Why are guys like that?, why are they so mean? Options

[HeLlOrIcAnGuRl]

its seems like a lot of guys care about a girls weight. but why? i mean arnt we all people? does size really matter? i dont think that its fair because we want to be loved as much as every skinney girl does (no offence ) like for me, i feel rejected by all guys and that killed my self-esteam... =[ i cant stop thinking about it. I feel like total shit... so what do u think? why do guys think size matters?

[m.ar.i.a]

well... some does and some doesn't

don't care about what they think! just because they think like that about you does not mean you should too! there are still alot of ppl that luvs u for you and not size! think about them, not the other them

and girls thinks size matters too so there are pressures on guys too, so same reasons, u know?

[Chii]

not all guys are shallow, my god
i don't mean to be rude, but if it bothers you so much then why don't you do something about it?

[LittleLulu]

it can be hard to deal with. i know.

there will ALWAYS be a skinnier, prettier, smarter, taller, cuter, more athletic, more popular, more liked, more glamorous girl out there.

but there will never be another you, and thats something to keep in mind.

Guys can be total @sses sometimes. But when they're sweet it really makes up for it. you just need to stay away from those men who you know are players, jerks, brainless jocks, or total slobs.

Size doesn't matter. Do you really think guys want to go out with a girl whos skinny as a stick, with huge boobs n a giant butt, wear a pound of makeup a day, and all pink? ( very stereotypical, i know, sorry) But seriously. They have no respect for those kind of women.

If a guy really likes you, it'll be because you're the most amazing girl he's ever met. not because you have the perfect curvy figuire, nor will it be because you have the perfect size/shaped breasts.

don't worry about it. Keep in mind that confidence is the global attraction =D

[*anubis*]

it has to do with ego.

guys just generally don't prefer girls that weigh more than they do. it makes us feel less secure about things. awkward.

[steezahh]

^agreed. but
if i was a guy i wouldnt care. because i know that once you look skin deep, its all about brains. gosh. but i dunno. i guess the guys that i go for dont care. im 5'5"1/2 and i feel tall compared to guys my age. and that always makes me feel unloved because they go for them shortys. haha.. but yeah. dont think overweight kills cause height kills me. [thats why im gonna marry paul peirce.]

[*RiC3xBoy*]

When a girl hugs a big guy, it's like she's hugging a teddy bear. When a guy hugs a big girl, it's like he's hugging a big bucket of Ice Cream.

Heard my uncle say that when he was drunk once. I guess its true for some guys.

[_sarcastic_]

not all guys are like that.
if they are then they're probably not even worth your time, since they only look at the outside appearance. soon maybe some guy will come along and like you for who you are not what you look like appearance wise. nobody can change that, you're you.

[jennyjenny]

Then I guess those guys aren't worth your time.

[Ington]

Wtf, now guys are the enemy?

If you have self esteem issues, work on them and make them better. If you have weight issues, work on them and make them better. However, blaming a gender for your problems won't make things better for anyone.

Plus, guys can like whatever the hell they want to. Some just aren't attracted to girls that weigh more. Some are. Some like their pets too much. So f**king what.

[vash1530]

u cant help what ur attracted to. plus i bet girls dont like overweight guys so it works both ways.

[chococat15]

well... some does and some doesn't

don't care about what they think! just because they think like that about you does not mean you should too! there are still alot of ppl that luvs u for you and not size! think about them, not the other them

and girls thinks size matters too so there are pressures on guys too, so same reasons, u know?

i agree. i don't worry about what other people think. if they make fun of you, or they treat you differently just because of something like your race, religion, or physical features, screw them! lol. if you're happy with yourself, that's all that matters.

[synthase]

Some guys do some guys dont...

The guys who judge by peoples weights are total JERKS
ignore them and keep living your life like they never hurt you in a way
~~~
msz. hixfive

[Ilaem]

you know,
not every guy is like that.

some actually care about the inner beautys too.

think about it.

[mzbbc]

keep in mind that girls are like that too. maybe there's less pressure for guys, but they go through the same type of thing.

not all guys and girls are like that, though.

[MeowGurl]

I really don't think size matters at all. Take it from a really skinny 15-year-old girl that's never had a boyfriend... I know pathetic but it doesn't really bother me.

[imm]

In a perfect world, no boy would care about weight. Maybe not anybody. Peer pressure. OH NOES! -_=x But it really just depends on the person...

[vash1530]

girls are the same way! this is a stupid topic.