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 Feb 16 2006, 10:33 PM
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Im this close to giving up. im in love with my bestfriend..honestly, i really think hes the one. all of the signs ive been given, im pretty sure im right. heres our story;
AJ & i have been friends since the beginning of the school year. it was sortof love at first sight. he was the new kid, but somewhat already popular. he hangs out with a lot of people i know and sometime during late august i made it clear to all my friends that this guy was special. well, i found out he liked me in december and i was way sick of waiting. so i was ready to go for it already (a relationship*) but then i found out he got back with his ex from his old school :O i cried for weeks..ive tried to ignore him the past month but we just kept getting closer, until we shook hands one day and agreed to be the best of friends :D haha, and i tell him everything now. he says hes gonna get me a boyfriend for a gift :P but i still like him a little..and also, this other guy..but um..help? |
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Feb 16 2006, 10:36 PM
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 You can't keep running from what you're trying to find. Group: Official Member Posts: 5,030 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 54,096 |
wait... if he liked you then why'd he get back together with his ex? i think you should talk with him, to verify what type of relationship you guys have. and how much do you like this other guy?
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Feb 16 2006, 10:40 PM
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<3 Group: Member Posts: 185 Joined: Jan 2006 Member No: 365,309 |
I met Ruben (the other guy) through AJ. it's way complicated >< im not sure why he got back with her, it's sad cause she doesnt even let him hug me, since she doesnt go to our school
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Feb 16 2006, 10:40 PM
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<3 Group: Member Posts: 185 Joined: Jan 2006 Member No: 365,309 |
I met Ruben (the other guy) through AJ. it's way complicated >< im not sure why he got back with her, it's sad cause she doesnt even let him hug me, since she doesnt go to our school
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Feb 20 2006, 12:29 PM
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Wait until you know for sure he likes you back and then tell him how you feel. don't be too aggressive about it, I mean he has a girlfriend, so wait until you know for sure he wants you. If he's not willing to break up with his girlfriend for you then he obviously is not very into you.
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Feb 20 2006, 12:35 PM
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'communication' [as some people would say]; you say you guys are bestfriends! you should be more open about YOU & HIM, not just about your other personal stuff you know? just spill out the truth
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Feb 22 2006, 04:42 PM
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He probably won't know that you have feelings for him until you tell him.
Guys are just clueless like that.  That or you could wait until he and his g/f split then flirt with him like crazy! 
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Feb 22 2006, 04:50 PM
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If you love him, then why did you say you like the other guy? I don't get it
 .I suggest you wait for your lover to dump his girlfriend and then you go bag him. |
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Feb 22 2006, 05:00 PM
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 "lal! laugh a little!" Group: Member Posts: 192 Joined: Jan 2006 Member No: 364,863 |
Ugh. I'm crying cuz of this.
I talked about basically the same thing in this forum. Except, instead of getting back together with his ex he now likes my best friend...I totally know how you feel girl. My guy was new too. So I'm with ya girl. We need to chat sometime. --->Sierra |
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