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 Oct 27 2005, 09:52 PM
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This is all happening so quickly. Okay to clear things up: I have a boyfriend, hes VERY sweet and the best boyfriend I've ever had. But today I began to notice this other guy in my class lets call him "Jim". I wrote about my feelings in the message to anyone and somehow one thing led to another and he found out that I was noticing Jim. And I'm not even sure if hes a appeal to me (Jim) without seeing whats gonna happen tomorow. How can I tell my boyfriend that Jim is non of my concern and that all I want to do is be with my boyfriend?
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Oct 27 2005, 09:54 PM
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 ticktock.  Group: Member Posts: 1,138 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 118,235 |
well jane; i guess you just gotta hope that he loves you enough to trust you. this is a whole shock to him =\ especially since it's someone like "jim".
damn i shouldnt have said "well i dont think she's related all this to herself. ." hopefully he'll get over it after a few days. i'll talk to you on aim. |
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Oct 28 2005, 12:30 AM
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 Bay Area YadadaDiiiig. Group: Official Member Posts: 4,249 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 103,202 |
Janey Jane Jane
If jim really is of no concern to you or him, tell him so. Tell him the truth, other guys may SOMETIMES catch your eyes, but hes the only one who will have your heart :D |
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Oct 28 2005, 10:45 AM
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 naïvety Group: Human Posts: 1,303 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 488 |
^ Nicely put
You shouldn't be too worried about your boyfriend. If he's as sweet as you mentioned, he should be understanding enough to know that this Jim only caught your eye for a minute. Clear it up with him as soon as possible and don't be afraid to express how you feel (for him and not for Jim). Good luck 
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Oct 28 2005, 11:16 AM
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 Im Gavin HI!! Group: Member Posts: 802 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 111,644 |
personally if i thought my girlfriend was taking eyes with another guy i would confront her about it asking about, i wouldnt be mean or anything like that, but i would be direct and blunt, so be prepared.
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Oct 28 2005, 03:20 PM
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s w e e t e s t Group: Member Posts: 808 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 46,149 |
jane .. tell your boyfriend that you and "jim" have nothing going on. if you really do like your boyfriend .. stay with your boyfriend and dont hurt him.
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Oct 28 2005, 04:28 PM
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 after all that we've been through... you know we're cool Group: Member Posts: 161 Joined: Oct 2005 Member No: 253,691 |
hm, just explain it to him, he caught your eye, but there is only one guy for you. And reassure your bf that no one is as cool as he. Just remember this too next time you catch his eye wandering in the street...(-_-!)
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Oct 29 2005, 09:28 AM
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 <3 Group: Member Posts: 3,657 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 64,493 |
just tell your bf that 'jim' doesn't mean anything to you, he should understand.
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Oct 29 2005, 09:30 AM
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Just do it (ahhhh ahhhh ahhh) lol seriously just be like babe its all good me and jim = no no ..... and then just plant one on him.. =)
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Oct 29 2005, 11:19 AM
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 if only... Group: Member Posts: 12 Joined: Oct 2005 Member No: 280,091 |
insecurity is almost always a factor in a relationship;in this case, his insecurity of your feelings to him. i cant really tell you what to do because every relationship is different. just remember its normal for him to be insecure and jealous sometimes. You just have to make sure he realizes that your heart is only for him.
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