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 Mar 14 2006, 07:42 AM
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well, I think you should object. It's the way you think actually. If you trust your boyfriend and feel that he will just stick to watching porn, then you needn't worry. But still ,watching porn isn't healthy. It's a very bad way of portraying a very special relationship. I guess you need to speak to him to actually know why he wants to watch it. I mean, you shouldn't live with anything that you feel isn't right.
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Mar 14 2006, 10:40 AM
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I know my ex's did. I don't see the big problem at all. I dunno why but I can't stand when girls get offended at that. Guys are always gonna be like that. They watch pron and jack off it's how they are. Just like the girls who sit there for an hour getting ready to go somewhere. It's a fact of life. Haha besides, they may learn some new tricks. Shit I watch it to. It's higly amusing lol. =P
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Mar 14 2006, 10:47 AM
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 omnomnom Group: Member Posts: 1,776 Joined: Jul 2005 Member No: 180,688 |
I wouldn't really care. It's honestly no big deal, it's not like he's cheating on you with himself or something.. I would mostly laugh it it and use it as a topic of conversation.
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Mar 25 2006, 10:21 AM
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 what a moon tonight. Group: Member Posts: 517 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 33,772 |
haha.
 i dont have a boyfriend. and i dont have an ex either.so i dont have to worry. 
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| *AngelicEyz00* |
Mar 25 2006, 02:53 PM
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It's alright I guess, just as long as he doesn't make watching it a habit. But then again, the only sex tapes he watches is ours
 k I'm done 
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Mar 25 2006, 03:05 PM
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Yes he dose .. and i think its funny/gross at the same time but other then that .. I dont really care...
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Mar 25 2006, 03:10 PM
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i dont have a bf but i know alot of my guy friends do..and i dont mind if they watch porn..but its just sad when some brag about it...like one of my guy friends was bragging about having it on his psp.. dude..thats not a good thing to brag about..O.o
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| *Teenage Mutant Ninja Meg* |
Apr 2 2006, 01:18 PM
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I didn't vote, since none of them apply to me, but if I had a boyfriend that watched porn, I don't think I'd mind. He's a guy, and there's nothing you can really do about it. I know a few of my guy friends watch porn, and I just laugh.
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Apr 11 2006, 07:45 PM
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 `non;chalance Group: Member Posts: 700 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 95,113 |
^ I agree. I have a boyfriend and he occasionally watches it. I don't know if he actually sits there and masturbates to it but he doesn't enjoy it, or so everyone has told me. I don't mind though, he's a guy. It'll be weird for him NOT to watch it. Everyone has to watch it at least once in their life. All I know is that he knows who his real girlfriend is, and it's not those fake bimbos on that TV screen. :)
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| *swtcherriipie* |
Apr 12 2006, 04:21 PM
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Me and my boyfriend have really yummie sex , so he has no need of beating his meat to porn un-less were on the phone and were both turned on but we cant see each other, OR he has blue balls because i didnt feel like giving him any so he watches porn. To Ejaculate.
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Apr 12 2006, 04:25 PM
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 just another girl Group: Member Posts: 490 Joined: Apr 2006 Member No: 393,136 |
i'd beat the shit out of kyle if he ever looked at porn. i think its wrong and sick and yeah....i dont like it
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Apr 12 2006, 04:28 PM
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QUOTE(fathomlessdame @ Apr 12 2006, 5:25 PM)  i'd beat the shit out of kyle if he ever looked at porn. i think its wrong and sick and yeah....i dont like it Its not really SICK i mean its w/e.... I CARE BUT I MEAN WHAt am I suppose to do? 
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Apr 12 2006, 04:54 PM
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just another girl Group: Member Posts: 490 Joined: Apr 2006 Member No: 393,136 |
from what ive seen of what my brother looks at....its certainly pretty sick. but it is my opinion so yeah
i cant do much about what everyone else does. but i think i should be enough for my bf even if hes never seen me without clothes on. i'd just be like, am i not good enough for you? |
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Apr 12 2006, 05:19 PM
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My ex used to watch it.
When I first found out I got really upset, not because he was watching it, but because he was watching it... with two other guys. And I thought that was preetttty gross; but I got over it. I couldn't be hypocritical like that because I'm one of the few girls I know who has watched/watches it aswell; what made me feel insecure was that he had posters of naked women all over his room & stuff. I can understand the occasional urge; but he knew I hated how he had that all over his personal space. And the PUT UP MORE POSTERS. He was a d**k. NONETHELESS... I think it's natural for guys to have that urge and I don't really think that it says anything about a relationship. It's just... a raw feeling. And if/when you two become more sexually active, that may fade. Who knows. Be thankful that he's releasing his urges using videos, and not another girl. |
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Apr 14 2006, 05:55 AM
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i knew that my boyfriend watches porn even before i went out with him, his friends told me and then i found some on his fone. he was really embarrased. if it bothers you, talk to him about. it probably wont stop him but at least he'll know how you feel. it's really normal for guys.
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Apr 14 2006, 09:12 PM
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You definitely need to talk with him about porn. It would certainly make me sick if I had a boyfriend who looked at porn. *shudder* Honestly, if he's got you, he shouldn't be looking at other naked girls. At all.
