Emotional Cheating ?, Feeling on this... |
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 Dec 3 2009, 12:32 AM
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Caught my girl sending emails to some kid telling him she loves him and calling him "baby" and what not . . . he lives in another state, and she admitted to having feelings 4 him... broke up with her after 7 years . . .
how do you guys feel about emotional cheating vs physical cheating ? Stay Up -1- Subliminal |
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Dec 3 2009, 12:52 AM
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In an essence, there is no difference. Cheating, can be defined as, no longer loving someone, but loving someone new, whilst you are considered to be in a relationship.
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Dec 3 2009, 04:55 PM
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Ouch, sorry to hear
It depends really, like there is one girl who hits on my boyfriend but she lives in another state and for some reason it doesn't phase (sometimes i joke to him that he should joke with her) But the fact that she had feelings for him, I guess it does count as emotional cheating depending the the reaction (if it bothers you or not) Did she do anything else like send pics of her? |
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Dec 4 2009, 03:07 AM
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QUOTE(Uso @ Dec 3 2009, 04:55 PM)  Ouch, sorry to hear It depends really, like there is one girl who hits on my boyfriend but she lives in another state and for some reason it doesn't phase (sometimes i joke to him that he should joke with her) But the fact that she had feelings for him, I guess it does count as emotional cheating depending the the reaction (if it bothers you or not) Did she do anything else like send pics of her? yess she did, she sent pics, he sent pics, as well as the "convo" with inappropriate terms . . . went on 4 3 months before i found out  Stay Up -1- Subliminal |
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Dec 5 2009, 09:43 PM
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My sister did a speech on this for her speech class as a persuasive speech. Honestly, I feel as if emotional infidelity/cheating is the same as physically cheating. Her boyfriend was over in Iraq, and she found facebook messages to not 1, not 2, but 3 other girls saying how he is sorry he has a boyfriend.
When you physically cheat with someone, it usually means that you have no feelings for the person..and just trying to get some ass. Emotionally cheating though has feelings involved, which in my opinion, is way worse. |
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Dec 6 2009, 02:33 AM
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QUOTE(jeSs1cA @ Dec 5 2009, 09:43 PM) My sister did a speech on this for her speech class as a persuasive speech. Honestly, I feel as if emotional infidelity/cheating is the same as physically cheating. Her boyfriend was over in Iraq, and she found facebook messages to not 1, not 2, but 3 other girls saying how he is sorry he has a boyfriend. When you physically cheat with someone, it usually means that you have no feelings for the person..and just trying to get some ass. Emotionally cheating though has feelings involved, which in my opinion, is way worse. exactly, i feel like emotionally cheating is a million times worse because of the feelings . . plus she has physically cheated on before  So to physically cheat once, then emotionally cheat . . . just not right Stay Up -1- Subliminal |
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Dec 6 2009, 02:56 PM
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I'm pretty sure if she was sending pictures to him and saying "inappropriate" stuff to him when they chatted that the intentions of being physical with him were there, and if he didn't live in another state it would've happened.
What would you define as emotional cheating? Would you get angry if your significant other had a friend of the opposite sex who they trusted and shared everything with and leaned on for emotional support from time to time? I'm just wondering where the line is crossed. |
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Dec 6 2009, 05:46 PM
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QUOTE(karmakiller @ Dec 6 2009, 02:56 PM) I'm pretty sure if she was sending pictures to him and saying "inappropriate" stuff to him when they chatted that the intentions of being physical with him were there, and if he didn't live in another state it would've happened. What would you define as emotional cheating? Would you get angry if your significant other had a friend of the opposite sex who they trusted and shared everything with and leaned on for emotional support from time to time? I'm just wondering where the line is crossed. no im fine with girls having a dude to go 2 for support, but that is exactly the excuse she used when she was caught . . she said " we are really good friends and i go to him 4 support, and it just went to far" and ive been suspect of this kid for a while now, since back in the day when she lived near him in the same state she said she liked him . . . and i guarantee if he was here she would have made it physical . . Stay Up -1- Subliminal |
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Dec 7 2009, 06:39 AM
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ahahahahahahahhaahhahaahhahaha
and what the f*ck is up with this 'stay up -1- subliminal' gay shit |
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Dec 7 2009, 09:29 AM
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QUOTE(Seon-ho-Lee @ Dec 7 2009, 06:39 AM) ahahahahahahahhaahhahaahhahaha and what the f*ck is up with this 'stay up -1- subliminal' gay shit its called a "tag", stay on topic f*g. Stay Up -1- Subliminal |
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Dec 7 2009, 02:23 PM
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QUOTE(deteam @ Dec 7 2009, 09:29 AM) its called a "tag", stay on topic f*g. Isn't that what the signature block is for? |
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Dec 7 2009, 11:04 PM
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QUOTE(mipadi @ Dec 7 2009, 02:23 PM) Isn't that what the signature block is for? no thats for the "sig" aka banners ans stuff Stay Up -1- Subliminal |
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Dec 7 2009, 11:39 PM
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^ Wouldn't it be easier than typing that out in every post?
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Dec 8 2009, 02:07 PM
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QUOTE(deteam @ Dec 7 2009, 11:04 PM) no thats for the "sig" aka banners ans stuff What's the difference? |
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Dec 8 2009, 04:47 PM
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QUOTE(deteam @ Dec 7 2009, 10:04 PM) no thats for the "sig" aka banners ans stuff Stay Up -1- Subliminal Wrong. A signature, is the name you put at the bottom of a letter. Or post. Just people have decided to add additional information. |
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Dec 8 2009, 09:55 PM
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QUOTE(karmakiller @ Dec 7 2009, 11:39 PM) ^ Wouldn't it be easier than typing that out in every post? not really since im on multiple forums and do it on all of them so its a force of habit now . . so back to the actual topic of this thread?? Stay Up -1- Subliminal |
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Dec 9 2009, 05:12 PM
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dont ever try to play with feelings because there is always a reaction of whatever you do. if you play with emotions of somebody, someone can also play with your emotions.
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Dec 9 2009, 05:16 PM
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QUOTE(shazi786 @ Dec 9 2009, 03:12 PM) dont ever try to play with feelings because there is always a reaction of whatever you do. if you play with emotions of somebody, someone can also play with your emotions. Wow, I thought you were a bot.  Anyways... um.. deteam. I know what your problem is.. it's girls. CAPITALS G-I-R-L-S. Why go for girls who mess with your feelings when you can go for guys who know how to please a man. 
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Dec 9 2009, 07:16 PM
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LOL
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Dec 10 2009, 01:14 AM
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QUOTE(shazi786 @ Dec 9 2009, 05:12 PM) dont ever try to play with feelings because there is always a reaction of whatever you do. if you play with emotions of somebody, someone can also play with your emotions. exactly my philosophy, cause a lot of people are telling me to get back at her and get revenge and all this ... but my theory is she did me wrong, so eventually you know you get what you give.. one day it'll happen to her an she'll understand..... Karma Stay Up -1- Subliminal |
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