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 Mar 14 2004, 05:57 PM
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 i will be LOVED, some day.  Group: Member Posts: 238 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 263  |
Well my situation is that one of my close friends that recently came back from vacation, seems like there's something changed. During her vacation, I had other close friends that I chilled with and got to know much better. And well, her and one of my other close friends (who I've known much longer than her) have a class together. Now I talk to the other much more cause we have things to talk about and cause she asked me to be in her 18th birthday party. Sometimes when me and the other do talk, she interupts us a lot when we're in the middle of our conversation and she doesn't even apologize. Well, I try my best not to omit my friend out because I still talk to her too but not as much cause I don't really have anything to talk about now-a-days cause not much has been going on with my life..
And well yesterday, I read her latest entry and she said something like: "ever wonder how and why a person could dramatically change within a short period of time? i sure dont know the answer.. haha..well im thankful to have ma REAL friends.. its just a couple of them and they know whooo they are..they should.. i remind them everyday.. haha nah i lied..but yes and they sure dont change in that way.".. I'm not sure if she's talking about me but I feel that she is talking about me cause the way she said that.. I dont know why she has to say something like that when I try my best to make ends meet... I dont wanna approach her about it yet cause I'm not so sure if she is talking about me.. What do you think?? Any advice... |
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Mar 14 2004, 06:47 PM
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 Squirrelly Member Group: Member Posts: 385 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 7,267 |
I think you should just confront her with whatever problems you might have, except don't be mean about it. Show her where you're coming from and then dip into why she has changed.
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Mar 14 2004, 11:46 PM
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confronting problems is the best way to solve them
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Mar 15 2004, 02:58 AM
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 i'm susan Group: Official Member Posts: 13,875 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 5,029 |
i kinda agree wit wut everyone is sayin...hmmm
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Mar 15 2004, 11:11 PM
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 woady woady Group: Member Posts: 191 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 2,376 |
yes so do i, but try and make as many friends as you possibly can have, its good, so even though ur not as good friends with some1 just keep in touch occasionally
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Mar 16 2004, 12:15 AM
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 he`z gOt my heart*<3`o2.18.o1` Group: Member Posts: 1,662 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 6,338 |
QUOTE(COLDasICE @ Mar 14 2004, 5:57 PM) Well my situation is that one of my close friends that recently came back from vacation, seems like there's something changed. During her vacation, I had other close friends that I chilled with and got to know much better. And well, her and one of my other close friends (who I've known much longer than her) have a class together. Now I talk to the other much more cause we have things to talk about and cause she asked me to be in her 18th birthday party. Sometimes when me and the other do talk, she interupts us a lot when we're in the middle of our conversation and she doesn't even apologize. Well, I try my best not to omit my friend out because I still talk to her too but not as much cause I don't really have anything to talk about now-a-days cause not much has been going on with my life.. And well yesterday, I read her latest entry and she said something like: "ever wonder how and why a person could dramatically change within a short period of time? i sure dont know the answer.. haha..well im thankful to have ma REAL friends.. its just a couple of them and they know whooo they are..they should.. i remind them everyday.. haha nah i lied..but yes and they sure dont change in that way.".. I'm not sure if she's talking about me but I feel that she is talking about me cause the way she said that.. I dont know why she has to say something like that when I try my best to make ends meet... I dont wanna approach her about it yet cause I'm not so sure if she is talking about me.. What do you think?? Any advice... she may be talking about you and doesn't know a better way of approaching the problem .. try to confront her and see what the problem is .. she obviously is taking things the wrong way .. you are trying your best to keep things good with all your friends and she doesn't seem to feel the same .. it's not your fault that there isn't as much to talk about sometimes .. talk to her about it and see how things go .. good luck |
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Mar 17 2004, 02:10 AM
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 advanced newbie... S2 Group: Member Posts: 3,504 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 752 |
hmm... you could be the subject of her entry, but then again, you could just be in paranoia. i mean, she could just be randomly tlaking about someone else. you should definately confront her
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Mar 17 2004, 02:47 PM
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 doot doot doot Group: Member Posts: 1,803 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 1,954 |
well shes ur close friend or at least used to be rite? so i think u should talk to her about it straight out, shouldnt hide things from friends, maybe she feels the same way ur feeling but dont kno how to start it
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Mar 17 2004, 07:00 PM
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i will be LOVED, some day. Group: Member Posts: 238 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 263 |
Well yesterday in 4th period, I asked my friend if she could help me print some pictures cause I'm new at that and she had that class last semester.. So yeah we both went into the dark room along with my other friend cause she needed help also.. Then after awhile she was like I'll be back I gotta ask the teacher something and then me and my other friend were like okay.. So we both waited inside the dark room for awhile then i was like "what's taking her so long??".. then I went out to see whats up and well.. She was just talking to some friends.. So i was like forget it, I'll just ask other people to help us.. I wanted to ask about what's going on with her in the dark room but she left and had something else to do..
Anyways, thanks for your advice people but I guess I'll take it from here on my own.. Haha.. *LUCK* |
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Mar 17 2004, 08:37 PM
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 original member. Group: Official Member Posts: 4,825 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 1,460 |
Well, ask your friend whats her problem. She wouldn't be your friend if she was ditching you, and talking about you bad on her xanga.
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Mar 17 2004, 08:41 PM
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 BOO! Group: Member Posts: 136 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 4,542 |
Cofron her or maybe she just feels left out all of a sudden cause she has been gone for a few weeks and doesn't know what is currently going on and might want to know.
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