50 things guys should know about girls Options

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I found this on a different forum and thought it was interesting. ^_^

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50 Things Guys Should Know About Girls


1. Girls hate man-whores. A little suggestive flirting is nice, but past that, discreetness is the key.

2. Girls get nervous on the phone just as much as guys do, if they really like the guy.

3. Often enough, girls fall in love, and guys fall in lust.

4. Girls love making the guy that they like laugh.

5. If they say something dumb or obvious, they’ll think about it afterwards and be frustrated for the rest of the day.

6. Girls HATE it when you talk about ex-girlfriends.

7. Girls especially hate it when you talk to your ex-girlfriends.

8. Girls can get jealous and competitive extremely easily.

9. Girls tell their friends everything…especially about the guys they fancy. So if you want to get in with her friends, you’ve got to be extra sweet.

10. Girls can get easily jealous if they see you talking to another girl, but most likely they won’t say anything.

11. If your girl is trying to be open with you and talk about her problems, you should at least listen, even if you don’t want to hear it. Contrary to the popular belief, girls seldom talk about the things that are really bothering them, so don’t brush her off or you’ll just get her even more upset.

12. Most girls are extremely insecure about their bodies, so a little reassurance can go a long way.

13. Girls love it when you say their names; it’s more personal that just saying, “Hey, you.”

14. Girls freak out when a guy’s birthday comes around and usually they have trouble finding something just perfect.

15. Believe it or not, she wants to hear about your problems, even if you don’t want to hear about hers.

16. Most girls aren’t too shallow, so you don’t have to be perfect – just don’t be a jerk.


17. Just because you’re a guy doesn’t mean you have an excuse for acting like an ass, and it annoys the hell out of girls when you use that as an excuse.

18. If a girl starts crying, just hold her and tell her it’ll be alright; there’s no need for any profound or especially deep statements. Just be comforting and you’ll score points.

19. Girls change their minds A LOT.

20. If you make her mad you always apologize, even if you don’t understand why she’s mad.

21. Girls hate being treated like they’re whores.

22. If you’re trying to be funny and what you’re saying is completely dumb sounding, a girl will still laugh because she wants to make you feel good about yourself.

23. Girls LOVE gentlemen. Open the door for her, tell her she looks nice, if you burp say “Excuse me”. Being trashy and Neanderthal-ish is the worst way you can act.

24. If a girl is talking about her problems, don’t try to tell her what to do. Just be there for her, unless it’s something really serious.

25. If you’re going to break up with a girl, don’t try to act normal just before you do it. Try to avoid her right before – that acts as a red flag and she knows something’s up, that way it doesn’t come as such a shock.

26. If you’re buying her a gift, you have to put some thought into it. Being sweet and sentimental is always a plus.

27. If she wants to talk about your relationship, it doesn’t automatically mean she’s breaking up with you or she cheated on you. Chances are she’s spotted a problem and wants to fix it before it becomes a bigger deal.

28. It’s nice to be called hot, but what girls really want is to be called beautiful, or at least pretty. Those don’t have as much of a sexual meaning as hot and that makes them feel more respected.

29. When a girl calls you for no apparent reason or she “can’t remember” why she called, it was because she was lonely and probably just wanted to hear the sound of your voice.

30. Girls think way too much, about EVERYTHING. It can be something as insignificant as the way the walk – but they will worry about it.

31. Never ever push a girl for sex. That will lead her to not trust you.

32. Sometimes girls just want to be held.

33. If you think you know everything about her, you’re wrong. Girls always keep secrets buried deep inside, and you can count on never knowing absolutely everything.

34. Never ask a girl personal questions when you’re around other people, because embarrassment leads to anger.

35. If a girl gets her hair cut, or new clothes, show her you notice. Most likely she’ll smile.

36. Girls absolutely LOVE it when you get protective over them, or when you threaten someone they don’t like, ex: their ex-boyfriend(s).

37. If a girl really likes/loves you, she wants to know the stuff that’s going in your life.

38. Don’t ever ask a girl how much she weighs, or even her pants size for that matter, even if she’s stick-thin. Girls are already under pressure to thin and perfect-looking and she worries what you think.

39. Girls like macho-men, but only if they have a soft side to make the balance work.

40. Sometimes girls end up getting frustrated and going for older men because they think that the guys their age are stupid. It’s good sometimes to remind her that you’re mature (if you’re mature).

41. When a girl gets mad, she gets MAD. Leave her alone for a bit so she can vent, then apologize.

42. Sometimes girls can totally take things the wrong way, so make sure she knows exactly what you mean.

43. Girls hate guys that let them win at games and sports.

44. Girls can be damn vicious.

45. Girls don’t like guys who punch them or push them constantly, even if they’re doing so playfully. Once in a while doing it gently and just for play is alright, but doing it all the time is bad.

46. Just because a girl can get emotional doesn’t mean she’s a nutcase.

47. You can’t always blame PMS for a bad temper. Keep in mind that it might just be you being an ass.

48. Don’t try to French or fondle a girl in public – that’s classless. Hugs, holding hands, and tongueless kisses are okay.

49. Conversation is important, considering girls often remember a lot of the stuff you say. Intellectual conversations are a definite plus. Sometimes intellect turns a girl on more than anything.

50. Above all, girls mean well.