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 Mar 17 2006, 12:24 AM
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 101708 <3 (:  Group: Member Posts: 253 Joined: Feb 2006 Member No: 382,431  |
well.. you see i have this bf. and i like and care about him a lot.. but then i'm older than him by like around 6 months and sometimes he acts really immature. also, sometimes it seems like he's really emo and i don't wanna hurt him by breaking up with him. but it feels like something's wrong by staying in this relationship tho. what should i do??
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| *mipadi* |
Mar 17 2006, 12:44 AM
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What do you like about him?
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Mar 17 2006, 12:47 AM
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101708 <3 (: Group: Member Posts: 253 Joined: Feb 2006 Member No: 382,431 |
mmm well he's like always there for me and all. also, he treats me wayyy better than my ex did. but lately, it seems like he's changing and being really immature
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Mar 17 2006, 09:02 AM
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 × Dead as Dillinger. ♥ Group: Member Posts: 1,527 Joined: Mar 2006 Member No: 384,615 |
What does he get all emo about?
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Mar 17 2006, 09:19 AM
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i'm in a relationship with a guy who's a year younger me. and i know how you feel about the immaturity part. i'm okay with it because he knows when to act serious. i think you should make sure if your boyfriend knows when it's time to joke around and when it's time to be serious.
about the emo part, just talk to him about it. plus, it shows you care about him. :] he should respect your thoughts if he truly loves you if you're hesitant of talking to him. |
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Mar 17 2006, 09:22 AM
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 yan lin♥ Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 14,129 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 13,627 |
^ she didn't say that he got "all emo." she said that he's immature.
how old are you? say that you're...14 and you're dating a guy 6 months younger than you. obviously he'd be really immature, guys at that age haven't matured yet. so, you should talk with him a bit about what really irks you about him. |
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Mar 17 2006, 12:08 PM
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 in the reverb chamber. Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 4,022 Joined: Nov 2005 Member No: 300,308 |
If you don't like him, break it up.
It's the best for both of you. To hold onto the relationship because you're afraid of "hurting" him is selfish, shortsighted, and just wrong. Remember, honesty is the best policy. If you want it to end, end it. Otherwise, everyone will come out "hurting" a lot more. |
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Mar 17 2006, 10:18 PM
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101708 <3 (: Group: Member Posts: 253 Joined: Feb 2006 Member No: 382,431 |
mmm... yah okay thanks for the help (:
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Mar 17 2006, 10:23 PM
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 Bay Area YadadaDiiiig. Group: Official Member Posts: 4,249 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 103,202 |
QUOTE(yanners @ Mar 17 2006, 6:22 AM)  ^ she didn't say that he got "all emo." she said that he's immature. how old are you? say that you're...14 and you're dating a guy 6 months younger than you. obviously he'd be really immature, guys at that age haven't matured yet. so, you should talk with him a bit about what really irks you about him. Yeah she did. She said QUOTE sometimes it seems like he's really emo and i don't wanna hurt him
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| *Blow_Don't_SUCK* |
Mar 18 2006, 08:09 AM
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Isn't emo being sensitive and suddenly becoming open-minded? isn't that the beginning of maturity?
oh well. I think you're also being immature for staying with him just because you pity him. Seriously. It'll hurt even more if you break up with him later
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Mar 18 2006, 05:30 PM
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I agree with Yen, don't be afraid of that. Do what YOU need to do, perhaps it would be better of for the both of you.
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Mar 22 2006, 09:53 PM
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 oh boober. Group: Member Posts: 224 Joined: Feb 2006 Member No: 375,884 |
emo?
puahahaha is he going to cry when you break up with him? poorbaby. but honestly dont date guys younger than you unless they are really mature because it gets on your nerves. you think 6 months isnt a lot and then later on you get sick of him and you feel like his mother trying to get him to calm down. |
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Mar 23 2006, 01:22 AM
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 banangst ♥ Group: Member Posts: 727 Joined: Sep 2005 Member No: 237,399 |
dont stay in a the relationship if the only reason you didn't break up is guilt.
you mention sometimes a lot in your post, try thinking about the positive things he does for you. |
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Mar 23 2006, 02:20 AM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 277 Joined: Feb 2006 Member No: 381,654 |
to me it all sounds immature b/c 6 months is really not a big gap in age... 6 months is nowhere near a sufficient amount of time where 2 levels of maturity can be distinguished, maybe its just your bf is immature-period... get an older dude that knows how to give you orgasms it will be a much better relationship. trust me
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Mar 23 2006, 07:20 PM
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well i say .. depending on yalls age .. you should talk to him .. if he has been mature before than its in there somewhere .. maybe he started hanging out with someone new who may have changed him .. talk to him about when you first started dating and how it used to be liek perfect .. it may get through to him .. goodluck
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