Jealousy, how do you deal? Options

[twistedxmindz]

unfortunately, i get jealous extremely easily. i wish i could help it, but i can't.

usually when i get jealous i overanalyze a lot - like if a girl was talking to my crush and i was jealous, i would immediately assume that they liked him too.

as for my crush liking someone else - i am able to control not immediately dislike the girl just for that reason, because that's completely stupid. (however, i will dislike them if there's a good reason for it, of course.) i mean, i'm jealous, but i usually don't do anything crazy because of it. in fact, if the girl is really nice, i'll usually forget all about my crush when i talk with her.

i get really jealous really easily too..andd if my crush talks to other girls i assume they like him and he likes them and blah blah too. it's horrible and i wish it could stop. ahh. okay. i'm not much help but js had to get that out !. =)

[*StanleyThePanda*]

I'm not the jealous type, never have been.....
So uh yeah, if you are jealous because of something maybe discuss it with the person.
But dont be too over jealous, like "Not allowed to hug other girls" or w/e because if you are overly jealous, they are most likely going to cheat on you.

[anniepiee]

run behind her and smash a snapple bottle on her head. >=)
nono.
jealousy? either keep it inside or complain to friends. they usually end up complaining with me, when we finish i'm all good.

[silver-rain]

I'm not the jealous type, never have been.....
So uh yeah, if you are jealous because of something maybe discuss it with the person.
But dont be too over jealous, like "Not allowed to hug other girls" or w/e because if you are overly jealous, they are most likely going to cheat on you.

Yeah, that's what my boyfriend told me, that by restricting him, it would make him want to rebel and cheat or something. Sigh, it's hard not to be jealous, but I always try to reassure myself that my boyfriend loves ME and no one else.
I agree about not being overly jealous. I used to be like that and tell him not to be with other girls, etc. But now, I'm more accepting I guess since I'm always hanging around guys so my reasoning is if I can do it, he can to and vice versa. Just as long as we both know that we love each other.

[BrokenDream]

unfortunately, i do get jealous easily. when i watch my crush talk to his girl as a friend (yeah they are friends, not together) it feels like my heart just died. hah. it's kind of funny how i can get that way. i just wish i was that girl walking with him..

i hate it when i get jealous.

[nopattern]

I'm a really jealous person, but people really don't know that because I tend to hide it. I just act like it doesn't bother me and I eventually (if I'm lucky) get over it.

[hulagurlie413]

run behind her and smash a snapple bottle on her head. >=)
nono.
jealousy? either keep it inside or complain to friends. they usually end up complaining with me, when we finish i'm all good.

LMAO!!! i love that.

[_sarcastic_]

i have negative feelings about the other person
or i start to break down and cry
or my mind starts to wonder, as in what will happen

[topsyturvy]

Scream into a pillow or punch something hard.

[kayemo]

Jealousy can get kind of ugly with my and my boyfriend's relationship. When we get mad, we tell each other what the problem is and then compromise. There has been a couple of instances where we each had to give up talking to certain friends who were practically throwing themselves in our relationship. (I wasn't well-liked or respected in terms of some of his girl-friends...just because they were jealous.)

As far as being jealous over a crush liking someone else, that's just something you'll have to eventually get over. You can't make them like you instead, so you just have to step aside. Also, if you decide you don't like someone just because your crush likes them, don't talk bad about them. That will just make the jealousy worse.

[aznbaby405]

yah that would suk and i would just talk to my friends about it but dont worry you'll find someone else =]

[angelrevelation]

if you're in a relationship, you should trust the person to know they won't 'do anything'. and if they do, just dump them... they would have done it eventually even if you monitered them.

if it's with a crush, you just have to remember they can like who they like... it's hard

[xo maerissa]

i am notorious for gettin jealous also. i cant stand to see an ex get with another person lol. its sad but i still want to think that they're still in love with me.. even if they arent. but usually i just get my friend and we go mess with the girl online.. its wrong but fun and rewarding.. lol i deal with my problems weird.

[teeners4]

woahhh last relationship. i got jealous a lot and well it ended. haha i was wayy to paranoid and didnt even act like a girlfriend....yea not good

[Simply_unique]

well it never happened to me.. but if it did I;m sure I would be jealous.. I'd be jealous of the girl but I wouldnt hate her or something. I mean even if I am in love with that "crush" i just got to deal with the fact that hes in love with someone else. You can never defy your own feelings toward one person. If you like someone then u just like someone theres nothing u can really do about it until u get over it. I;d probably be sad because he doesnt like me but i'd try to think that if hes happy then i should be happy for him.