THEY STARTED IT! Options

[inthemudhole]

Yeah. Who started your current or last relationship?
Just wondering.

K, here's how it all played out..

Okay. I had written a few notes to my friends Liz and Zena.. and he somehow got ahold of them.
He then IMed me asking me about them, because he saw his name and a "#1".. so he was curious..

Alec: I see my name and a #1.
Brie: Yes.
Alec: Do you hate me now, or what?
Brie: NO!!!! Ermm. The exact opposite of that..
Alec: What's that?"
--pause--
Alec: Oohhh..
Brie: Yep.
Alec: Wow. Uhm. *awkward silence* I, uh, like you, too.
Brie: Really? Neat.
Alec: Yeah..
--long pause--
Alec: Will you.. *spazzes* go out with me?
Brie: Sure!

That's pretty much how it all happened..

[anger_is_my_frie...]

my last relationship?? that would have to be the guy. it took lots of my effort flirting tho.

[danielle7715]

i told him i liked him, but i never ask people out, so he formally said the words
"do you want to be my girlfriend?"
so in a way we both did...

[xsweetdreams12x]

Never been in a relationship...

But the notes thing sounded so sweet... Iono why, but it just did. lol

[slurp]

my last relationship..he asked me to go out with him a few times online for like 2 weeks? and i didnt say yes until that day he asked me in person

[conster]

i like inthemudhole's start off thats so cute

mine.. well started off wit 2 guys that liked me it was around christmas time.. the one i liked gave me a picture frame wit a poem written on it... and asked me out on paper ...
but then lols we went to hang out at my house wit a buncha friends on christmas eve and we were too shy to say it to each other so we wrote it on post -its

we didnt offcially go out till he asked in person tho

[mouse_3k]

my ex actually. my current bf was my ex's good friend. I somehow found my current bf's sn and started talking to him then on the fone then we got closer and closer. we only met each other like 3 times before he asked me out. Here is how he did it

o3.17.o4 (((St. Patricks day & his Bday)))

On the fone. I called him to wish him a happy bday and all.

Me: Happy 16th you nerd!!!
Him: haha thanks. Everything today is going so well. I got love from everyone
Me: haha thts good then!
Him: yup

((I was in the school library with my friends before track practice started))

Friend #1: Steph is blasian, your mutated lol!!! (In the background)
Him: HAHAHAHAHAH!!!
Me: hush you
Him: well...uh..Do you wanna go out with me?
((a pause..I was shocked and couldnt say NE thin))
Me: wow of course, Yes DURR!!!!
Him: hahaha

then I was talking to my bf when me and my other friend was walking down to the track.

Friend #2: Who you talkin to steph?
Me: my bf
Friend #2: EWWWW WHO WOULD WANNA GO OUT WITH STEPH!?!?!?
(She shouted tht real loud haha)
Him: HAHAHAHAHAHAHA!!!!!
Me: hush, ur going out wit me remember u punk.

lol yup....I will never forget tht day

[LiNHy POO]

ooo... i remembered a bit of it

Daniel- i really like you
Me- oo really?
Daniel- so do you wanna go out?
Me- uhh usually long distance realtionships dont work
and blah blah blah... haha i forgot the rest... well a few days later he asked again.. and i said YESS!

[x0143637x0]

me and him started talking on the phone for a while and got closer to each other. then he told me he likes me. but i was the one that asked him out cuz he made it but it didnt realli matter cuz at least we're going

[sailormei]

He asked me. Hehe... and it all started with a simple IM from me. I still wonder to this day, if I didn't IM him, what would happen...

[whomps]

Uhmm he did.. after two years of liking him. That idiot though, I told him I wasn't ready but oh well.

