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 Apr 18 2006, 08:47 PM
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im despirate so ill just get right to the point. theres this girl at school i like and i need advice on how to talk to her. i can never get up the courage and the 1 or 2 times i did ... it didnt end up very well. we have no mutal friends and the only class i have with her is the only class i have with my ex girlfriend, who is determined to ruin my life
  . my friends act like assholes to her and her friend told her i was a jerk. what can i do?!??
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Apr 18 2006, 11:21 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 1,220 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 81,808 |
well; you need to MIND your ex, and just forget her... if shes making things bad , she obviously jealous - so make your move! before its too late!
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Apr 18 2006, 11:33 PM
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 101708 <3 (: Group: Member Posts: 253 Joined: Feb 2006 Member No: 382,431 |
you should ignore your ex. and prove her friend wrong by NOT being a jerk
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Apr 18 2006, 11:33 PM
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 dakishimetainoni... Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 4,322 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 75,318 |
Be yourself around the girl. Prove that her friend was wrong about you and tell your friends to stop acting out around her.
Say hi to her, talk to her, and be polite. |
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| *mipadi* |
Apr 19 2006, 09:26 AM
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My rule of thumb: If it takes a lot of effort to interact with a person, and you're the one putting all the effort into it, it's probably not going to happen anyway. Relationships usually happen naturally and are not forced.
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Apr 19 2006, 09:49 AM
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 omnomnom Group: Member Posts: 1,776 Joined: Jul 2005 Member No: 180,688 |
Well, muck up the courage to talk to her. Write her a note if you can't. Just do something to talk to you because most likely, she's not going to start liking you out of the blue. Also, tell your friends to stop being assholes to her. What did she ever do?
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Apr 19 2006, 11:16 AM
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 <3 Group: Member Posts: 3,657 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 64,493 |
ignore your ex, she's just jealous of that girl. prove to her that you can get this girl and that you're not a jerk
before going up to her take a deep breath? say hi, and start up a casual convo |
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Apr 19 2006, 05:43 PM
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 CertifiedMusic Group: Member Posts: 58 Joined: Apr 2006 Member No: 395,636 |
Why cant you talk to her? Just go up to her and say hi. If you want somethung... go after it...
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Apr 19 2006, 05:49 PM
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i cant really pass a note to her cause my x, one way or another got me on the other side of the roomand nomatter what i do she sits next to me and throws notes in my face (most of the time she actually throws them at my face) and with my friends, most of them dont know who i like so they're just natually idiots -- example: this guy jeremy was transfered into our lunch , i dont know him that well but i allway thought he was ok. he didnt get lunch so near the end of lunch he decided to go over to the girl i like, pick up the last of her food, take a bite and come back over and sit down next to me with it. a long story short her friend told her i was a.. i think the word was bastard.. because a misunderstanding between my ex best friend and her friend. also one of my only friends who know desides to push me into her in the hallway a few times. aside from all that the few times i did get enuff courage to talk to her my ex allways seems to find me. ive talked to her 3 or 4 times and she has said no more than 2 words- although she is really shy
not to mention shes a thousand times outta my league |
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Apr 19 2006, 09:21 PM
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HELP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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Apr 19 2006, 10:19 PM
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 What's my name? Janette. and ily. <3 Group: Member Posts: 2,139 Joined: Apr 2006 Member No: 391,911 |
Be friends with her first, just be kind. Act like yourself, and if you work hard enough for the soon-to-be relationship, you'll get it, trust me
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| *mipadi* |
Apr 19 2006, 10:50 PM
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QUOTE(Stephan @ Apr 19 2006, 6:49 PM)  not to mention shes a thousand times outta my league If you tell yourself that she's out of your league, then you're never going to have a chance. You have to decide if she really is out of your league, or if you're just telling yourself that. If she really is, then don't bother with her; if she isn't, then don't think that and you'll feel a lot more comfortable with the situation. |
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Apr 19 2006, 11:00 PM
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Definitely not a good thing that your ex-girlfriend's so jealous that she would get others to be on her side. Yes, girls can be evil even though I'm one myself. Telling from what I see and hear about others at school, or me being evil to my crush. I can't help it, but I'm not going into that.
Hmm, just make sure that your affection for this new girl wouldn't turn into a war or something with your ex-girlfriend, just to prove that you're better than everything she has said about you. I'm sure it isn't that, but I'm just telling you, watch out in the future. Anywho, if you really want to talk to her, you know what you can do? Take one moment in class or when you guys are eating lunch, and somehow casually wound up in her presence. Especially around her friends. you know how I met my crush? It was really awkward, but the first time I talked to him, when I was being picked on my friend, this fat kid. Lol, he teases me on being small and likes to push me around to annoy me. Anyway, what I'm saying is that if you want to get to know this girl, you can try to get to know her by standing up for her (my crush did that. he got into a mini-fight with the dude just because of what he was doing to me!). Or simply hang around with her friends and your friends, and then casually get closer to her. Not close close, but close enough to talk about something that you guys are already talking about, or if you know she likes something, somehow bring it up in the conversation. Even though you don't have mutual friends, I am sure that there is someone that you might even know as a classmate that could be a reason for you to talk to her. Hope this helps! |
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Apr 20 2006, 09:24 PM
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well i did try that allready- my x was makein fun of her being to tall (and im way to short) an i didnt really seem to help she looked at us a little and kinnda just ignored us- she isnt a real talkative person, which makes this a lot harder
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Apr 20 2006, 09:34 PM
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to make this a little easier the girl i like's name is Jenna and my x's name is raine
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Apr 20 2006, 09:37 PM
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You have to ingnore your ex, as hard as it seems.
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Apr 21 2006, 03:48 AM
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that pisses me off. i would go up to ur ex and sock her in the f**king face. i dont give a f**k. sh*t talking hoe. f**k her ass up. as for the girl u like, i know its hard, but u gotta show interest in her if u want to get anywhere.
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Apr 21 2006, 09:19 PM
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lol corizzle yeah i have a lot of people that would like to do that but i dont think getting myself expelled would help much with Jenna (my crush)
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| *My Cinderella.* |
Apr 22 2006, 10:44 AM
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QUOTE(pinayprincess @ Apr 19 2006, 12:21 AM) well; you need to MIND your ex, and just forget her... if shes making things bad , she obviously jealous - so make your move! before its too late! ^ Agreed with PinayPrincess. Forget your ex, if she's trying to ruin your life then you don't need that. Whenever you get the chance or whenever you see a good oppurtunity grab it! For example, if you need a pencil (pretend to ask everyone for one) then ask her. If she doesn't have one, then at least you got a chance to talk to her! If she drops something, I guess you can help her out and pick it up for her. Good luck. |
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Apr 23 2006, 09:03 PM
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Member Group: Member Posts: 13 Joined: Apr 2006 Member No: 395,303 |
yeah thats what ive been trying to do but i never get the chance
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