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 Jan 1 2006, 11:48 PM
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Okay, so I'm in love with my ex-boyfriend. We broke up like 3 months ago, but I can't get over him. And now we're friends, but he likes my friend. She doesn't like him, but I don't know what to do. I love him and I just want him back. Any ideas how to win him back?
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Jan 2 2006, 12:16 AM
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 Bay Area YadadaDiiiig. Group: Official Member Posts: 4,249 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 103,202 |
If you are in love, and think you two are really meant to be together, you will. If its was meant to be between you two, fate will bring you back together.
But you cant win back, the love of someone youve already lost. You cant do anything to make him fall back in love with you, he has to choose himself, to be in love with you. No actions, or motives will make him realize he loves you. He, himself has to reazlie he loves you. |
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Jan 2 2006, 01:13 AM
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 Yea Yea. Group: Member Posts: 837 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 79,366 |
You can't really do anything bout it unless he likes you again.
 I still liked my ex while he was way over me laying with another girl infront me my face a week later but you know, I had to get through it and over him. 
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Jan 2 2006, 01:33 AM
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funny but i was in this situation like two days ago... i love my ex gf so much and i want her so bad... i talked to her about any chances of us getting back and she had some BS excuse.. she said she still loved me and missed me tho...
so we are jsut good friends now, we even hanged out today and like numerous times this week.... if we get back, it's all on her. i tried and she said no but we still love each other.. it's weird.... lol just talk, its the best way to get anywhere |
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Jan 2 2006, 04:58 AM
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sweetie, i've been single for a few months now too. i know it can be rough, and its way easier said than done to let go of it.
talking to him way be the best way to get things out in the open. But remember, theres only so much you can do. You can't force anything, right? i think a very important thing is :whydid you break up in the first place? |
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Jan 2 2006, 10:28 AM
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Ah Bella, I couldn't have said that any better myself.
 Like Bella said, you can't really make someone fall in love with you. I guess all you can do now is...support him? Not as a boyfriend just as a best friend. Be happy for him, give him advice with his girl problems (no matter how much it hurts). I can't guarantee that you'll get back together but you guys will be really close friends if you support him. What's meant to be will always find a way, my dear.
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Jan 2 2006, 11:27 AM
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but why did you two break up in the first place
if it was really meant to be then maybe some day the both of you will be back together, right now just remain good friends and maybe talk to him about getting back together after awhile. but if he likes someone else maybe it's time to move on? |
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Jan 2 2006, 02:47 PM
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we broke up cause he said he doesnt like me as much as he used to.
but the thing is, no one can believe what he says, cause the first time he broke up with me it was because i was mad at him and he made up the excuse that he didn't like me anymore and we got back together. idk. he's really confusing. the girl he likes rejected him, & she's gonna go out with the kid she likes, matt. but we don't know if he's just gonna get over her or try to pursue her. the thing about him though, is that he's really wierd and i`m like the only girl who's liked him. so it's a strange situation. |
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Jan 2 2006, 09:22 PM
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 Band Geek. Group: Member Posts: 366 Joined: Jan 2006 Member No: 341,494 |
You should try making your feelings known to them, and see if they feel the same way. What's the worst that could happen, they could say no? Well, you guys could still remain friends if it doesn't work, it's better than nothing.
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Jan 3 2006, 12:24 AM
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I'm single for about threeish months. Luckily for me, it fell out before then, so I'm pretty much ok rite now. I know it hurts when it's over...everyone wants what they don't have. Unfortunately, that's your ex right now. I went through an obsession period where I thought I loved him, and wanted him back, and never should have broken up with him, etc etc. But of course my ego's too big to talk to him about it, or anyone for that matter. *anyways,* think it through before you act, but do lots of talking. Especially this friend who you think he likes. Let her know how you feel, so if you really know that you guys shouldn't have broken it off, and you really want him back, she'll know, and if she's a good friend, she won't have done anything with him in the meantime.
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