Jealousy, how do you deal? |
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 Nov 29 2005, 07:20 PM
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So, let's talk about jealousy. How do you deal with it when in a relationship, or even when watching your crush like someone else?
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Nov 29 2005, 07:42 PM
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 you`re undeniable  Group: Member Posts: 1,136 Joined: Nov 2005 Member No: 283,828 |
i start bashing on the person that he's with to whoever is around me and listening.
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Nov 29 2005, 07:55 PM
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 Lauren loves YOU. Group: Member Posts: 2,357 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 32,793 |
I try to hide it, but I'm not too good at it. Girls can tell when I'm scamming on their man because I get really frigid toward them even if I was really good friends with them before.
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Nov 29 2005, 08:31 PM
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 hi. call me linda. Group: Official Member Posts: 8,187 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,475 |
Oh boy, I can get really jealous. Eugh, but I try to remind myself that my boyfriend is with me, that he loves me. Then, I try to find bad qualities about the girls to make myself feel better...
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Nov 29 2005, 08:56 PM
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 portami via Group: Member Posts: 467 Joined: Apr 2005 Member No: 132,187 |
unfortunately, i get jealous extremely easily. i wish i could help it, but i can't.
usually when i get jealous i overanalyze a lot - like if a girl was talking to my crush and i was jealous, i would immediately assume that they liked him too. as for my crush liking someone else - i am able to control not immediately dislike the girl just for that reason, because that's completely stupid. (however, i will dislike them if there's a good reason for it, of course.) i mean, i'm jealous, but i usually don't do anything crazy because of it. in fact, if the girl is really nice, i'll usually forget all about my crush when i talk with her. |
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Nov 29 2005, 08:57 PM
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1. trash talk about the person
2. dig up some good dirt 3. wish them no future together whatsoever 4. BUT!...i usually let myself die inside as i watch it all happen-- sucks i know 
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Nov 29 2005, 09:15 PM
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 Bay Area YadadaDiiiig. Group: Official Member Posts: 4,249 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 103,202 |
I get insanely jealous. And i really go crazy inside. But i never do anything, cos i cant control who he likes or who hes with and i would never do anything to jeopordize.
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Nov 29 2005, 09:35 PM
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 whaaaaaaat? Group: Member Posts: 2,293 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,660 |
i try my best not to show any emotions and i just go along with the flow. i've never been jealous in any relationship because i've never had a reason to be, and when i see my crush flirting with some other guy or whatever, i just basically let it go. it's not like i can just tell them, "stop, i don't like it." they're perfectly entitled to other people, so yeah, big whoop.
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Nov 29 2005, 09:35 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 2,746 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 17,125 |
I kill the person I'm jealous of, and steal all of their stuff.
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Nov 29 2005, 09:38 PM
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whaaaaaaat? Group: Member Posts: 2,293 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,660 |
QUOTE(ermfermoo @ Nov 29 2005, 10:35 PM) I kill the person I'm jealous of, and steal all of their stuff.  good times eh ariel. i wouldn't sleep if i were u... 
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Nov 29 2005, 09:39 PM
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 dakishimetainoni... Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 4,322 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 75,318 |
when i was with my ex, i just got really upset and like b*tched at him about it. if it's with a crush...i just get hurt and upset but i let it go because he's not my boyfriend...
but now, i think i've kind of gotten it under control. i don't get as jealous and i let things go. |
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Nov 29 2005, 09:41 PM
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c[: Group: Member Posts: 2,302 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 2,876 |
lols i really don't get jealous that often. but for me when i DO get jealous i just brush it off and tell myself that he made a mistake by dissing me or whatever...haha likee...umm...how do i say this...like he was lucky i EVEN acknowledged him...
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Nov 29 2005, 10:06 PM
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hi. call me linda. Group: Official Member Posts: 8,187 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,475 |
Well, I didn't get jealous with my first boyfriend. But when he broke up with my because he like flirting with other women (...), I started getting jealous whenever my current boyfriend is around other girls, especially if I think they're pretty.
