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 Dec 25 2006, 11:07 PM
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k...so ive been going out with my boyfriend for about 2 and a half months...b4 i was going out with him i had a crush on him for about a half a month. Hes ten years older than me. i really like him but theres alot about his background that i dont like...and if need be, he would go back to how he was (getting into fights, doing drugs[actually i know hes gonna go back to doing drugs in a few months, he cant do them now cuz he has to go to court to do urine tests every so often to make sure hes not doing drugs]). but i really like him...i lost my virginity to him and we have sex at least once a week. he also told me he wants to go camping together over spring break...in 3 months. he is reallly dedicated to me...
BUT theres this other guy who i like...i've had a crush on him for about 4 months ...and lately...weve been hanging out alot...and when were together im so comfortable...i like him alot too...well...he kissed me...and i kissed him back...hes my age...he does drugs sometimes too...i wound up explaining to him that i have a boyfriend and i only kissed him because i REALLY like him. at first he said maybe we would be able to go out in the future...but not now...he doesnt want to...then he said if i were to break up with my boyfriend we could hang out. i was actually thinking of breaking up with my boyfriend for a few reasons...1)the drugs 2)the age and also the fact that my family doesnt really like him cuz i spend alot of time with him...i know with the second guy i prob wouldnt spend as much time with him and the second guy said he doesnt want to wait around for me till me n my bf break up...he wants me to break up with him soon... i dont know who to go for...i feel bad breaking up with my bf since he really likes me and hes already making plans for the future....please please please help |
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Dec 25 2006, 11:57 PM
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Not to sound rude but you kinda have a messed up love life right now... Umm Af far as the new guy, if he isn't willing to wait for you, he isn't worth it. And as far as the other guy... *cringes* TEN YEARS DIFFERENCE?!?!? That would be like me getting with my Nephew's friends or something... I'd break up with the older guy and then just stay single and not even bother with the guy your age cause I wouldn't even think about the possiblity of considering going out with anyonhe who used drugs.
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Dec 25 2006, 11:59 PM
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 thanhnie Group: Member Posts: 240 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 26,059 |
I think the 2nd guy is shady. If he's not gonna wait for you now, what makes you think he'll wait for you when you actually do break up with ur bf now? I think you should just stay with your bf now and try to work things out. I mean, if you're not gonna hang out with the 2nd guy a lot, what's the point of going out with him? Don't you actually wanna see your bf? I know I would if I had one.
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Dec 26 2006, 12:03 AM
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 my michelle. Group: Member Posts: 792 Joined: Oct 2005 Member No: 267,094 |
I'd stick with the first guy, actually, because he's really proving his dedication to you. The second guy actually seems like he's sort of expecting you to break up with Guy #1. I mean if you really love the first guy, then stick with him. And don't dump him either just b/c your parents disapprove or whatever.
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Dec 26 2006, 12:06 AM
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bad girl, go sit in the corner.
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Dec 26 2006, 12:18 AM
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 mrs. paul dano. Group: Member Posts: 907 Joined: Nov 2006 Member No: 478,992 |
QUOTE(miiichellley @ Dec 25 2006, 9:03 PM)  I'd stick with the first guy, actually, because he's really proving his dedication to you. The second guy actually seems like he's sort of expecting you to break up with Guy #1. I mean if you really love the first guy, then stick with him. And don't dump him either just b/c your parents disapprove or whatever. Agreed. Even though the first guy did some bad things it looks like he is devoted to you. Who cares about the 2nd guy. |
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Dec 26 2006, 12:19 AM
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 One Love. Group: Duplicate Posts: 1,079 Joined: May 2006 Member No: 410,480 |
Go in the corner of your room and start cutting.
