Does sex strenghten or degrade a relationship? |
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 Mar 21 2005, 03:18 AM
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You guys are dumb.  Group: Member Posts: 1,252 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 25,094  |
Does sex strengthen or degrade a relationship? Why or why not?
My girlfriend asked me this and I have no idea how to answer. |
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Mar 21 2005, 03:41 AM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 2,541 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 44,332 |
Depends.
If they are truly in love, then it can strengthen it. But sex can also lead to heart break. Like if a guy uses a girl jsut for sex. Or the other way around. |
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Mar 21 2005, 04:07 AM
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 naïvety Group: Human Posts: 1,303 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 488 |
QUOTE(WhiteLotus* @ Mar 21 2005, 4:41 PM) Depends. If they are truly in love, then it can strengthen it. But sex can also lead to heart break. Like if a guy uses a girl jsut for sex. Or the other way around.  I agree. But since very few people are truly in love, then in most cases it degrades. |
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Mar 21 2005, 04:23 AM
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gRaCiE Group: Member Posts: 350 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 96,997 |
if ur careful then it strengthens. if its the wrong kind of guy it degrades.
n i think u should have put down "strengthen" and "degrade" for the choices cuz the way u asked the question is not wat u say yes or no to. |
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Mar 21 2005, 06:54 AM
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 Word. Group: Member Posts: 3,004 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 34,673 |
it depends on how the sex really is... it could be a love making session and it wll strenghten the love or it can just be a **** and just degrade or that could maybe turn u on but it depends.
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Mar 21 2005, 11:32 AM
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NyteRyder Group: Member Posts: 38 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 115,348 |
i wouldnt know. Ive never done it. But its hard to tell if youre in love with someone. For guys, it could just be the hornyness making you think you love her just to get sex.
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Mar 21 2005, 12:01 PM
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 I Am Elle Hear Me ROAR!!!!! Group: Member Posts: 34 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 113,085 |
good question...in my opinion i think that sex will happen..sure its a great thing to do with someone you love but make sure just in case you happen to not be in love wth that person that you dont regret it. thats why i think some people say they wanna save their self. but it really does depend..ppl look at sex in different ways.
if you're like someone who likes things slow then maybe itll strengthen yourpart as the BF to wait for the moment n then itll def. strengthen how u both feel about each other when its over... if you're someone who likes things fast n now...then maybe itll degrade it cuz itll get old after while... i mean im not professional but those are just my views...Good Luck with evverything!! |
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Mar 21 2005, 12:09 PM
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 ...and this is me.. Group: Member Posts: 3,518 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 57,899 |
QUOTE(WhiteLotus* @ Mar 21 2005, 4:41 AM) Depends. If they are truly in love, then it can strengthen it. But sex can also lead to heart break. Like if a guy uses a girl just for sex. Or the other way around. Agreed. In most cases, it degrades....but in some...it strengthens. |
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Mar 21 2005, 12:45 PM
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 insanitys contagious. Group: Official Member Posts: 4,210 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 99,707 |
depending on how strong the relaitonship is.
If hes just using her as a toy , it doesnt mean much and he will probaly just dump her afterwards. |
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Mar 21 2005, 05:59 PM
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 Serious As A Heart Attack. Group: Member Posts: 2,292 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 11,344 |
it can do both..
strengthen by showing how much 2 people truley love each other degrade because sometimes the 2 arent in love and they break up and have regrets and all that..and also..then the relationship becomes somewhat focused on having sex..people dont realize it..but its like "lets go out....and have sex afterwards.." i know people that have gotten to the point where one went over to the others house, had sex and went their separate ways afterwards..so you have to be careful about that..and from my personal experience..once you guys have had sex, its kinda difficult to be like "i dont want to have sex anymore" i dont even know if im making sense..sorry =/ |
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Mar 21 2005, 06:19 PM
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 hi. call me linda. Group: Official Member Posts: 8,187 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,475 |
Well, it depends on the relationship. If it's already a serious relationship, and the two people are truly in love, then it could strengthen it. But, if the guy is just using a girl for sex, it can degrade it. Also, if it reaches a point where the couple is only having sex, then it has been degraded... But I know a couple whose relationship was strengthened by sex.
