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jEllyBeaNs
post Nov 24 2005, 01:31 AM
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what would u do if ur bf/gf cheated or u caught them cheating, wut would u do?

if that happened to be...i would kILL EM' haha jk! but i really wouldn't kno wut i would do, i'd be heaRt broken, especially if i really caRed about them.
soo i'd probably would brake up with hiM.
 
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post Nov 24 2005, 05:13 AM
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I would break up with him. Once a cheater, always a cheater.
I don't know if I would still be able to trust him. I wouldn't want to end up getting hurt if he cheated on me again cry.gif Knowing that your boyfriend has been with another girl, its like "what has she got that I haven't"?
 
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post Nov 24 2005, 07:30 AM
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i'd break it off with him right after i find out he cheated on me.
agreed. once a cheater always a cheater
 
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post Nov 24 2005, 09:17 AM
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id break up. i wouldnt exactly.."kill" him, haha. but id still talk to him after we worked out all our issues.
 
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post Nov 24 2005, 09:33 AM
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i would take him back. sad.gif
 
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post Nov 24 2005, 09:34 AM
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kill them....in my mind.
break up with them, of course.
 
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post Nov 24 2005, 10:56 AM
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Well, it depends what the cheaters reaction is. If he tells me, and he's crying, begging, in tears. I'll probably work it out with him. I have to admit, I'd probably lose a lot of trust in him. But not enough to not talk to him anymore.
 
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post Nov 24 2005, 10:56 AM
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break up fo sho.
 
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post Nov 24 2005, 12:30 PM
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QUOTE(iNyCxShoRT @ Nov 24 2005, 10:56 AM)
Well, it depends what the cheaters reaction is. If he tells me, and he's crying, begging, in tears. I'll probably work it out with him. I have to admit, I'd probably lose a lot of trust in him. But not enough to not talk to him anymore.
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i saw this talk show and this guy told his wife that he cheated on her like 20+ times and he was crying and begging her to take him back but then awhile later he took her back onto the show and admitted that he kept cheating with more women. i think he took her on like 3 times.

i believe in "once a cheater always a cheater." if they did it once what's going to stop them from doing it again? after that, i get my answers and go. people like that aren't worth it.
 
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post Nov 24 2005, 12:44 PM
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ide be hurt , break up with them, and try not to talk to them as much as i can, and when im around that person ide act like "we" never happened, your pretty much erased from my memory.

If you got the nerve to cheat on me then ill be an even bigger ass and pretend i dont know you. ;] but im just saying that i think ide just dump em and ignore them for the longest time and end up having some friends with benafits thingy later on and then when i get bored ill just slowly not talk to them agian hehe
 
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post Nov 24 2005, 01:59 PM
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I really, really think it depends on the situation and the person whom you're dating. You might say now, "Oh, I'd break up with them and never talk to them again" but I'm guessing that once in that situation and it's like the love of your life, you might have a change of heart.

Once a cheater, always a cheater is not true. I know. At least not with everyone. You shouldn't make such an absolute statement.
 
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post Nov 24 2005, 02:01 PM
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Break up with them and never speak to them again?

They're just a girlfriend. I can live without them if they want to find "love" elsewhere.
 
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post Nov 24 2005, 05:03 PM
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QUOTE(M1SSxCHR1SSY @ Nov 24 2005, 12:59 PM)
I really, really think it depends on the situation and the person whom you're dating. You might say now, "Oh, I'd break up with them and never talk to them again" but I'm guessing that once in that situation and it's like the love of your life, you might have a change of heart.

Once a cheater, always a cheater is not true. I know. At least not with everyone. You shouldn't make such an absolute statement.
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Agreed.

My boyfriend cheated on me this summer and I always said "If you ever cheat, I will break up with you."

Alas, 5 months later, I am still with him. I could not break up with him, I love him with all my heart and I know he completely regrets it.

While it does take a lot of work to stay with the person and it takes a lot of strength to get your faith back in the person, it can be worth it.

Ps- Learn how to type, please.
 
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post Nov 24 2005, 05:27 PM
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I think it depends on the situation and stuff and what he did by cheating and how he feels. If it's evident that he regrets cheating, then I would probably take him back. If he kiss another girl, then I would lose a lot of trust, but I would probably not be able to break it off since I love him so much. However, if he slept with another woman, then it'll probably be over for a couple of months so I can just analyze my feelings and stuff. And, what he does during those months will determine if we'll get back together or not...
But no matter what, I would definitely lose a lot of trust in him and wonder what about me caused him to stray.
 
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post Nov 24 2005, 06:47 PM
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Break up.
 
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post Nov 24 2005, 07:20 PM
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Break up and stay friends.

Depending on the situation i would try to work it out and get back together.
 
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post Nov 25 2005, 01:08 AM
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break up with them on the spot + never talk to them. Cheating is the worst thing you can do in a relationship. The End
 
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post Nov 25 2005, 01:31 AM
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definitely break up with him. cheating is the worst thing you can do in a relationship.
 
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post Nov 25 2005, 01:35 AM
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I'm gonna kill that son of a bitch! And yet everyone cheats on me.
 
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post Nov 26 2005, 11:46 AM
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Ya'll say that you would break up with them, but believe me, it is hard.

It really depends on the a)extent of the cheating and b)the intensity/realness/intimate-ness of your relationship.
 
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post Nov 26 2005, 12:40 PM
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Trust is such a big issue in my relationships (Infact it's what it strives on) and what not, so if she cheated.....she's out the door.

LHHRS

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post Nov 27 2005, 04:07 PM
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yea once a cheater always a cheater.. especially if they cheat in a really seroius relationships. especially a divorce. no excuses
 
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post Nov 27 2005, 05:14 PM
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depends who he cheated with
but in general
break up with them...
or play some games of my own shifty.gif
 
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post Nov 27 2005, 05:25 PM
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if, by my definition of cheating, she cheats...


GRRRR.

i'd be mad. i'd break up with her, probably.
 
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post Nov 27 2005, 07:09 PM
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I would kick his ass, then I would find the *other b!tch* and kick her ass, then I would break up wit him and move on.
 
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