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Dec 26 2006, 01:08 AM
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i'm so bored. Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 1,261 Joined: Oct 2006 Member No: 473,614 |
actually, i'd break up with the first guy and forget about the second guy.
you cheated on the first guy. that's already grounds for cheating on him again, ya know? that's not a good relationship. the second guy sounds...bleh to me. if he won't even wait, then why even bother? if the drugs bother you so much then why stay with them both you know? |
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Dec 26 2006, 01:18 AM
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 <3 Group: Member Posts: 3,657 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 64,493 |
i agree with everyone, forget about the 2nd guy, he doesn't sound like he's going to be very devoted to you if you really do get with him.
i say stay with your bf, and try to work things about the drugs and issues with your parents out. |
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Dec 26 2006, 06:29 AM
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 我爱台妹,台妹爱我 Group: Member Posts: 877 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 52,340 |
theyre all wrong. youre just messed up. neglect of something. you just cant trust yourself to stay in a relationship, and is looking for another better thing. break yourself off of all relationships, stop having sex, and straighten out ur life. cause youre messed in the head. so are they, but this time, its not their problem.
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Dec 26 2006, 09:39 AM
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 i'm maggie =] Group: Member Posts: 3,607 Joined: Jan 2006 Member No: 361,616 |
how old are you?
id break up with #1 mostly because he's not even right for you. i doubt that you're the legal age and it's kinda..a bad situation when you're haning out with someone in their 20's. leave the both of them alone and find a really good guy. 
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Dec 26 2006, 11:20 AM
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i'm sorry ..HE DOESNT WANT TO WAIT FOR YOU?
what an ass! |
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| *krnxswat* |
Dec 26 2006, 12:07 PM
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You just simply don't deserve a boyfriend.
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| *kryogenix* |
Dec 26 2006, 12:16 PM
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so did you use gameshark or the konami code?
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| *suddenly she* |
Dec 26 2006, 02:20 PM
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how old are you?
or how dumb are you? both guys sounds like morons, but you don't deserve either. just get away from the boys for now and grow up; figure out your morals and expectations. then after you'll look back on this and wonder why you were so dumb. |
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| *T0rmented_Soul* |
Dec 26 2006, 02:32 PM
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..what a bitch...u did some old guy like 10 years older than you, you just degraded your self. you probably have a bad life. but then you kissed some other dude. who knows if ur current bf has std's gross....you don't deserve to have a bf. nuff said.
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| *slammin shelby* |
Dec 26 2006, 03:10 PM
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QUOTE(krnxswat @ Dec 26 2006, 12:07 PM) You just simply don't deserve a boyfriend. Preeeeetty much. Two things. a.) You're a dumb bitch. b.) You're a dumb ho. Why would you even THINK about going out with someone who does drugs. Or sleeping with another person who does drugs. Um. Yeah. STD central baby. 
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Dec 26 2006, 06:08 PM
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wow, sounds like a couple of unhealthy relationships.
you should wait a few years until you grow up. |
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Dec 26 2006, 06:28 PM
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dont date the guy you cheated with,
bad karma. |
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Dec 26 2006, 06:29 PM
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 chinky Group: Official Designer Posts: 2,566 Joined: Jul 2006 Member No: 434,437 |
10 years?
Lol, wait. You'll find the right guy soon. But if you cheated, THAT'S YOUR FAULT! 
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Dec 26 2006, 06:58 PM
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You guys are dumb. Group: Member Posts: 1,252 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 25,094 |
Buy a dildo. Cheat with the dildo.
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| *a painefull euphoria* |
Dec 26 2006, 10:16 PM
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QUOTE(Statistik @ Dec 25 2006, 11:19 PM) Go in the corner of your room and start cutting. lmao the title made me laugh yeah dude bad move on your part. |
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Dec 27 2006, 12:16 AM
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DRUGS?!
Also, if you did dump the 1st for the 2nd, it wouldn't last long. Some point in the relationship, he would start thinking that if you broke up with guy1 for him, why wouldn't you break up with guy2 for some other guy? |
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Dec 27 2006, 12:45 AM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 165 Joined: May 2005 Member No: 135,549 |
wow...you guys all kinda suck....i love it how this is where i come for advice/support..bit mean eh?...thanx alot
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| *slammin shelby* |
Dec 27 2006, 12:49 AM
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Um. Sweetie. We're not the ones who slept with a druggie and cheated on him with another.
Doesn't that sound dumb to you? 
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