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Nov 29 2005, 10:21 PM
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i think its best, cause you cant miss what you forget Group: Member Posts: 107 Joined: Nov 2005 Member No: 294,893 |
I act really awkward around the person im jealous of without realizing it. I'll purposely look away when i see them and im just a snob. I DONT MEAN TO BE THOUGH...just human nature i guess?
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Nov 30 2005, 02:26 AM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 889 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 42,392 |
well im most definately one of the most easily jealous-ed person EVER!
and what i do about it? 1-immediately start to have negative feelings for whichever little bizatch that got on my guy 2-confront my guy 3-still not working then confront her 4-STILL not working then get her friend to talk to her about it 5-if all fails i would go ballistic. all out WAR!!!. j/p =P when im pissed off i dance around my room to very loud music. If things dont work out then its better to end it. and if its a crush..well..then you can't do anything about it...but like give dirrty looks or something XD creep the poop outta them! hah! |
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Nov 30 2005, 02:30 AM
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 I'm with Stupid. Group: Member Posts: 410 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 4,973 |
It hurts.. but most likely you'll get over it.
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Nov 30 2005, 03:08 AM
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 because i'm worth it Group: Member Posts: 990 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 24,643 |
hrmm.. generally it's me acting weird, and he will ask. ( atleast that's what has happened everytime so far ) and yeah.. we just talk about it.
but i usually fume inside and let it out by writing in my xanga or diary or talk to close guy friends.. |
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Nov 30 2005, 05:54 AM
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 yan lin♥ Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 14,129 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 13,627 |
i run over, take a large rock and bash that person's head in *bambambam*
i keed. actually? i keep it all inside. |
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Nov 30 2005, 07:29 PM
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 Blasian, Asian, INVASION! Group: Official Member Posts: 4,288 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,769 |
My boyfriend is not allowed to hug another girl. If a girl comes up to him and talks to him, i have to know who she is. If she is just a random girl, shes on my death list. He is not allowed to touch another girl as in like hitting or any sort of flirting. if so, he got sh!t to pay.
but i aint that overprotective one. w/e rules i set, i follow them myself so it would be fair |
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Nov 30 2005, 08:46 PM
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 "my girls rock balenciaga and smoke mad marijuana" Group: Member Posts: 2,089 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 70,049 |
QUOTE(Hiphop d[-_-]b @ Nov 29 2005, 9:15 PM) I get insanely jealous. And i really go crazy inside. But i never do anything, cos i cant control who he likes or who hes with and i would never do anything to jeopordize. thats how i feel, i get sooo jealous but knowing that he likes someone, or that hes talking to some `chic in front of me while we are on a two on two place =] [shh]. yeah. man. i wish sometimes the guy i liked realized how much i like him. that would be awesome. i tell him all the time I LOVE YOU. but i never get a response. oh well .. hes like my best friend too.. so whatever. |
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Nov 30 2005, 11:42 PM
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 hulagurlie413 Group: Member Posts: 83 Joined: Oct 2005 Member No: 259,963 |
QUOTE(silver rain @ Nov 29 2005, 9:31 PM) Oh boy, I can get really jealous. Eugh, but I try to remind myself that my boyfriend is with me, that he loves me. Then, I try to find bad qualities about the girls to make myself feel better... hahah that's sad about the finding the bad qualities about the other girls, but i do the same thing. lol. i get jealous very easily, unfortunately. can't help it though. i don't want any ho to come along and steal my man with her whorish ways. haha.
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Dec 1 2005, 02:12 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 1,220 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 81,808 |
i cry.. who doesnt? but really, i try not to talk about it at all.. bringing it up just makes me feel worse...
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Dec 1 2005, 04:59 PM
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whaaaaaaat? Group: Member Posts: 2,293 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,660 |
QUOTE(pinayprincess @ Dec 1 2005, 3:12 PM) i cry.. who doesnt? but really, i try not to talk about it at all.. bringing it up just makes me feel worse... i don't. 
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Dec 1 2005, 06:55 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Official Member Posts: 6,953 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 52,702 |
you can't do anything about jealousy..you think the green monster goes away but it's still somewhere there
you just have to learn how to handle it |
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Dec 1 2005, 08:23 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 174 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 60,248 |
i get pissed off and fume
and then i get tired and sleep and afterwards, i just let it go cuz something happy usually happens =D |
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