what do i do, my sappy story Options

[lKVNiiKINKYl]

well here's my story
Me
Boy A: My close friend
Boy B: My bf

well me and boy a have gotten really close last school year because he was always there for me. everything I did, he was there and always tried to help me. i used to be really anti-social no sports no people no nothing. he then had me join a sport, take me out with him and we hung out a lot. we saw each other every day at school so we always talked. when I came out with me being gay this summer, he was just like oh cool. i started to have feelings for him and i thought it was just because of what he's done for me, but it's been almost three months now and i've been ignoring him ever since because i just can't stand seeing him. i cant bear to see him and i think about him all the time. i've even cried over him and i don't know what to do.

then one day, i meet this guy (boy b) and we really click. we talked for like 8 hours and we rushed into things but before he asked me he told me how he was hurt so badly in his last relationship because his bf left him because he liked someone else. i like this guy a lot, but i feel so guilty for having feelings for someone else that just wont go away and i don't want to just tell him "well i think we rushed into things and i think we should break up" because he's been so happy ever since i started going out with him. he's like smiling non stop and i don't want to be the one who makes him depressed again.

i don't know if i should just tell my friend that i like him or not and what i should do with the guy im seeing because i don't know if what i feel for him is real. oh and my friend is like a player if that means anything, if not then ignore it but yeah what should i do

[Chii]

poor baby, we all get confused about love at times...


i think that you're just upset because you never really confronted your close friend about how you feel, and/or never admitted to yourself that he's just going to stay straight.

you most likely don't like him at all anymore, it just hurts because you were trying to forget your problems. but problems always come back and bite you in the ass harder and harder. just tell yourself that you're with a great guy who you can completey be yourself with. don't jeopardize what you have for a past crush. be just friends with him, it's going to pretty hard but you have to. for the sake of yourself and your boyfriend.

and even though relationships are supposed to be based on honesty and trust...you probably shouldn't tell your boyfriend about this... he's just going to be really hurt and feel used

[*swtcherriipie*]

This happened to me one time with my ex-girlfriend and my current boyfriend... Sweety theres nothing worst thsm being led on, bee cool and straight forward. It will all work out in the end and hey if it dosent... it was for the better. =)