What have you learned..., from your past relationships? |
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 Oct 5 2005, 07:41 PM
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 dripping destruction  Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 7,282 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 21,929  |
QUOTE(Kristinaa @ Oct 5 2005, 7:29 PM) Amen to that. And that...high school is just a stupid time to have any relationship..for me at least.  yup. had one high school relationship, and that was enough. waiting till college. |
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Oct 5 2005, 07:45 PM
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 show me a garden thats bursting to life Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 12,303 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 115,987 |
QUOTE(sadolakced acid @ Oct 5 2005, 7:41 PM) yup. had one high school relationship, and that was enough. waiting till college. same. It's for everyone's sanity...especially mine. |
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Oct 5 2005, 08:00 PM
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 ART is everything. Group: Member Posts: 230 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 45,166 |
- Don't exactly split out all your feelings to the guy
- Don't take serious of highschool relationship - Most guys are morons. |
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Oct 5 2005, 10:20 PM
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Middle school relationships are moronic.
Being too clingy is bad. Things won't work out well if you worry too much. |
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Oct 5 2005, 10:51 PM
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 Bay Area YadadaDiiiig. Group: Official Member Posts: 4,249 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 103,202 |
Never give your heart wholely to them.
I still havent mastered that technique. Dont believe the whispers. Go straight to him. Believe in yourself. |
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Oct 5 2005, 11:57 PM
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dripping destruction Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 7,282 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 21,929 |
QUOTE(yuna* @ Oct 5 2005, 8:00 PM) - Don't exactly split out all your feelings to the guy - Don't take serious of highschool relationship - Most guys are morons. i think a more proper one fore the last one is.. most guys who date seriously in high school are morons. |
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Oct 6 2005, 12:11 AM
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 banangst ♥ Group: Member Posts: 727 Joined: Sep 2005 Member No: 237,399 |
ive learned a lot.
and most of them repeat the ones that many has said. but most of all never get obsessed dont say "i love you" 1 or 2 weeks into the relationship. say it when you mean it. not becuase you have to. never let relationships become the number one thing in your life. when you still have school and friends. i can go on.. but i'm done =] |
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Oct 6 2005, 09:46 AM
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 bliss. Group: Member Posts: 735 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 41,566 |
don't fall in love easily.
but i guess you can't control yourself.  well, don't be so wishful. |
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Oct 6 2005, 10:39 PM
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 "my girls rock balenciaga and smoke mad marijuana" Group: Member Posts: 2,089 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 70,049 |
trust is key; the guy should never be afraid to kiss the girl// its not always a girl slaps the guy because of it! lol...just a few things i`ve learned!
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Oct 8 2005, 02:24 PM
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i don't know if you're still writing that paper but here's what i've learned:
-high school relationships are overrated- i'm waiting until the end of my senior year [i'm currently a sophomore] to try again. one is enough for me we expect them to last for a long time but when it comes down to it, we end up breaking things before within a matter of months. in a way, we kid ourselves into "that fairy tale ending" but for some, it actually does come true. others- we grow restless -communication is key -sometimes our busy lifestyles dont allow us to stay in a relationship -don't let yourself go to quickly. you may love the person but you shouldn't allow them to get too touchy -don't be afraid to trust them -dont be afraid to speak your mind, if something bugs you about the one you're with, make an effort to point it out. don't be afraid to yell at them a little. -don't be so quick to say i love you and never question yourself about whether or not you love them. and mostly if it was meant to be, let it go and if it comes back to you, then it was always yours (yeah, it's cliche) -"breaks" can give you a lot of time to re-validate yourself |
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Oct 9 2005, 07:57 PM
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 dizzy me up. Group: Member Posts: 3,191 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 11,139 |
oh i learned a lot.
-don't base relationships entirely on feelings, have some common sense with you and LISTEN to what your friends say because sometimes what they see, you're blind to. -just because he said i love you with the most sincerest words ever, doesnt mean he really means it. -really big teddy bears arent that great when he wont write more than half a page on a card. -physically hurting yourself is NOT worth it for a guy. -you know something's defnitely wrong when you're avoiding him, and hoping he'll talk to you after a week. -crying yourself to sleep everyday doesnt exactly spell love. -when he doesnt try to work things out 'because he's too scared to' is just a big lie. -memories are really hard to forget and painful because you know that's all they will ever be. -sometimes you find yourself missing him just because of one moment which isnt worth 205928 other miserable days -if you trust him, it doesnt mean hes worth trusting. -pretty words are bs |
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Oct 9 2005, 11:50 PM
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 ich heisse Meli. Group: Member Posts: 909 Joined: Apr 2005 Member No: 122,016 |
guys aren't worth it. Men, maybe, but guys, no. Heck no.
Don't settle for the one you can live with. Wait until the one you can't live without. |
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Oct 10 2005, 12:46 AM
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 Senior Member Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 7,025 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 4,051 |
- Sometime's it's just better to be yourself. Making yourself seem like "the perfect girlfriend" only causes trouble.
