Does this sound mean?! PLEASE HELPP |
 Mar 17 2006, 02:25 AM
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i did alot more than hook up wit this guy n i never want it to happen agen.... but i dont want to be mean ....
"thanx for inviting me to the party last night. im glad u had fun. but about that im not sure how i let what happened happen but i do know that its not something im looking for or want right now. i dont know why i didnt stop u and i guess thats my own fault but i do know that i dont want that now. i think ur a really sweet guy and im sorry if i was leading u on in some way and i hope we can still b friends" some one said the underlines part is too mean...but i think its ok...plz help and if it is too mean what should i change it to? |
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Mar 17 2006, 06:56 AM
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i think it's alright
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Mar 17 2006, 09:20 AM
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you're speaking honestly, and not too bluntly. it's fine
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Mar 17 2006, 12:10 PM
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 in the reverb chamber. Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 4,022 Joined: Nov 2005 Member No: 300,308 |
It's professional.
Although, I think you really do know why you let what happened happen. Unless you were wasted? Were you wasted? 
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Mar 17 2006, 01:11 PM
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i had one beer...and i really odnt know y i let it happen...i told my self if he tries n e thing ill stop him n he did n i dint...i dunno
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Mar 17 2006, 01:13 PM
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in the reverb chamber. Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 4,022 Joined: Nov 2005 Member No: 300,308 |
QUOTE(blurrr @ Mar 17 2006, 12:11 PM)  i had one beer...and i really odnt know y i let it happen...i told my self if he tries n e thing ill stop him n he did n i dint...i dunno I still don't believe you don't know. I can grant that you may be a bit confused on the issue, as you do seem so. However, I think you have a very clear ideas was to why you might have let happen what did. Do some introspection and figure it out. If you truly wanted him to stop, why didn't you stop him? |
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Mar 17 2006, 04:59 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 165 Joined: May 2005 Member No: 135,549 |
i reallt do not no y i dint stop him then...i did stop him later when he tried something else...dunno...
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Mar 17 2006, 07:30 PM
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I think it's fine, as long as it's your honest opinion.
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Mar 18 2006, 10:07 AM
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Naw it's not mean. I think it's a good way fo saying how you really feel.
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Mar 18 2006, 05:25 PM
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 Hello There. Group: Member Posts: 1,572 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 88,673 |
its alright.
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Mar 22 2006, 09:54 PM
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 oh boober. Group: Member Posts: 224 Joined: Feb 2006 Member No: 375,884 |
one beer? and you had sex with a guy you dont know?
okay.. anyway i think that letter says all. |
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Mar 23 2006, 04:17 PM
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 Word. Group: Member Posts: 3,004 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 34,673 |
it's pretty good.
u could accentuate some parts tho. |
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Mar 23 2006, 04:39 PM
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I don't know why you don't want to sound mean. Telling the people the complete and blunt truth helps them learn the hard way, though it will make you feel guilty, it'll let them know how it's really like.
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Mar 24 2006, 09:08 AM
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 × Dead as Dillinger. ♥ Group: Member Posts: 1,527 Joined: Mar 2006 Member No: 384,615 |
I don't think it's mean. It's getting straight to the point.
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Mar 25 2006, 10:44 AM
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 what a moon tonight. Group: Member Posts: 517 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 33,772 |
it`s honest and shows him exactly how you feel.
it`s good. |
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Mar 25 2006, 10:50 AM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 950 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 30,808 |
It's not mean, you're just expressing what you believe, and that's good. =]
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Mar 25 2006, 09:18 PM
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Syar Group: Member Posts: 23 Joined: Mar 2006 Member No: 388,958 |
It sounds O.K, because you have to tell them straight up for them to understand, or they will think they you are joking around with them.
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Mar 25 2006, 11:09 PM
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wow don't get mad at the dude just cuz u acted like a slut, take responsibility for your own actions...
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Mar 25 2006, 11:20 PM
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 My name's Katt. Nice to meet you! Group: Member Posts: 3,826 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 93,674 |
^ She's not mad at him. She's apologizing and trying to straighten things out. Stop jumping to conclusions.
QUOTE "thanx for inviting me to the party last night. im glad u had fun. but about that im not sure how i let what happened happen but i do know that its not something im looking for or want right now. i dont know why i didnt stop u and i guess thats my own fault but i do know that i dont want that now. i think ur a really sweet guy and im sorry if i was leading u on in some way and i hope we can still b friends" That sounds good, but it could be organized a bit better, if it makes a difference. Here's what I would write: Thank you for inviting me to the party last night. It was a blast. However, I don't want what happened last night to affect our relationship as friends. I'm not ready for commitment right now and I'm sure that you don't want to get involved in anything that might rupture our friendship. I just wanted to let you know that I take full responsibility for my actions, and I made the wrong choices. I hope that I didn't make an impression of leading you on, but I hope you'll accept my apology. I just hope we can still be friends. |
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Mar 26 2006, 04:14 PM
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QUOTE(Paradox of Life @ Mar 25 2006, 8:20 PM) ^ She's not mad at him. She's apologizing and trying to straighten things out. Stop jumping to conclusions. That sounds good, but it could be organized a bit better, if it makes a difference. Here's what I would write: Thank you for inviting me to the party last night. It was a blast. However, I don't want what happened last night to affect our relationship as friends. I'm not ready for commitment right now and I'm sure that you don't want to get involved in anything that might rupture our friendship. I just wanted to let you know that I take full responsibility for my actions, and I made the wrong choices. I hope that I didn't make an impression of leading you on, but I hope you'll accept my apology. I just hope we can still be friends.  gimmie a break!!! that kid would look at u and think you have issues... believe me dont get too caught up in yourself any dude that hooks up w/ a girl isnt automatically lookin for a relationship they just wanna hit so calm down he just wanted sum P**sy and u gave it to him.
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Mar 26 2006, 08:19 PM
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 Naughty... Group: Member Posts: 135 Joined: Mar 2006 Member No: 388,724 |
QUOTE gimmie a break!!! that kid would look at u and think you have issues... believe me dont get too caught up in yourself any dude that hooks up w/ a girl isnt automatically lookin for a relationship they just wanna hit so calm down he just wanted sum P**sy and u gave it to him.Sure, every guy that hooks up with a girl isn't automatically looking for a relationship, but not every guy that hooks up with a girl just wants "some p**sy" as you call it. It's better for her to say something like the person suggested, then to just ignore it and let there be a chance that the guy really did think there was something there. Oh, and I don't think that's mean at all. Honesty is, as always, the best policy. |
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Mar 27 2006, 10:13 PM
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 You can't keep running from what you're trying to find. Group: Official Member Posts: 5,030 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 54,096 |
i think you should add why you did what you did, exactly. like how you weren't thinking straight or something. other then that it's good
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Mar 28 2006, 05:16 PM
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nothings mean about that comment, and if he gets offended, well the truth hurts, and you'd be hurting him more if you didnt let him on about how you felt. :)
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Mar 28 2006, 09:59 PM
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victim of myspace.com Group: Member Posts: 395 Joined: Mar 2006 Member No: 386,435 |
I don't see a problem with it.
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Mar 29 2006, 12:13 PM
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as long as its the truth, and you're not being a b***h about it. let him down easily. don't hurt him if he really likes you. still tell him, but.. easily. what you wrote sounds perfectly understandable. to the point, truthful, and not completely evil.
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