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[FONT=Arial]okay, well..i dont even know how to express what im going through. theres this guy named ruben and i really like him. even though we just met two weeks ago and all. for some reason he just caught my attention. he funny and sweet, yennoe..the typical clown:] well, so i started noticing him more this week and i told a few close friends..they really supported me. but i hate how they brought my hopes up so high..only to let it fall hard on my face. my friend, tori told him and he said he just didnt feel the same..and now whenever i walk over to his group he either walks away with other guys or turns away from me, pretending im not there. he said sorry and all but he still does it. hes pretty shy..but it still hurts me how hes just ruining a friendship over this. i mean..does he think its gonna solve any of our problems? the only time we ever talk is on aim, but he always goes early. its like, all he could do to stay away from me is working and..:[ i see him looking at me sometimes..from far away, and i keep lying to myself saying maybe theres hope we will get together one day..i just dont wanna go throught this again. and he cant even talk to me..im so hurt.
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Feb 10 2006, 07:07 PM
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 show me a garden thats bursting to life Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 12,303 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 115,987 |
Moved to Relationships
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Feb 10 2006, 07:14 PM
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You'll move on, trust me. I was friends with a guy for 5 years until last year I confessed to him that I wanted to be more than friends, he started avoiding me then he moved. I was pretty much hurt and all but I moved on. It's disappointing how boys can ruin a genuine friendship over such immaturity. If you want you can seek advice from your friends or someone you really think can help you and make you feel better. I got off depression by hanging out with friends and just basically having fun. You'll move on and soon you'll forget why you even liked him.
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Feb 10 2006, 07:17 PM
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<3 Group: Member Posts: 185 Joined: Jan 2006 Member No: 365,309 |
thank youu:]
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Feb 10 2006, 07:21 PM
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Your welcome
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Feb 10 2006, 07:27 PM
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c[: Group: Member Posts: 2,302 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 2,876 |
have you tried talking to him about it? i would just talk to him because i had the same problem..but i talked to him and we're good friends now lols. but if he doesnt start to change i think you need to just get over him and treat him the same way he's treating you. from what i see i think it was just a crush...and crushes come and go....no need to fret! it might take a little time but theres plenty of time
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Feb 10 2006, 09:53 PM
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talk to him, if he continues to act like that, well i guess you should just move on since i don't think he's worth all that pain he's causing you
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Feb 10 2006, 11:43 PM
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you might have freaked him out i mean uve only known him 2 weeks...and he just doesn't know how to react. ignore him for a bit, pretend like you've gotten over it...and see if he starts opening up. some guys are shy and they get immature when they're on teh spot. if he still ignores you even tho you're backing off, well...hes probably trying not to lead you on. I agree tho...thats immature. I left a note in my crush's locker in 6th grade and he didn't start talking to me till 8th.
 hes kinda an ass...i didn't know any better bakc then. attention does not = love. lesson learned.
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Feb 11 2006, 04:32 AM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 1,450 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 98,407 |
Move on. A guy like that probably isn't even worth it. I think I've done that to a girl before, and I still hate myself for that.
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Feb 11 2006, 04:43 AM
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 yan lin♥ Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 14,129 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 13,627 |
i've done that to a guy before, and afterwards, it made me feel horrible.
he just doesn't feel the same way. you'll move on soon. no worries. |
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Feb 12 2006, 04:42 PM
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<3 Group: Member Posts: 185 Joined: Jan 2006 Member No: 365,309 |
thanks:] especially the guy that commented. mm, kameko? yes:]. thank you. im starting to let go
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Feb 12 2006, 04:57 PM
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 Band Geek. Group: Member Posts: 366 Joined: Jan 2006 Member No: 341,494 |
Talk to him and say that you just want to be friends, and you ignoring me just makes it more awkward and you value his friendship.
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