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post Sep 4 2005, 07:29 PM
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Baby, why?


Relationships are based on love. You can't have love if you don't have trust. Baby, why don't you trust me?

I have true love for you. Love that I have for the girl, love I have for you. We love her equally, we have to make us happy for her. I want you happy. I want you to have a good life.

You've given me something no one else could have done. This feeling I can't even describe.

That's pain, that nagging. Why should it return? What's there to make you insecure?

You're beautiful. You're wonderful. You're mine.

I love you.


^ Quote from my Myspace blog.


You guys know I'm engaged. There's a reason I didn't get married. (Actually two. But only Naomi and Rachel know the other reason.)

My fiance is CRAZY. His insecurity is driving me nuts. He gets so jealous when I'm around other men. Like I would ever cheat. I never act like it, I never flirt, I never dress like I'm looking for another man.

WTF is up with him? I love him to death, but I hate him for not trusting me.

I don't want to leave him. But I feel like he doesn't love me if he doesn't trust me. =[

What should I do?

To make this more topic oriented, have you had an over-protective or jealous boy/girlfriend? What's with the insecurities?
 
 
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mouse_3k
post Sep 4 2005, 07:32 PM
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well you are a beautiful women so of course he would get jealous.
 
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post Sep 4 2005, 07:34 PM
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well im back from va beach...i was hoping to meet up with you felicia but obviously your bf's insecurities didn't allow you to sad.gif

Im back in dc everyone...va beach=WOW wild nights.... cool.gif
 
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post Sep 4 2005, 07:35 PM
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I think you should talk to him about it. If he really loved you, he would trust you.

And eh, I've never had this problem. I was feeling insecure and suspicious about my last boyfriend. Turns out he was cheating on me the whole time..
 
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post Sep 4 2005, 07:39 PM
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I agree with mouse_3k your a beautiful girl and well hes nervous...if i was him i will be the same way...because i get insecure about my g/f when im not with her...because theres guys looking at her and all..im not saying your gonna do something,but its a think some guys do...just tell him its ok to fall back a little and relax when your not with him
 
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post Sep 4 2005, 07:39 PM
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QUOTE(AkaRyux @ Sep 4 2005, 4:35 PM)
I think you should talk to him about it. If he really loved you, he would trust you.

And eh, I've never had this problem. I was feeling insecure and suspicious about my last boyfriend. Turns out he was cheating on me the whole time..
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what a pimp.
 
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post Sep 4 2005, 07:40 PM
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QUOTE(aznxboredxperson @ Sep 4 2005, 6:39 PM)
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what a pimp.
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How so? huh.gif
 
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post Sep 4 2005, 07:43 PM
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Pimp = has more than 1 gf.
 
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post Sep 4 2005, 07:44 PM
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^ I know what a pimp is, but how is Max a pimp?
 
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post Sep 4 2005, 07:46 PM
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The most obvious reason is because you are a beautiful woman and very strong. These are qualites that would attract the average guy. But honestly, I think it may have something to do with the age difference between you guys. Why? Because if I was a older man, dating a much younger woman, I would be thinking there are so many things in her life that she hasnt experienced, especially in the love area. She may be tempted to experience others thing, with another guy, to confirm whether or not she is truely in love. That could lead to insecurites. Its just a theory. Whatever the case may be, its not right and if you havent told him about it, you seriously need to. Tell him that his insecurites about it hurt both you and the relationship.
 
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post Sep 4 2005, 08:02 PM
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QUOTE(mouse_3k @ Sep 4 2005, 8:32 PM)
well you are a beautiful women so of course he would get jealous.
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Exactly what she said...from what I know about you (even though its really little) you are an amazing person. Maybe he might just be a little insecure or afraid he would lose someone like you, [flirt] I know I would [/flirt]
Haha, anyway maybe you should just talk to him about this. Tell him everything on your mind and just find out why he doesn't trust you.
 
