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 Feb 20 2006, 06:50 PM
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If you recently have a great relationship with someone, even though it's long distance. but you find yourself falling for someone you've liked since the beginning of the year again. & you realize how close you're becoming. would you give it all up to go after a long dream?
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Feb 20 2006, 07:06 PM
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well... i'd WANT to, but no... i have to finish what i started; i cant let ANYBODy interfier with me & my boyfriend...
if it were long distant; then thats a different story, but thinking now; i'd probably let him go i've gone through that many times before [for my ex wanting me again] but i couldnt go to him b/c i have a bf... he understood [now we'r bestfriends, be he sometimes cant resist kissing me & such] but he keeps his boundries =) |
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Feb 20 2006, 09:25 PM
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probably not.
if we had put so much time and effort in making that long distance relationship work, it would be such a waste to throw it all away. |
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Feb 20 2006, 09:41 PM
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depends on who i feel more comfortable with... and who i can trust more. i don't really know. it feels weird... but nah. maybe it's just a come and go thing. i'd probably won't.
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Feb 20 2006, 10:18 PM
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 dakishimetainoni... Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 4,322 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 75,318 |
it kind of depends on how long the relationship is and how things are. i've been in plenty of situations where some other guy would like to be with me while i'm with someone else.
i've only dumped one guy for another twice. both times i did it because i knew the relationship was doomed. the first guy it just didn't really click anymore and the second, i supposedly got something better but in the end, they both pretty much had the same amount of a-hole-ness. right now, i'm not even in a real relationship but i am really commited and enthralled by this guy so i'm not even giving any of the other guys a chance or really giving them anything except a simple "i'm taken, sorry."  |
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Feb 20 2006, 10:20 PM
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Well I don't believe in "length".
Some couples who have gone out for more than a year or two but ended up getting tired of each other stay together just because of their relationship length. Then they end up getting hurt because they like someone else so and so. Just because your relationship has been long doesn't mean you should struggle with it. If you like somoene else, then break up before anyone else gets hurt. |
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Feb 20 2006, 11:25 PM
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 hi. call me linda. Group: Official Member Posts: 8,187 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,475 |
It depends really on how much I like my first guy and this new guy. Also, since we worked so hard to keep it together, and I don't even know if the second relationship would work out, I'd probably stay with the first guy.
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Feb 21 2006, 06:06 AM
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 in the reverb chamber. Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 4,022 Joined: Nov 2005 Member No: 300,308 |
QUOTE(shes out @ Feb 20 2006, 5:50 PM)  would you give it all up to go after a long dream? The dreams are where it's at. Yes and yes. |
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Feb 21 2006, 04:37 PM
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QUOTE(shes out @ Feb 20 2006, 6:50 PM) If you recently have a great relationship with someone, even though it's long distance. but you find yourself falling for someone you've liked since the beginning of the year again. & you realize how close you're becoming. would you give it all up to go after a long dream? i was in a long distance relationship too. yeah it's hard.  how long have you guys been together?it depends, like how your long distance relationship is going. is it worth it to dump the guy you're in a relationship with for the other one? |
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Feb 21 2006, 08:03 PM
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Depends on:
A- How long you have been together & B- How strong your feelings for the other guy are.. To be in a long distance realtionship you need commitment.. Are you willing to wait for you long.distance.lover? Or would you rather be a spurr of the moment kind of girl? 
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