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Stalker, - Someone I never liked
seremela_culnamo
post Apr 3 2006, 10:49 PM
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The topic title and topic description really says it all, but it started happening last week.

So there's this guy in my politics class in first semester. I only talked to him like what? Five times before I dropped the course. Anyway, so I hardly know this dude at all. Later last semester, he started to come out of nowhere and started poking me. "Okay, what's the deal? O-well. He's probably just one of those who have no life, but likes to bother girls by poking them". I told myself that, but this semester, it got worse.

Starting last week, he appears everywhere I go. I am so freaked out by him, I will walk to the other side of the hall and away from my friends if he's walking by. He starts skipping class to stay with my friends and I during our spare, his poking is somewhat more like feeling, he grabs onto my hands, he flicks and plays with my hair, he takes me stuff -takes the chance to touch me and etc. He's so annoying and freaky, that I have been telling him repeatedly how annoying he is and told him to get lost. That's the first time I have ever been mean to anyone (well, compared to my siblings! =P) and yet, he still doesn't get it. I actually shoved him out of the way and screamed at him in the hall when he hugged me. Dude! I do't like people getting into physical contact, especially if I don't like you. & the only person who can is someone else or my good/best friends!

I have gone to the point when I'm obvious, aside from telling him to go away. When he asked me for my MSN, I was like "I don't have MSN", but he knew I was lying, so I told him I forgot about my e-mail address. At that point, I really didn't care how mean I can get. & you know what's sad? Before this all happened, he knew my name, but I told him he was wrong. & guess what did he do? He went around asking all the guys for my name. Seriously, what the heck? Then he comes looking for me and asking my friends where I am all the time. My friends know so they tell him I'm sick or whatever. They are annoyed, too. Geez, my best friend tried to get him away from me by saying that she has something really important to tell me. But what does he do? He stands there and doesn't go away! Geez, it's really annoying me. If he was cute and actually someone I know and has a great personality, I wouldn't mind as much. But hello? He doesn't match any of those!

I actually asked my mom about what I should do. But she wasn't even taking it seriously. This dude really freaks me out and when people tell me that he likes me, even people who don't see us together can guess the stalker is him, I thought my mom will be serious. But guess what does she say? She tells me to tell my friend to go scare him off or beat him up if he bothers me again. This "friend" is someone who she thought that I was dating, and even though we didn't, a lot of stuff has gone between us and as of right now, I'm not talking to him. I'm pretending that my friend isn't even there. That's a whole different issue anyway.

What should I do?
 

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seremela_culnamo   Stalker   Apr 3 2006, 10:49 PM
Ice Cream 4 U   Well, I think (even though you might not want to ...   Apr 3 2006, 11:09 PM
yanners   Moved to Relationships   Apr 4 2006, 03:11 AM
Preeti   You could tell yout teachers about it. When they k...   Apr 4 2006, 04:23 AM
Chii   I think you should tell him that you really don...   Apr 4 2006, 01:59 PM
x__Elle.   Jesus, that's really, REALLY scary.. QUOTE(Ch...   Apr 11 2006, 10:40 PM
Tribal J_Rome   ^no need to get all technical, you know what she m...   Apr 4 2006, 02:18 PM
Kounouri   well, you already mentioned that you screamed in h...   Apr 4 2006, 03:40 PM
REBELnDISGUISE   Like... hes he's really harassing you... I thi...   Apr 4 2006, 04:27 PM
marzipan   i would tell a teacher for her/him to watch him an...   Apr 4 2006, 04:42 PM
xXMomoBubbleTeaXx   WOW!!.. Thats kind of freaky. No, that is ...   Apr 4 2006, 05:30 PM
INSANITY IS LAUGHING   I think telling a teacher or principal is your bes...   Apr 4 2006, 09:35 PM
L!ckitySplit   i know a girl like that, i hate her. and she knows...   Apr 4 2006, 09:42 PM
CandyCorn.   QUOTE(L!ckitySplit @ Apr 4 2006, 7:42...   Apr 5 2006, 08:59 PM
seremela_culnamo   It's getting more out of hand everyday. Two da...   Apr 4 2006, 10:42 PM
xbabyboo   Restraining Order! (I think I spelled it right...   Apr 6 2006, 10:39 PM
pandamonium   What i think is that you should talk to him. Don...   Apr 7 2006, 12:11 AM
omgRAWRR   mkay i know just what you mean andd, i've had ...   Apr 8 2006, 12:34 AM
APPLEjuicex   just becuase hes doing all that doesnt mean hes st...   Apr 8 2006, 01:02 AM
Teenage Mutant Ninja Meg   If you've told him not to touch you and he sti...   Apr 8 2006, 04:00 PM
Spiritual Winged Aura   Tell him in a hard tune. " i dont want to be...   Apr 11 2006, 04:19 PM
lavandercat   You have a serious problem here!!!...   Apr 11 2006, 09:37 PM
ashopely   Okay, you said when he comes you run from your fri...   Apr 13 2006, 05:12 PM
damn penguin.   if he ever tries to hug.. or touch you in a way yo...   Apr 13 2006, 10:37 PM
Paul M. is baaack   Somebody trying to talk to you is very often seen ...   Apr 14 2006, 04:36 PM
im just a stupid worthless boy   stay with friends and dont get too close to him   Apr 14 2006, 09:56 PM
seremela_culnamo   Thanks for all the advice everyone. Anywho, I hur...   Apr 14 2006, 11:40 PM
x__Elle.   ^ What a f**king loony, man. You should've be...   Apr 14 2006, 11:54 PM
ashopely   I'm glad he's finally getting the idea.   Apr 15 2006, 12:21 AM
oneandonlytammie   I'm glad he's leaving you alone! This ...   Apr 15 2006, 08:47 AM


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