How do you tell someone you're gay?, plz help |
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 Dec 31 2005, 09:57 AM
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 1, 2 STEP you!  Group: Member Posts: 45 Joined: Dec 2005 Member No: 331,575  |
Thanx tcunningham1589, that acctuly helps a lot.
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Dec 31 2005, 10:00 AM
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 Senior Member Group: Duplicate Posts: 1,912 Joined: May 2005 Member No: 137,527 |
You're welcome, I was glad to help.
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Dec 31 2005, 09:49 PM
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 Don't worry guys, size doesn't matter...to lesbians Group: Member Posts: 2,444 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 85,066 |
QUOTE(ayu_ku_fan @ Dec 25 2005, 10:53 AM) Thanks but how do i tell him? Do I tell him I need to talk to him and let him know somethings up or do I just add it into the conversation like I'm talking about the weather or something?  um how about start with, "Hey I have something to tell you, and since ur my good friend, I trust you with my words" or somewhere along that line //edit i guess that guy helped you..oh well |
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Jan 1 2006, 11:42 AM
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1, 2 STEP you! Group: Member Posts: 45 Joined: Dec 2005 Member No: 331,575 |
thanx for all your help guys. I'll tell him when school starts again this week. I can see his reaction now:
Hello  What?  You're gay?  And you have a crush on me?  (and I hope) And the big deal is...? 
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Jan 1 2006, 04:24 PM
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 can't touch this Group: Member Posts: 174 Joined: Dec 2005 Member No: 323,184 |
Speak your mind because those who mind don't matter and those who matter don't mind.
Just tell him. If he gets freaked out, there are always more fish in the sea. And always great friends you haven't met. |
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Jan 6 2006, 05:51 PM
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1, 2 STEP you! Group: Member Posts: 45 Joined: Dec 2005 Member No: 331,575 |
Well I told him.
> > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > HE WANTS TO GO OUT WITH ME! Yeah, this is so cool. He thinks he could be bi too and wants to try going out with a guy to see what it's like! I told him on Tuesday and he did seem confused when I told him I liked him. He said to me, "Why do you like me? I'm really short." I just said to him "So? Who cares about what size you are?" We sat and talked about it for about half an hour. He asked me things like "How long have I known?" and "Why didn't I tell him when I found out?" One question he asked got me kinda nervous. He asked me if I ever dreamed about him. Honestly, I did and still do. Then he asked if I would consider kissing him cuz he wanted to know if he was gay. And I did kiss him. It was my first kiss ever and I loved every second of it and by the look in his face I'd say he did too. Well we've been going out for 3 days and I've already kissed him like a gazillion times. Our parents surprisingly don't really mind as long as we don't kiss in front of them and stuff. I did kiss him in front of my 13 year old brother yesturday and he just kinda freaked. Well he shouldn't have been in my room. Thanks for all the help you guys gave me. Look what happened. I'm sooooo happy I told him! Thanx guys! |
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Jan 6 2006, 06:06 PM
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 David desrosiers rox* Group: Member Posts: 185 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 28,312 |
well. there's no "good ways" to tell someone you're gay. if you're ready, just tell them. don't be afraid that they might act like they don't know you, because true friend won't go away just becoz you're gay. seriously. there's nth wrong with being gay. i have a lot of friends that are lez or bisexual and i don't find anything wrong with that.
so. if you're ready. just gather up the courage and tell him your feelings |
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