friends?, i need advice |
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 Nov 27 2005, 01:54 PM
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Nancenator  Group: Member Posts: 35 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 34,982  |
I'm really close to one of my friends. We spend almost every weekend together, but their are other people with us. I know there is lots of chemistry between us and I think my other friends are picking up on it. For example, last night a group of us went to the movies and amanda stepped aside so i could sit next to him. I never told her that I liked him though. Anyway, we are constantly talking on aim and stuff. It feels like hes avoiding the whole situation. Hes not even picking up that I like him. Or even worse he knows, ( i haven't told anyone so i dont know how he could) and just doesn't like me. What does everyone think?? Sbould
i make a move or wait for some sign from him. |
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Nov 27 2005, 02:07 PM
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 Bay Area YadadaDiiiig. Group: Official Member Posts: 4,249 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 103,202 |
Make a move, You cant wait for him, cos what if he doesnt make a move cos hes shy or any other reason ?
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Nov 27 2005, 02:31 PM
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 Jus Sweet Chocolate Group: Member Posts: 739 Joined: Aug 2005 Member No: 216,959 |
i think you should wait for a sign from him, but only because you dont know if he likes you, soo if you make a move first he might not feel tha same way as you do. he might just only see you as just a friend. then you would fel really duMb for making the first move. so just be patient and wait to see wut he does.
maybe flirt with him a lil bit, but doNt go overboard with it, and stRaight out tell him that you like him. :] |
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Nov 27 2005, 04:01 PM
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 <3 Group: Member Posts: 3,657 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 64,493 |
if you think he knows, then why not make a move, no one's going to wait forever. maybe he's just shy and unsure about the whole situation.
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Nov 27 2005, 04:07 PM
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Nancenator Group: Member Posts: 35 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 34,982 |
the cotillion is coming soon. Should i invite him or just make sure I get a few dances in with him??
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Dec 2 2005, 05:36 PM
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get a few dances with him...andd if he doesn't drop any signs of interest, move on. maybe later on in life you might get together ! lols.
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Dec 2 2005, 10:46 PM
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 unify and defeat... divide and crumble Group: Member Posts: 2,759 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 6,379 |
I say...after the dance...i fyou think there's even a bit of a chance....ask him! Just straight up ask him. Don't live your life in regret...wondering if you ever had a chance.
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Dec 3 2005, 02:32 AM
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 "my girls rock balenciaga and smoke mad marijuana" Group: Member Posts: 2,089 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 70,049 |
ok sorry if this gets long.. but i have a friend right.. who over the summer we did everything imaginable together [kinda] so.. i was really digging him.. i never got any hints that he liked me.. so yeah. i tried and tried to make it kinda obvious. it never really worked. ok so the point is i would make your move. now.
because what happened to me is i never made a move because i was afraid our friendship would be jeprodized. worng choice. because i now am talking to his friend asking him what they talked about me about... [confusing?] so he was like oh he always liked you.. he just never knew you liked him. so this whole time he liked me but i didnt know it. nor did he know i digged him. now i have no chance,.. we are seperated afar. SOO MAKE YOUR MOVE! dont make the same mistake i made! |
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