Can you say confused..., my ex i dunno anymore Options

[Jayembe]

Well lets start at the beginning

1. i met him bout a year and a half ago and started liking him after like a month

2. He told me he liked me after 2 months. We didnt really hang out but we liked each othr for like a yr and a half

3.I moved closer to him like house wise,i thought we were ment to be, we even had the same intials and alot in common! , then i said i wanted to go farther but i wasnt sure a first. *something i really regret

4.We started goin out Halloween,i was so falling for him and i LOVED him very much i thought we culd never be ripped apart no matter what. We never fought or anything.

5.All was well until ALEX. I HATE this girl one of my worst enemies and i see her on his top 8 on myspace. I was like jus watch out i dont trust that girl i no what she is like!

6.Christmas came i hated christmas this past yr and i was looking foward to hanging out with him the next day! well his sister ruined it

7.ALEX decided to I.M. me the next hour and tell me she likes HIM!!! I tell him he says "okay?"

8. WORST PART he dumps me and says i wasnt old enough and his dad doesnt think its right! i was heart broken!

9.Then he stops likin me as much and starts likin ALEX!!

10. And finally i find out they're goin out and he lost his virginity to her wen ugh nvm u no the deal.

11.Now im alone and i look at his INFO and derr i c 12/17 wtf!!!!! he dumped me 12/29 i remebr and i dont think u forget the day u ask some one out

DO any of you think he was cheating or is the date messed up yes id ask him jus im afriad of being pulled in by his charm again! cus i still LOVE him jus i feel used cus i dunno anymore. i really cared bout him and if he cheated on me i dunno i need help with this PLZZZZZ.

[_sarcastic_]

maybe he cheated maybe he didn't
it's a good thing you guys broke up. he's not worth your time

[Hiphop d[-_-]b]

Well if its December 17th that he got with Alex, and December 29th that he broke up with you. Put two and two together.

But Lord, I know how you feel. But you can't linger around on your feelings and you cant stick around waiting for him forever and ever if he has clearly moved on. But don't try to push aside your feelings and pretend as if they arent there and lie to yourself about whether or not you are over him. Because the emotions and feelings will build up while they are off to the side and will explode in your face when you realize you are still in love with him. I speak from experience. Utizlize all the good times as well as bad and work on getting over him.

[*Blow_Don't_SUCK*]

Aw, I know how you feel. It happens quite often! You know, you sound like a sincere and nice girl. I don't see how he would dump you for, that dreaded, Alex...

Well you'll always move on. If you really are in love with him and then you get depressed, look into friends or simple things that can make you happy.

[Jayembe]

AWWW thanks u guys u really helped me but jus a couple minutes ago i talked to him bout it and i was like
how come u told me u werent goin out with alex in january wen it says u guys started in december hmmm
and he was like did i say that and i was like yea....and u no what else is weird u started goin out with her wen we broke up the 29th think bout it and i signed off! oooo i got him good i wanna c what he says tomrow whata loser

[NgocQuyen]

awwhs i'm sorry to hear about that! ughhs i HATE guys like that...he wasn't worth your time anyways ! lols...i think he was being a TOTAL donkey and i hate to say it but i think he might have been cheating on you...ughs....how lame....that alex girl should just go run into a wall and save me a swing of my fist....

[Chii]

why do you still care?

big deal if he cheated on you or not, that was almost 2 months ago. why keep dwelling on a possible cheater who can't even give you the truth and used a lame excuse to break up with you for someone else?

there are other things that are more important than some ass.

[xTINAA]

why do you still care?

cus i still LOVE him

ANYWAY,
I think you should just be straight up with him instead of playing games and IMing him and then signing off right quick. It'd be best to just ask him what went on and if you think he's lying then you'll have to just live with it. You can't change him, y 'know what I mean?
Man, sometimes boys suck haha

[pinayprincess]

i think he was just having that love triangle trouble... ive been through it [been on your ex's position] yep; he played you, but dont worry its karma, things will fly back at him... i dont think he was cheating on you, although there could be that chance that he flirted with the girl & talked to her alot =/

[btw, i love the smilies you put lol]

[FoxBandCutie08]

I had something of the sort happen to me, except he broke up with me for my best friend. He was cheating on me, but I hope that's not the case with you. You'd probably have to ask, but I'm not sure thateven then he would tell you the truth.

[Jayembe]

Ehh but ever since i found out about this i truly have lost my feelings for him but its just sort of weird becaouse now i dont trust anyone and im all careful and just when i learned how to respect and trust other people and stop using them it comes back it just sucks that i learned not to do it and i changed to a better person and some one does something like thsi to me.

Well if he truly cares he will say something to me eventually otherwise i dont care nymore