should i let my daughter go out ? Options

[crazi_in_love_08]

ok well my daughter is 15 n this guy that asked her to go see a movie is 18 , they have a class together in school. i met him yesterday n he seems like a pretty kewl kid. i trust my daughter to not do sumthing stupid, but i dont think i trust him all the way.. what should i do ?? btw this is her account .. im just tryin to get advice from u guys

[PreludeTears]

ok well my daughter is 15 n this guy that asked her to go see a movie is 18 , they have a class together in school. i met him yesterday n he seems like a pretty kewl kid. i trust my daughter to not do sumthing stupid, but i dont think i trust him all the way.. what should i do ?? btw this is her account .. im just tryin to get advice from u guys

Yeah you should, its just the movies. But if it gets more serious then that I dont think you should because shes only 15 and hes 18, maybe he was all nice in front of you and yeah you trust your her, but must I tell you high school is the untold story of the elementary book, you see my point?

[*tweeak*]

Why do I get the impression that this is a "hypothetical" situation that you're writing about yourself?

Honestly, if you want to pose as a parent, a) learn to spell, b) take the 08 out of your username, as that typically indicates graduation year, c) use proper grammar (most adults don't type like illiterate teens), and d) don't type like your "15 year old daughter"

[crazi_in_love_08]

like i said b4 this is my daughters username.. Im just on here, and yes she knows. I have alwasy typed like this n i dont see anything wrong with it .. anyways .. how old are u guys ?? im 30

[PreludeTears]

im 16, 17 on March Mrs. But I must slightly agree with the young lady below my first comment, you dont type like a 30 year old woman

[*tweeak*]

If you're 30, why do you have a 15 year old daughter? Come on, I know some people do get pregnant at 15, but... You're typing in niether complete sentences nor with appropriate punctuation or capitalization. There are few adults who won't type out the entire word "and." Plus, a good many more errors that I won't get into because I can't be bothered and would sound far too nitpicky. But anyway, how could you possibly have gotten through 30 years of life typing like that? It was a pretty recent thing to start that anyway, so you've "always" done it and "don't see a problem with it?" Bullshit.

[OhXiet_ItzDonnA]

Well, if you trust her, you should let her go. But you can tell your daughter to be careful if the guy look like he might do something. I dont think she would do anything in the movies with people around.

[AngryBaby]

haha, well then....you dont type like a mom, at all. but maybe your just trying to relate to us or something . but i dont understand that if you were a kid just posing as a parent, what would you get out of this? so thats the only reason that i think there is a possibilty you may be a mother. but i dont think you are....
because why would you ask for our advice? knowing the majority of the people here are gonna probably say "yes, you should let her go". my mom wouldnt do it i tell you that haha.

[elaboratedream]

anyways .. how old are u guys ?? im 30

wait, if you're 30 that means you must have had a bf when you were 15... and you went all the way with him when you were 15. let her go out with him... are you afraid she'll make the same mistakes you did?

but anyways, I agree with the other people. You don't type like a 30 year old and if you are just a kid pretended to be a parent, you need to get a life or something. what are you gonna get out of this?

[Azn Kid from NY]

..i think if that guys 18, and he has any sexual relationship with ur 15 year old daughter, that would be considered rape isnt it? cuz shes a minor and he's an adult.....

[Spirited Away]

Whaaat? Er. I'm just a little uncomfortable with a 30 year-old using the word "kewl", leaving letters out of words, and type "u" where "o's" are needed.

Anyway, I think if you'd like extensive feedback, you'll need to give us more information on the young man. Telling us that he was "kewl" doesn't say much about his maturity or intention.

[_sarcastic_]

woa woa you can't be 30... your daughter's already 15 O.o
anyways, jsut trust her let her go out.

[*RiC3xBoy*]

Intersting, you are 30, and you have a 15 year old daughter. Yea, and my milkshake brings all the boys to the yard,

[silver-rain]

Yeah, somehow, I don't believe that you're 30 years old...
But, I would say that if you trust her, just let her out to the movies this time. But, if the relationship progresses, make sure he has the best intentions for her and won't take advantage of her. Tell her to be careful too.

[technicolour]

A. I highly doubt you are 30.
B. If a 30 year old types lyk dis then I'm highly disturbed.
C. No. You should lock your daughter up in a convent.

  ..i think if that guys 18, and he has any sexual relationship with ur 15 year old daughter, that would be considered rape isnt it? cuz shes a minor and he's an adult.....

It would. Exactly why you should lock her up in a convent. She'll find love. Come on. Sound of music here...

[lbjshaq2345]

If you're 30, why do you have a 15 year old daughter? Come on, I know some people do get pregnant at 15, but... You're typing in niether complete sentences nor with appropriate punctuation or capitalization. There are few adults who won't type out the entire word "and." Plus, a good many more errors that I won't get into because I can't be bothered and would sound far too nitpicky. But anyway, how could you possibly have gotten through 30 years of life typing like that? It was a pretty recent thing to start that anyway, so you've "always" done it and "don't see a problem with it?" Bullshit.

shut the f**k up tweeak this aint grammar school

[technicolour]

shut the f**k up tweeak this aint grammar school

How about you? A 30 year old who has gone through high school, and most likely, college should know how to type right. Maturity shows when you get older. Obviously you're an exception to this.


You, too, need to go to grammar school.

[Azn Kid from NY]

shut the f**k up tweeak this aint grammar school

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[yummy_delight]

1. I don't think you're 30 YOU ARE NOT 30. Don't insult our intelligence by telling us that you're 30.
2. I'm going to treat this as a hypothetical situation, since you are definitely NOT 30 years old.

I understand that your "daughter" may be trustworthy. HOWEVER, this guy is 18 years old. She is 15. Does statutory (forgive my spelling if it's incorrect) rape ring any bells? It might not happen, but let's face it. That's what guys want. In the interest of your "daughter's" safety, I wouldn't allow her to date him... unless of course you chaperone.

[aznxdreamer]

welcome to "you must have perfect grammar and spelling or else everyone will kill you" land

[Spirited Away]

shut the f**k up tweeak this aint grammar school

Um, grammar and spelling has to do with the topic starter belittling our intelligence, yours included, in this topic. Do you not get it?

[*mzkandi*]

Ok, if you dont believe its her then dont post in here and you do give her some advice. Simple? I thought so.

[shadkitty]

Alright then...I'm 20 going on 21. I've got two little ones, 2 and 1/2, and 7 months. I've been there done that: as in I've been the younger girl, and the older...um well still girl.

If you are thirty then, as was posted before, you must have had a child at the same age. Maybe you are afraid that the same thing will happen.

Here's what I have to say: Let the girl go out, maybe with a chaperone if you need one to make you feel more comfortable. Meet the guys parents. No matter what happens...kids will be kids and will do what they want. But it's better to know what's going on, reach a compromise. You can't lock a child up forever. One of two things will happen: they'll rebel and be super wild and crazy when you're not looking, or they'll be way sheltered and when they get out into "the real world" they will drown. This world is not a good place. Sorry to say, bad things happen, and you can't protect anyone 100% of the time.

[*mipadi*]

Well, if he's really "kewl" than yeah, let her go out with him. I mean, what's the worst that can happen?


Wait, no, that's not right. What I really meant was this:

Whaaat? Er.  I'm just a little uncomfortable with a 30 year-old using the word "kewl", leaving letters out of words, and type "u" where "o's" are needed.

[coconutter]

My dad talks illiterate. I'm like, dad please type correctly. He's all, c and see they're the same thing. I'm like that's not the point, some parents are just weird like that.