Comment Box Help Please, buttons and background Options

[alien_sex]

I was wondering how I could make the buttons fit with the background ie. white border with black background and grey letters. Also i would like to know how to change the colour or add an image to the background on the part where you write in your comment.

Here's my myspace http://www.myspace.com/sarcastic_smile

Here's the html for my comment box:

</td></tr></table> </td></tr></table><br> <table bordercolor="black" cellspacing="0" cellpadding="0" font-color="black"= width="300" border="0"> <tr> <td class="text" align="left" width="300" bgcolor="black" height="20"> <table height="20" cellspacing="0" cellpadding="0" width="300" bgcolor="black"> <tr> <td width="300" style="word-wrap:break-word">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;<span class="orangetext15">Comment Box Of Doom!</span></td> </tr> </table> <table bordercolor="transparent" cellspacing="3" cellpadding="3" width="300" align="center" bgcolor="transparent" border="0"> <tr> <td valign="top" align="left" width=" 300 " bgcolor="black" style="word-wrap:break-word"><span class="orangetext15"><BR></span><br><br><center><form method="post" action="index.cfm?fuseaction=user.ConfirmComment" "return lengthCheck(this);"><input type="hidden" name="friendID" value="5156064"> <input type=hidden name=Mytoken value=20041116012729><textarea id="textarea" name="f_comments" cols="30" rows="8"></textarea><br><br><input id="buttons" type="submit" value="f**k Me"><input id="buttonr" type="reset" value="f**k Off"></form><form action="http://myspace.nuclearcentury.com/commentbox.php" method="post"></form></center> </td> </tr><tr valign="center" align="right"> <td bgcolor="000000" colspan="4"><a href="">View All of My Comments</a><br><br>

Thank you :)