[leeeza702]

lol, mine is kinda cool i guess...

my sister and I usually hang out together on the weekends for some sister bonding.... she was into that whole DDR thing back when she was like 17... which was uhhh... 4 years ago... so we always went to NYNY (New York New York) Hotel and Casino to go play DDR... over there is where we met... my boyfriend (tommy) and his best friend (cyril)... cyril was into my sister (vice versa) and tommy and I had a thing for each other, I guess you can say... so we always went on double dates and stuff... and then he finally asked me....

[justbabeness]

my closest guy friend asked me to go to his junior prom with him as just friends. but during the 2months before prom, we started liking each other. and on the day of the prom he asked me out. it was pretty romantic in that semi-dark room lit with lots of purple candles. he was pretty cute in that tux of his too, lol

[sammi rules you]

hmm. current one. i remember it perfectly..

nick: haha
nick: um
nick: yeah
nick: <- 2nd guy that's liked you in your life
nick: uhm
nick: *cough*
nick: anyway
me: lol..:-)


yeah.

[black_cloud10]

me: i think i have a crush on michael
ned: *blank stare*
me: should i say something to him?
ned: i wouldn't.... make the friendship awkward and whatnot
me: ok...... mrs porter can i go to the restroom
*walking, walking dum dum, de dum*
me: hey michael! *did the dumb wave that means "come here"*
mike: yeah
me: do you love me?
mike: yeah
me: really?!? *hug*
mike: do you love me?
me: yeah *big goofy grin*
gym coach: sara get back to class!!
*mike goes back to game*
everyone in the game: hey! michael's got a girlfriend!
me: *still with the stupid grin*
*walking walking walking, back in class*
me: i did it
ned: (-.- ")

[DrEaMgUy2K1]

i met her at a friend's brother's wedding reception, and i kinda know her through my best friend cuz hes her cousin

i end up alking to her on aim and as the conversation went along we somehow stumble onto our feelings towards each other.

me - "so how about giving me a picture of you?"
her - "why do u want my picture?"
me - "so i can be reminded that there are angels out there and i dont want to forget your beautiful face "
her - "ohhh now i c, your a sweet talker arent you?"
me- "wtf lol , i only said that cuz i like you"
her - "what?!"
me - "yea i like you, and i thought u did too, isnt that why u gave me your number?
her - "well i gave u it cuz i thought we could get to know each other and be friends"
me - "so i read you wrong huh?"
her- "no, u didnt let me finish"
her - i do like you though, and i am interested in seeing you again"
me - "oh really... im not doing anything tomorow, do u to catch a movie?
her - "its a date"

yea i got a good memory haha, but then again u should remember how u started ur relationship even if u got a brain the size of a peanut ;]

[whywasisostupid]

him: i love you
me: i love you 2!
him: no for real
-pause-
me: really?
him: yes.
me: aw...
him:will you go out with me
me: okay!
...ya im lame

another one

Aj: hey your hot
me: thanks!

after 3 days we talked and became good friends and he asked me out


YA like i said, im lame

[inthemudhole]

me: i think i have a crush on michael
ned: *blank stare*
me: should i say something to him?
ned: i wouldn't.... make the friendship awkward and whatnot
me: ok...... mrs porter can i go to the restroom
*walking, walking dum dum, de dum*
me: hey michael! *did the dumb wave that means "come here"*
mike: yeah
me: do you love me?
mike: yeah
me: really?!? *hug*
mike: do you love me?
me: yeah *big goofy grin*
gym coach: sara get back to class!!
*mike goes back to game*
everyone in the game: hey! michael's got a girlfriend!
me: *still with the stupid grin*
*walking walking walking, back in class*
me: i did it
ned: (-.- ")

Aww.
That's so cute, Sara!

[acidbreeze]

I'm a guy.
I did it.
I asked if she wanted to go out with me.
I already knew she liked me and she knew I liked her because I had been around her more often and her friend told me she wanted to go out with me.
On a previous relationship I had a friend of mine and her "arrange" everything.