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Mar 21 2005, 06:25 PM
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You guys are dumb. Group: Member Posts: 1,252 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 25,094 |
So... people f**k because they want to show each other how much they love each other?
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Mar 21 2005, 09:54 PM
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 <3 Group: Member Posts: 831 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 74,326 |
i have no idea because iv never had sex before
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Mar 21 2005, 11:19 PM
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gigi =p Group: Member Posts: 3,679 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 41,206 |
Your poll makes no sense. "Does sex strengthen or degrade a relationship?" Choose yes or no. You can't say yes or no to that question.
Anyway, I think sex strengthens a relationship. I emphasize on the word relationship, meaning the couple must have an actual relationship, one of strong bonds and commitment, in order for sex to further strengthen it. |
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Mar 21 2005, 11:36 PM
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 Blasian, Asian, INVASION! Group: Official Member Posts: 4,288 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,769 |
It does both in my opinion
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Mar 22 2005, 11:56 AM
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i think that depends on whether you love the person
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Mar 22 2005, 02:53 PM
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 i've never wanted anything rationale. Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 8,449 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 19,045 |
if you truly love the person you are f**kin, then it will stengthen it. if you are just doing to get some ass, then it will make it worse.
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Mar 22 2005, 03:03 PM
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 SlUtZ RoCk Group: Member Posts: 13 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 116,107 |
um....
i've had sex....it depends on how much you love that person a hella lot..then..it mite streghtn... if ur jux having it cuz ur a slut..no offense..it will degrade.... |
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Nov 20 2005, 05:53 PM
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 you`re undeniable Group: Member Posts: 1,136 Joined: Nov 2005 Member No: 283,828 |
i think if you have sex at the right point in the relationship for the right reasons, then it strengthens it. but if the relationship becomes about sex then it degrades it.
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Nov 20 2005, 06:00 PM
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 F**k me Beautiful Group: Member Posts: 3,126 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 30,124 |
in my opinion i dont think sex itself strengthes the relationship. Sex means you trust your significant other and ur willing to share your body with em.
it shows u trust and are comfortable with them. but sure..sex can spice up a relationship giving them something new to do, but when will that become just a routine? And it may degrade the relationship for many reasons, im too lazy to list but its a possibility And..how the hell do we answer that poll? |
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Nov 20 2005, 06:15 PM
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 wut wut in the butt? Group: Human Posts: 2,108 Joined: Sep 2005 Member No: 227,723 |
QUOTE(DrEaMgUy2K1 @ Nov 20 2005, 4:00 PM) And it may degrade the relationship for many reasons, im too lazy to list but its a possibility And..how the hell do we answer that poll? LOL i just noticed that wat the hell it's not a yes or no question...  and yah, it could degrade a relationship if that's all u or ur partner wants out of it. |
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Nov 20 2005, 06:21 PM
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yerp! Group: Member Posts: 3,489 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 66,454 |
It wouldn't affect a good relationship either way, if it strengthens the relationship that means the person was just in it for sex and if it degrades it, that means the couple wasn't comfortable enough with each other to have sex in the first place.
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Nov 20 2005, 08:49 PM
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 Resident Jerk. Is Wade. Respond to PM's! Group: Member Posts: 344 Joined: Nov 2005 Member No: 289,510 |
Both.
It strengthens it for people who use it as an acceptance of trust. It degrades it for people who just have sex without mutual love and respect, or those who do it out of habit. |
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Nov 20 2005, 08:49 PM
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 Bay Area YadadaDiiiig. Group: Official Member Posts: 4,249 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 103,202 |
QUOTE(DrEaMgUy2K1 @ Nov 20 2005, 4:00 PM) in my opinion i dont think sex itself strengthes the relationship. Sex means you trust your significant other and ur willing to share your body with em. it shows u trust and are comfortable with them. but sure..sex can spice up a relationship giving them something new to do, but when will that become just a routine? And it may degrade the relationship for many reasons, im too lazy to list but its a possibility And..how the hell do we answer that poll? I agree. It can degrading if your only in that relationship for sex. But i agree with him. |
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Nov 20 2005, 09:24 PM
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 omnomnom Group: Member Posts: 1,776 Joined: Jul 2005 Member No: 180,688 |
I don't believe it does anything.. Unless you're not married and have an un-planned pregnancy/ or STD then it's degrading I don't think it ever stregthens, though.
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