Sometimes I feel like, I'm invisible |
Sometimes I feel like, I'm invisible |
Mar 17 2005, 06:28 PM
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TOISU!! Group: Member Posts: 1,996 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 92,516 |
Ok..I know that there is some topics that relate to this "alone" stuff..and yeah..but I just wanted to know if anyone else feels this way..like..you have a bunch of friends..you know they care about you and yada yada..but sometimes they make you feel like your not even there..? I feel like that a lot for some reason..I recently just got through a little depression stage after me and my ex split up.. ..so I guess I've been through a lot and learned a few lessons and stuff..but I really hate it when I feel ignored..or pressured..stuff like that. It's kinda hard to explain but..if you feel like this then you'll get what I'm saying..hopefully..(sorry if you don't heheh)
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Mar 17 2005, 06:34 PM
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... Group: Member Posts: 818 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 32,366 |
yea i know how you are feeling. i dont really want to go into deep details and whatever but ive been getting over depression and ive been doing fine but my firends dont seem like they want to talk to me or even acknowledge methe fact that im there. and it sucks because im the type of person who will think the worst when something like that happens(not all the time but in this situatuion yes). i know how it feels and it is a shitty feeling.
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Mar 17 2005, 06:35 PM
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I watch you while you sleep. Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 1,068 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 7,685 |
I don't feel invisible with my friends.
xo, Pauline |
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Mar 17 2005, 06:36 PM
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hi. call me linda. Group: Official Member Posts: 8,187 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,475 |
Yeah, sometimes I feel like that, and it really annoys me. Meh, I guess I've just gotten used to it...
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*salcha* |
Mar 17 2005, 06:49 PM
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then why dont you do something to make them notice you if you dont want to stay invisible?
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Mar 17 2005, 06:51 PM
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Lemme c ya 1, 2, Step! ;] Group: Member Posts: 84 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 113,865 |
I usually feel that way. But now...i dont know. I dont feel like that that much often like i used to before.
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Mar 17 2005, 07:06 PM
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crushed. Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 9,431 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 20,026 |
gosh I know exactly how you're feeling..I know they care and love me, but sometimes they do it and not even notice that they're making me feel all left out.
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*stephinika* |
Mar 17 2005, 07:07 PM
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yeah i definitely understand. thats how it was for me 2 years ago.
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Mar 17 2005, 07:08 PM
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to hell with you Group: Member Posts: 2,547 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,506 |
maybe you are invisible. *twilight zone music*
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Mar 17 2005, 07:22 PM
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i've never wanted anything rationale. Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 8,449 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 19,045 |
i think everyone feels that way at one point or another
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Mar 17 2005, 07:24 PM
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TOISU!! Group: Member Posts: 1,996 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 92,516 |
QUOTE maybe you are invisible. *twilight zone music* Haha maybe.. QUOTE gosh I know exactly how you're feeling..I know they care and love me, but sometimes they do it and not even notice that they're making me feel all left out. That's exactly what I'm talking about.. |
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*lolita kitty* |
Mar 17 2005, 07:24 PM
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i feel that way alot. im in a group of five friends, and im usually the odd man...or woman...out. [example, two of them is bff's, the other two is bffs, and im left out].....yeah >.<
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Mar 17 2005, 07:34 PM
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jellyfishing, jellyfishing Group: Member Posts: 1,174 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 55,185 |
Yeah, I feel like that a lot. Not quite invisible.....but...more like the "third wheel" i guess
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Mar 17 2005, 07:38 PM
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my <3 is in Ohio Group: Member Posts: 899 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 27,599 |
yeah i know how your feeling. happens alot kinda
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Mar 17 2005, 07:42 PM
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Hello there. Group: Member Posts: 343 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 78,879 |
QUOTE(pAtRiCk_sTar @ Mar 17 2005, 4:34 PM) That's exactly how I feel. Sometimes I'd be with a bunch of my friends and I wouldn't really know what they're talking about cause I'm not there... It sucks sometimes. |
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*jooleeah* |
Mar 17 2005, 07:42 PM
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Yeah, I know that feeling. I felt it all the time last year. It sucked.
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Mar 17 2005, 07:45 PM
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durian Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 13,124 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,860 |
At times I do feel this way... But at the same time I realized that either it's my fault that I pushed them away, or they pushed me away. And then I reailzed that if they were the ones that pushed me away, I should move on and find new closer friends. The old friends can still be my friend and all, but they're not that close to me because they decided to leave me out and yea. Only your true friends will stick by your side no matter what.
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Mar 17 2005, 07:50 PM
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who ma bitch? you ma bitch, bitch. Group: Member Posts: 1,920 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 55,278 |
sometimes i feel like that...
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Mar 17 2005, 07:52 PM
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asdfghjkl; Group: Member Posts: 187 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 104,038 |
i know what you mean.. sometimes i wonder if my friends even know i'm there. it's like... i'm trying to say something but then someone louder interupts and doesn't even notice. it's really annoying.
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Mar 17 2005, 08:01 PM
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insanitys contagious. Group: Official Member Posts: 4,210 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 99,707 |
sometimes/hardly i feel like that.
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Mar 17 2005, 08:35 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 2,248 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 30,084 |
i guess alot of ppl feel like taht at times.
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Mar 17 2005, 08:58 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 64 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 55,322 |
it's a phase, dun worry you'll get over it
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Mar 17 2005, 09:02 PM
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dizzy me up. Group: Member Posts: 3,191 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 11,139 |
yeah sometimes i feel invisible they just all walk together and forget about me.
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Mar 17 2005, 09:09 PM
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This is all my luck, it's all I got. Group: Member Posts: 1,373 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 76,532 |
Yeah i feel like that sometimes. But it happens to everyone so i dont really mind.
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Mar 17 2005, 09:10 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 745 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 28,039 |
I take too many things to heart. My friends know this yet they still feel the need to make fun of me, even just for the little things. I act so nice around everyone. I think that's why my "close" friends see me as the go-to person when they feel horrible and need help ficing their problems. So I'm kind of invisible in a visible way. I'm invisible because I'm a push-over, yet visible only when someone needs my help.
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