Long Distance, A newly turned long-distance love Options

[cynical_chiriru]

I've been dating this guy for about 4 months, he lived about 3 blocks away and then he had to move a 2 hour drive away! I'm having such a hard time with this and I have no idea how to really handle this kinda situation. I really really love this guy, despite the short relationship we've had up to this point and he really seems to love me too. I just need some advice. Can some1 help?

[*AngelicEyz00*]

Try to work it out. If you really love him and all that, then don't give up so easily. I was with my ex for a year and a half before I moved to San Diego, which is also a 2 hour drive. We were honestly very much in love, and I was willing to work thinbgs out, but I guess he wasn't cuz a few months later he broke off the relationship. If you really love eachother, then don't let him get away =\

[*Kathleen*]

Yes, as Elba said, try as hard to make it last, and if somehow, it dissolves, there's nothing you can do, and you weren't truly meant to be. It's a tough thing to have a long-distance relationship, but if you can work it out, then that's truly a great obstacle to overcome with relationships.

[tinababy143]

okay..i realli dont think its as hard as you think it is. i lived in san diego all my life and my boyyfriend and i have been going out for almost a year and i just moved to san francisco..which is about a 9-12 hour drive..so..yeah. he used to live maybe 15 mins away..but anyways..i think you just need to keep in touch with each other and work everything out. communication is one of the main things you need in a relationship or it will fall apart. This distance will either make or break you guys..it will definetely show how much you realli care for each other. Good luck with everything

[asdf]

its hard knowing that hes far away. since college we've been apart 5-6 hrs away. lotta been hard but u gotta keep trusting. and dunt givve up.

[conster]

i think u should give it a try if u guys love each other... but if it doesnt work then i guess it jus doesnt

[DrNick311]

If your love was really strong before the move, then 2 hours is nothing. You two can still meet on weekends and whenever you have free time. Sure, it might take a little extra time and dedication but if you have deep feelings for him then you should take steps to make sure your love lasts.

[illushun_eyez]

love iz a strong word. n if itz love it shuld wrk thru all that. along with a strong bond of communication it will get far. just have hope and have fun. being with someone that you care for alot and carez for you iz special so, just try it out. and let love guide you two. just remember communication okay? best wishes.

[sweetlyz]

its very hard .. my bf is in canada right now and i`m in california. he`s been there for a REALLY long time. the distance is getting to us, but its also what keeps us up cause we realize that if we can get through it all .. our love is THAT strong. so be just as strong and have faith.

[F_L_I_P]

Man i had a GF in California long ago but yeah wavent heared from her there.

[islandkiss]

aw.. I think my bf's going to move too.. but it's okay.. plan ahead.. go visit each other once in a while.. call each other everyday..

[inn0centmarianne]

people say those long distance relationships never work out, but I dont think thats true, it all depends on how much love you guys have for each other, just try to stick it out, and if it works out, then youll be fine, but if not, and the distance starts killing u, maybe thats the time you should end it, but still, give it a try..