we'r still together too ]this person is my best friend that i'm getting to do it. i'm probably one of the most shyest people you will ever meet. its so hard for me to talk to guys,and he's shy too and he told my best friend [one im getting to tell him] that he really liked me a lot but this was in february.
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Jul 17 2006, 09:38 AM
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Yeah, it's really bad to do that... It basicly tells him you are too afriad to talk to him...
If it was me I would think about all these other things *this is a thought stream*: -If I get in realationsihp with this girl it will never last. -If we ever have an issue in our relationship how will she handle it... -Most likley she will shy away from every problem we could possibly have... -Problems are inevitable in relationships... -Yet, people think that there is such a thing as a perfect relationship... -Haha... what if she needs to tell me something relaly important... -She'll probably have her freind tell me... -Yeah, and then I won't be able to get down to the nitty gritty becuase I'm not hearing it from the source... -This girl is a coward... -she's not ready for a relationship.. ^thats the sequence of thought that would run through my head.... |
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Jul 17 2006, 12:13 PM
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QUOTE nope,we go to different schools,and we only see each other at horse shows around a ton of other people..its hard to get away from everyone. this person is my best friend that i'm getting to do it. i'm probably one of the most shyest people you will ever meet. its so hard for me to talk to guys,and he's shy too and he told my best friend [one im getting to tell him] that he really liked me a lot but this was in february The only thing i can tell you, is that; all of this is just a learning process in life. Anyways; thats good your getting your best friend to do! Well i wish you both luck! haha
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Jul 17 2006, 01:48 PM
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yes i would say its bad...
and i hate that wen ppl do that...like my friend made me go ask her crush for his aim....and she wanted me and my other friend to go tell him that she likes him....even tho we r like totally no talking about my friend and stuff..like it annoys me and i think it is better off u telling ur crush u like him...instead of making ur friend tell him... |
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Jul 17 2006, 02:07 PM
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 show me a garden thats bursting to life Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 12,303 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 115,987 |
YES! It shows a weakness, that you're scared and if you really like him and yet you're scared you're never going to get anywhere.
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Jul 17 2006, 09:18 PM
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 <(- -)><(- - <)(>- -)><(- - )> Group: Member Posts: 646 Joined: May 2006 Member No: 400,609 |
yes. its more meaningful if you tell him that you like him =D
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Jul 18 2006, 11:01 PM
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 i'll spend forever loving you. Group: Member Posts: 571 Joined: Jun 2006 Member No: 431,524 |
if YOU really like HIM, you should be able to tell him yourself. you can't have a relationship through a pact of messengers for you.
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