A little help with..., my family and friend drama Options

[lostgirltink]

Ok, so I really need help with thinking about who to choose. It is the typical friends or family problem.

Ok, my cousin has been going to my school for a bout two months now and as soon as she came to my school she started drama with my good friend popple because she like this boy that popple was crushing on and popple got really upset because my cousin was taking away the boy from her and popple just broke down in tears over it and I told my cousin to back off of chris and leave him alone. And so she did.

But now like a month later my cousin has found a new target. My friend Cassy. My cousin is trying to get with toasty and Toasty is Cassy's now boyfriend! And so I told my cousin to stay away from Toasty because he will only cause all of us drama and I don't want to lose my friend cassy just because of my cousin. And so today at school cassy came up to my cousin and told her that she needed to stop trying to get with toasty. And when I came my cousin was all talking about cassy and calling her a bunch of rude names and I told my cousin that she needed to stop getting so butt hurt that Cassy told her to stay away from Toasty because she had no business trying to get the two to break up and get with him and I told her that from the first day that I knew she was starting to like him.

And the my cousin just turned away from me and my friends(she hangs out with me at school) and I was like WTF where is she going? I wasn't mad at her or anything. And then Ray tells me in English class that she went with them to Burger King crying and all that. And so after school I went to burger king and talked to her (she works there) and she said that she was mad because I stuck up for cassy and not her. That she was my cousin and I should be there for her.

So I'm torn between backing up my cousin against one of my friends when I know what my cousin is doing is wrong. Or telling my cousin that she is wrong and she needs to stop her drama now, because this is the second time that she is putting me through this. But I need to know if what I am doing is right because she is after all family.