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| *xcaitlinx* |
Apr 14 2006, 11:03 PM
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well here's an update on this whole situation. i ended up talking to him about it a couple of days after i posted this topic...(over a month ago) and it made me feel a lot better. he said that he watched it only once or twice a week, and sometimes even less than that. i told him how it made me feel insecure and uncomfortable with myself because i felt that i was constantly being compared to those pornstars. he felt really bad because i got emotional and he apologized and said that he didn't know that i felt that way. he didnt watch it with the intentions of hurting me. so after we had that talk, he said that he would stop watching porn..and i told him that if he wanted to then he could and i didn't want him to stop just because i want him to. he claimed that it wasn't because of me, and that it was because he realized that it's wrong and he doesn't need to anymore. i'm glad that i spoke with him about it because i felt a lot better and if i hadn't then i'd probably still feel like i did last month. thanks for all of your advice. =]
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Apr 16 2006, 07:48 PM
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 *I miss him* Group: Member Posts: 75 Joined: Apr 2006 Member No: 394,228 |
weeeeell my ex watches it
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Apr 18 2006, 04:58 AM
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honestly they proly jerkoff while watchin it,i kno alot of ppl that do,hahahaha,lmfao,
 o yeah i watch porno hahahaha |
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Apr 18 2006, 09:39 AM
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omnomnom Group: Member Posts: 1,776 Joined: Jul 2005 Member No: 180,688 |
I know, and it doesn't really matter to me, most guys are smart enough to know that girls like that don't even date that much. They also know that it's totally fakes anyway. Besides the point it's a natural thing, even girls watch porn.
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Apr 23 2006, 01:05 PM
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QUOTE(mickybeans @ Apr 11 2006, 8:45 PM) ^ I agree. I have a boyfriend and he occasionally watches it. I don't know if he actually sits there and masturbates to it but he doesn't enjoy it, or so everyone has told me. I don't mind though, he's a guy. It'll be weird for him NOT to watch it. Everyone has to watch it at least once in their life. All I know is that he knows who his real girlfriend is, and it's not those fake bimbos on that TV screen. :) agreed =) i heard that if guys dont masturbate to get.. that stuff out.. it starts hurting.. is that true? :S |
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Apr 23 2006, 01:07 PM
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QUOTE(iNyCxShoRT @ Mar 6 2006, 11:47 PM) I'm not sure if my boyfriend does, but I don't know. For some reason it bothers me, knowning he sees other girls naked  I agree, it would bother me if I knew. So, I just don't want to know. |
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Apr 23 2006, 02:07 PM
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hi everyone I'm new here. I am a guy and i was reading this interesting topic that you have posted. Here my opinion on it. If a guy watch porn than he should be ashame of himself and you should talk to your bf about it. It wrong for a bf to watch porn because it portray women as object and not as a person. It also give message for guy to think that women are only good for sex. It give sex a bad meaning to it. I mean sex in porn is whole bunch of people doing it with each other and there no meaning to it. It mean more than that. I also read that a lot of you said that when you found out that your bf watch porn it make you feel insecure and competive with those porn star. Well you shouldn't because you shouldn't be competing with them. If your bf love you than he would respect your body and your feeling. Sex it a beautiful thing between two loving marry couple. Not what you see in those video. The problem with porn is that it degrade women and destroy marriage and relationship. Those porn star you see or your bf watch is someone wife or daughter up on that TV screen. Ask yourself this question: How would I feel if other men look at me and stare at my body and only wanting me for sex? How would I feel if that was my wife or daughter up there and other men are looking at her? Porn also cripple men the ability to love. Because when a men or in this case some of your bf watch porn, he only loving a fantasy and not you. He looking to other women to satify him and not you. Porn let man think that womens are use an object instead of a person to be love. I'm glad to hear xcaitlinx that your bf respect you and your feeling and stop watching it. As for everyone else, Ladies talk to your bf and make him stop watching it because I KNOW that when he watch porn it really hurt you.
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Apr 30 2006, 04:40 PM
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Hello. I'm new here and I would really appreciate it, if I could have some reasonable advice.
I know that my boyfriend has a huge file on his computer dedicated to pornography and I know he has porn on his phone as I’ve been around him when he's shown his friends some of the videos he has. He's 23 going on 24 and I've just turned 20. Today because I choose not to participate in a sexual act which he understands I don't enjoy very well, he decided to go to his computer and watch Pornography. I court him not watching pornography which you pay for, or where the woman are actors but an actual home movie made by another woman, I don't doubt for a second that he hasn't downloaded this from lime wire, supernova or Kazaa. I confronted him about it and he said it's because he has a high sex drive and I have a low one, even though no matter how much I try to please him, he never is satisfied, and his excuse is he likes "variety". It upsets me that he is watching these amateur sex videos? I told him, it hurts me, and I was upset about it, but he doesn't care and said it's not any of my business and that he will continue to watch it because he's tired of me whining, when it's the first time this has happened. I just don’t know what to do, talking to him is like talking to a five-year old. |
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May 3 2006, 01:44 AM
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well my bf is a complete dingbat
and his sister put in his head thats its cheating.. i don't have a real problem with it 
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