[Gr33nT3agUrL]

Well mostly the guys start the relationship cuz they're more lyke flirty than us gurlz n not get embarrass by askin pplz out so that's pretty much it. guys ask gurlz out n if she lykes him too then she'll say yes if no then the guy hab to put the shyt on him..oo foegot the to answer the question: yes guyz always ask me out first so yea..

[dani41790]

well heres wat happend well umm one nite (march. 6. 04) wen my crush was on aim, my best fren was trying to get me to tell him i like him, i was all saying no but then she started talking me into it so then i said ok and then me, my best fren and my crush went into a chat room. once we were in there, i pretty much started freakin out so i let my friend tell him. afta that i pretty much just avoided him afta that. well three days later (march .9. 04) at school during recess, i was walking with my best fren and then i found out he was walking behind us. my best fren then ran back and got him and pulled him next to me and then he asked me "will you go out with me" well i waz pretty much in shock and i said idk. my best fren then started yelling at me so i pulled her into the gurlz bathroom and talked to her and stuff. well 2 days later (march .11. 04<3) i was on my way to math and my best fren made me talk to him again and so i did and he asked me out again but this time i said yes but thing thats gay is that he didnt hear me and he didnt noe i said yes until he had pre alg with my best fren. so yea sorry if its long

[inthemudhole]

HAHAHA.
I just found t3h convo.
It was in my sent items.
It's really lame.. and we both sound really different now..

Alec: wut it say?
Alec: lol
Me: jeeez, i'm not telling you here either. lol
Alec: god?
Alec: god*
Alec: lol
Me: i dun wanna say
Alec: u hate me now'
Alec: isnt it
Me: wtf? i dun hate you!
Alec: i see my name
Alec: and a #1
Me: yah
Me: thats not a hating thing
Alec: wut is it then?
Me: The opposite of hate jeez
Alec: wuts dat?
Alec: oooooo
Alec: ic
Alec: ummm....
Alec: wow
Me: Uh..
Alec: *akward moment* lol
Me: yeah
Alec: lol
Alec: yup
Alec: well....ummm...i kinda....ummm....like u too
Me: neat.
Alec: mhm
Alec: yea
Alec: well then....
Me: hmm
Alec: wow...i kinda thought u didnt like me
Alec: lol
Me: wow
Me: exact opposite
Alec: yup
Alec: well.....ummmm.....
Alec: well....
Me: Hmmm.
Alec: would u....(seizures)...go out with me?
Me: sure, why not.
Alec: wow!
Alec: dat wuz easy
Alec: lol
Me: lmao
Alec: lol
Alec: just promise me sumtin
Me: hmm
Alec: dont move to bismark and call me and yell at me
Alec: lol
Me: lmao
Me: i won't
Alec: kk
Alec: lol
Me: haha i would never yell
Alec: lol
Alec: well...i am kinda glad i found dat note
Me: lol yeah me too
Alec: or stole
Alec: i should say
Alec: lol
Me: lol

HAHA. How lame is that?? I just found that.. whoo! We both sound really different now..

[black_cloud10]

lol brie thats cute
my hookup with my ex was the dumbest. we skimmed around the topic for weeks.
finally my friend was like "why don't you two just go out?!?" and i was like "i'd say yes if he asked" and so i got asked out the next day ^_^

[*Azarel*]

Hm. Quite a few, if not all, were IMs. I'm such a loser. Actually. I just realized all were through IM. Haha. My guy friends are such pussies.

So Tim then: I'm not too sure how we got into it. I think we started getting kinda-sorta serious when I got pissed at him for going along with what Kim (ohlalaitskim) was doing in chat. I told him I didn't want to talk to him anymore. We talked it out and here's what he said.

T: i'm all yours.
T: so don't worry about that.
T: i am completely, postitively sure. 100% yours. nobody else's.
T: totally clear.

Since then, we're pretty serious about each other, but we're not official because it's long distance. But we have each other. And it makes me happy. I miss him.