boyfriend watches porn Options

[lordnetch]

hello this is a male speaking in a female forum because its good for people to understand the other side :D

ok first of as a guy who does watch porn
1. it doesnt not make me love my gf any less
2. the reason i watch it is because im bored and my gf isnt in the same town as i am so i do need "release" (because my parents are controling of my life i cant go see her when i want... it sucks... alot lol)
3. it is actualy one of the ways guys bond is though porn because talking about other things is a bit boring to us (depending on the guys and subject) why not talk about sex while watching porn it gives us ideas to use on our gfs (most of the guys i hang out with talk about their gfs in a good way and no its not all about sexy we help each other when we dont know how to tell our girlfriends something that might be embaressing or just awkward the ones who dont are people who mutualy joined in a sex buddy friendship)

now for those people who think that porn is a bad thing
1. get an open mind the world in not a perfect line of right and wrong it may be right to watch porn who are you to say it isnt your personal views, your parents, nothing in the world says the watching porn is a bad thing ( unless the person becomes addicted to it i will adress this later :D ) i even have a good point in my favor if your having sex and a pet is in the room do they turn and leave or do they watch, they watch as odd as it is they will watch

2. i will agree watching porn does give a bad view of girls but then again most people who watch porn dont ever expect a girl to jump around the room in a miniskirt screaming profanities about sex its a fantasy its not going to happen they know it wont, know what i dont like is that its only guys who are tageted with watching to much porn true girls dont watch as much but still dont just target men (unless addicted will be adressed later)

ok now for the people who want to know just when is some1 addicted to porn
1. they turn down a bj/handjob from their gf to go watch porn and masterbates
2. they have more than 10 gb of porn... honestly holy crap
2. you can tell you are addicted to porn when you are having sex with your gf/bf and thinking of a porn u watched instead of them honestly go seek help its not good its worse than some WOW addictions and those are just bad for every1

i think i ranted enough i hope i helped every1 understand that porn is not evil its not the devil but its not an angel either

any reply would be usefull so i know what people wish to know more of