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post Sep 4 2005, 08:50 PM
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i agree with mzkandi everyone has their insecurities, he's just afraid that he might lose you since you ARE a very beautiful woman.
 
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post Sep 4 2005, 09:48 PM
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you should discuss things with him. i mean, i had a bf that has been over protective. gets mad/angry at me and that person once i start talking to other guys. i mean , im pretty sure hes just making sure your not going to make another relationship with another man. not saying that your really are going to, because you love your fiance a lot. and i'm sure that things are going to work out. your beautiful ; whoever is your boyfriend will of course want to be protective over their beautiful girlfriend.
 
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post Sep 4 2005, 09:54 PM
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Yeah, like others have said, you are beautiful so maybe that might attract other guys. I also agree with mzkandi, that because you are younger than him, he might be afraid that you would want to experience more. I think you should really sit down and talk to him about this. Ask him why he's so insecure, and reassure him that you will be faithful.
Meh, I am be the jealous/insecure girlfriend in my relationship, but after my boyfriend talked it through with me, and made me realize that I was being stupid, I stopped being as insecure.
 
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post Sep 4 2005, 10:26 PM
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QUOTE(AkaRyux @ Sep 4 2005, 4:44 PM)
^ I know what a pimp is, but how is Max a pimp?
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Max, your bf ?

If so ..
It's the same thing as i stated. huh.gif

pimp = has more girls.

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post Sep 4 2005, 10:36 PM
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i agree with steph.
felicia, you are one beautiful ass girl, & it probably wouldnt be so easy to just brush off the fact that hella dudes look at you.

just try to talk to him about why he feels so insecure about you. if youre engaged, you should be past that part of love & trust, but if he cant trust you discuss it with him.

good luckk ;D
 
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post Sep 4 2005, 11:18 PM
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QUOTE(aznxboredxperson @ Sep 4 2005, 11:26 PM)
Max, you're bf ?

If so ..
It's the same thing as i stated.  huh.gif

pimp = has more girls.

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yeah thats true shes my wubber wub.gif
 
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post Sep 4 2005, 11:23 PM
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Shit. i'm confuse.

You're her ex bf ?
 
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post Sep 4 2005, 11:24 PM
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QUOTE(aznxboredxperson @ Sep 5 2005, 12:23 AM)
Shit. i'm confuse.

You're her ex bf ?
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no im not that....im her man wink.gif
 
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post Sep 4 2005, 11:28 PM
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Really ? o.o I never knew that.
 
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post Sep 4 2005, 11:44 PM
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he's an older man and he's hit the jackpot by being engaged with a younger woman, but the downfall is that you can just pick yourself up and leave him for someone else. like some younger good looking guy.

my boyfriend gets jealous and insecure when i tell him about guys who hit on me. he wants to know who they are, what they look like and where he can find them ermm.gif

i don't really know what to tell you, he definately cannot keep this up because it's really annoying. just continue to put off the marriage if he doesn't trust you. he'll have to come around...
 
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post Sep 5 2005, 01:57 AM
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QUOTE(AkaRyux @ Sep 4 2005, 4:44 PM)
^ I know what a pimp is, but how is Max a pimp?
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He's trying to say that your ex boyfriend is a pimp because he was going out wit you and cheating on you wit another chick. He didn't say anything about Max being a pimp.
 
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post Sep 5 2005, 03:43 AM
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post Sep 5 2005, 03:48 AM
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QUOTE(wicked_awesome_ @ Sep 5 2005, 1:43 AM)
BOOGERS MAKE MY NOSE ITCH!
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post Sep 5 2005, 07:04 AM
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That cracked me up so bad.


QUOTE(chii @ Sep 5 2005, 11:44 AM)
he's an older man and he's hit the jackpot by being engaged with a younger woman, but the downfall is that you can just pick yourself up and leave him for someone else. like some younger good looking guy.

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^ Exactly. I think you should tell him he needs to relax.. Look at all the men out there. But you're with him. That oughtta mean something wink.gif
 
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