he hasnt talked to me for 3 days, did he just break up with me?, please be nice, i need advice..im at fragile state here ;[ Options

[StubbornFemme]

okay, its almost 3 months ive been dating this guy mike..the last time i hung out and talked to him was this past weds. we were totally fine, nothing different about him, we spent the whole day and almost all night together. i got home and we usually play scrabble online on fbook (yes we're nerds like that) and we're both competitive and i was winning and he was getting pissed.but im like im sorry ure all mad and hes like "no its ok its not ur fault ur good..and hes like im just mad right now im gonna go to sleep..gnite" usually when me and him play and either of us gets pissed..we get over it and he always gets ovr it the nxt day.

well thursday-saturday (yest), we havent talked to each other..and my paranoid self got so worried and wondering wtf is going on. hes done the no talking thing for a day at the most but he'll explain and apologize the very nxt day bc he knows already i dont like it when im trying to talk to him and im left in the dark w/no answers back. but i didnt do anything like txt or call him on thrs. friday i txted him sthing simple like hey what are u up to?, saturday i called him on my lunch break@wrk around 1pm..and my bestie was like u know what give me his# so she called him and he answered..so shes like call him right now..so i did..he didnt pick up.

my friends are telling me that hes straight up being a dick and hes clearly ignoring me and that i should just break up with him..so now im just wonderin wtf im supposed to do and im wondering if its even possible for s.one to just have no feelings for me all of a sudden in the past 3 days? and is this his way of breaking up with me? this is the 4th time hes done this whole no talking to me thing..but its NEVER EVER been this long. i am planning to break up with him..im just worried that ifi make that decision..that its the wrong thing..but everyones saying how he cant be that busy for 3 days and that he wouldnt ansser some randoms person # and ignore urs, and theres a very slim chance that theres a legit reason/excuse to why hes doing this.

if he doesnt get back to me today..im leaving his shit on his doorstep tomorrow. im not gonna call or txt him at all today or anything. im done with this mess, thats the only answer he'll get from me is that i left his shit on his doorstep = breakup.

[sixfive]

So what are you asking for? You've already made up your decision?

I have a few questions. How much do you care for him? How old are y'all? What do y'all normally do? How serious are y'all?



Also, pics

[StubbornFemme]

im just asking bc i dont want to make a hasty decision or assumption thats all. or really im asking for opinions

- i care for him A LOT, like hes one of the most important ppl in my life..pretty much hes one of the ppl in my life that makes me happy. obviously not now.
-im 21, hes 22.
-usually me and him texting either first..by switching off days..like gmoring and what not..and we'll be txting for awhile..then we'll talk aim or on fbook im, webcam, usually we talk a lot everyday.
-we officially dating ech other, he asked me to be his gf on our 2nd date but isaid that was too quick..but we've been talking about how we're gonna be bf/gf.

[sixfive]

So if he's that important, you're just going to kick him out of your life? Just like that?

[StubbornFemme]

but if he hasnt talked to me for 3 days, ignored my calls but answered my friend's call instead of mine, hes done this before but never this long..you just dont do any of this to the person youre with at all. especially when nothing bad happened before the whole igrnoing thing.

can someone close this topic btw.
im done with it.

[Seon-ho-Lee]

grow the f*ck up. getting pissed over some scrabble shit.

nerds? yall are bunch of retards to me

[kryogenix]

ahahahahahaha I don't know what's worse, your pussy boyfriend getting worked up over a game of scrabble, or the fact that you still care

[manny-the-dino]

can someone close this topic btw.

Done.