- When he asks you what you want for your birthday, say suprise me not nothing. - Don't be shy - Some secret's are meant to be kept between you and him. - Always say what you want to, later you will regret it this is a very good topic by the way, I'll add some more later. Good luck on your paper! |
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Oct 10 2005, 02:54 PM
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 Proud to be an Anime Otaku Group: Member Posts: 667 Joined: Jul 2005 Member No: 165,004 |
I learned not to fall to deep.
Ok maybe not the happiest thing in the world, but I also learned to get over self conscience issues ^^ |
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Oct 10 2005, 11:13 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 2,343 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 17,767 |
WHEN IT DOUBT, TALK IT OUT
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Oct 11 2005, 04:27 AM
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 naïvety Group: Human Posts: 1,303 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 488 |
^ AMEN.
QUOTE(ChasingLife87 @ Oct 10 2005, 11:50 AM) guys aren't worth it. Men, maybe, but guys, no. Heck no. Damn. Do we have to wait until we get to college, then?` 99.9% of long distance relationships don't work out. They just don't. ` Being separated from him/her for more than 5 hours is enough to drive you nuts - even when you're sleeping. ` Never talk to your bf about how hot other guys are, unless they're 100% unattainable.. like, Ryan-Cabrera-unattainable. ` If you are forgetful and easily bored, keep a small notepad close by to jot down major points when you're on the phone with them, just in case they ask you about it in the future. ` Don't say "i love you" until you know you do. Say "i heart you" or "i need you" but not "i love you". Just don't. Otherwise, when the time comes that you finally realize you really love them, you'll have something meaningful to say. ` When you see their screenname on your contact list but refuse to click on it and type "hey", then something's wrong. ` Give hugs whenever you can. |
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Oct 11 2005, 08:19 PM
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 ^ Mrs. Jonas Group: Member Posts: 592 Joined: Apr 2005 Member No: 263,313 |
QUOTE(K!$$ @ Oct 11 2005, 4:27 AM) ` When you see their screenname on your contact list but refuse to click on it and type "hey", then something's wrong. Haha, yeah. Course, I have that problem with friends sometimes. 
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Oct 12 2005, 11:45 PM
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Member Group: Member Posts: 17 Joined: Aug 2005 Member No: 202,981 |
i learned not to say u love a person so fast, i learned not to lie to urself wen things arent right caz u are afraid of wat will happen, i learned not to give in all my trust into a person so fast, i learned not to give that person my whole heart, i learned not to be so naive
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Oct 13 2005, 12:25 AM
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dripping destruction Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 7,282 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 21,929 |
the faster you fall, the hotter it gets, and the harder you hit, the quicker you get there and the bigger the crater left.
that being said, nothing wrong with a fiery dive as long as you slow down before you hit. |
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Oct 13 2005, 12:27 AM
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@ngel_Lynn Group: Member Posts: 158 Joined: Aug 2005 Member No: 205,612 |
ME what I learned was that I shouldnt get in a relationship to fast, I should get to know the person and be able to know about his past. Not just jump into somethin without knowin the real him. cause if yah do you'll wind up months later with meaning less conversations, a hi and bye which sucks. I also learned that sometimes I love you dont mean a thing. Also that not to get to serious kinda what I said before but as in harmones. Dont get to serious cause if your unsure with being with that person for a life time you might just regret it. Also I learned that I need to be more open not shy all the time. I need to be myself. sometimes i cant over come that.
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Oct 13 2005, 12:28 AM
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 ilikeyouSofreakingmuch. Group: Member Posts: 2,014 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 643 |
actually THINK before you get into the relationship
don't say i love you unless you know you really, really do think of more things to say don't get into relationships with really close friends unless you're positive it'd work out |
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Oct 13 2005, 12:36 AM
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@ngel_Lynn Group: Member Posts: 158 Joined: Aug 2005 Member No: 205,612 |
QUOTE actually THINK before you get into the relationship don't say i love you unless you know you really, really do think of more things to say don't get into relationships with really close friends unless you're positive it'd work out I so agree for me I could never get into a relationship with a close friend atleast not now in high school life cause it can get pretty crazy with the other girls and stuff |
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Oct 13 2005, 07:02 AM
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 Brown hand smash Group: Member Posts: 654 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 60,582 |
dont give your 100% and leave something for your self
if you two broke up at least you have some pride and ego with you to take home guess thats what happened l just gave my 100% sweetness become bitter too much always have a bad effect on everything too much sweetness taste bitter ^__^ life lesson learned loving's great irony is letteing go when you need to hold on and/or holding on when you needed to let go. loving people means giving then the freedom to choose whon and where they want to be, regardless whether those choices leads toward or away from you. |
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Oct 13 2005, 12:49 PM
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^ Mrs. Jonas Group: Member Posts: 592 Joined: Apr 2005 Member No: 263,313 |
Every time you are in a relationship with someone, you give them a piece of your heart. The more of your heart you save for your husband or wife, the better.
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Oct 13 2005, 01:24 PM
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When telling your boyfriend something, be as straightup as possible. Give them some space, they need to hang with their buds too.
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