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 Mar 25 2005, 10:49 PM
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 Styna  Group: Member Posts: 261 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 22,047  |
What if you decide to have a relationship with a guy online and the relationship lasts like 6 months do u think it counts as a real realtionship?(Meaning that if you had lets say 5 bfs in the past now u have 6) I'm just wondering.
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Mar 25 2005, 10:52 PM
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 dakishimetainoni... Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 4,322 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 75,318 |
if you've met this person and go on actual dates but you keep in contact online then yes...if you have never seen him in person, never dated in person...then in my opinion no
saying "hey baby how was your day? ....i love you =]" for 6 months isn't really a relationship... i know that's probably not how you people really talk but that's what i picture |
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Mar 25 2005, 11:12 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 196 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 35,922 |
QUOTE(chii @ Mar 25 2005, 10:52 PM) if you've met this person and go on actual dates but you keep in contact online then yes...if you have never seen him in person, never dated in person...then in my opinion no  I agree, you can only do so much online...but in person, the truth can come out. |
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Mar 25 2005, 11:20 PM
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Running Group: Member Posts: 596 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 96,064 |
Gah first post didnt go through... Omg does looking at porn mean your cheating? What if your in a chatroom isnt that like a orgy then? What if you catch a virus does that mean you have stds online?
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Mar 26 2005, 01:39 AM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 2,541 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 44,332 |
^^
  Hm. Have you ever met him? If not, then I wouldn't really consider it a relationship. |
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Mar 26 2005, 01:53 AM
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 in love. unfortunately Group: Member Posts: 459 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 112,979 |
agree, if you haven't met him, then no. plus what are you gonna tell people when they ask you your last boyfriend was.
You-*Screenname* Person-? Hmm. Where'd you meet him. You- In a chat room Person-  ..lol but no i dont really think that counts, you gotta meet the guy, and like go on dates and stuff |
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Mar 26 2005, 02:23 AM
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Brie Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 10,172 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 20,548 |
If you had met him and he had to move and you decided to take it to the internet and such, then yeah. Count that....but if you haven't met him, then I wouldn't count it.
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Mar 26 2005, 03:07 AM
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 Umm its that thing you should call me...... Group: Member Posts: 111 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 112,898 |
No i really can't see the emotion in an online relationship. the, lets use a guy, guy could say he is like 14 and in truth he is like 58 or something. it's a creepy world out there. AAny relationship where you have neverseen your "significant other" is't a true relation ship.
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Mar 26 2005, 03:28 AM
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 define our lives for us. Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 11,656 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 43,293 |
I wouldn't count it unless I've met him. I mean, you've never kissed him, never even felt his skin, never touched him once? Naww.. I mean, you haven't even done the simplest things that enemies could've done: touch each other or at least see each other in real life. (Touch as in.. hit? xP)
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Mar 26 2005, 03:54 AM
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 I wanna LALA!!! Group: Member Posts: 81 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 112,728 |
QUOTE No i really can't see the emotion in an online relationship. the, lets use a guy, guy could say he is like 14 and in truth he is like 58 or something. it's a creepy world out there. AAny relationship where you have neverseen your "significant other" is't a true relation ship. i agree. 
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Mar 26 2005, 07:24 AM
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 <3 Group: Member Posts: 3,657 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 64,493 |
like everyone else said, if you've never met him then it doesn't count as a relationship.
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Mar 26 2005, 02:10 PM
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Running Group: Member Posts: 596 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 96,064 |
There are no emoticon for what I am feeling-quote comic book guy from the simpsons
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Mar 26 2005, 02:13 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 745 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 28,039 |
I don't think online relationships are real. If you haven't met the person, how can you judge their character, body language and facial expressions. Sometimes those mean more than words.
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Mar 26 2005, 02:28 PM
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 Residential Crazy Child Group: Member Posts: 934 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 116,897 |
I don't know. It depends. How strongly did you feel about this person? Did you ever meet him? Has he actually showed he cares for you? All questions you have to take into consideration.
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Mar 27 2005, 10:32 AM
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 freakieee Group: Member Posts: 241 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 115,779 |
do u mean within the six months u two dun date in person??....
if so....i think it doesnt count... |
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Mar 27 2005, 10:55 AM
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 to be loved by someone you love is.. everything Group: Member Posts: 1,207 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 51,205 |
QUOTE(chii @ Mar 25 2005, 10:52 PM) if you've met this person and go on actual dates but you keep in contact online then yes...if you have never seen him in person, never dated in person...then in my opinion no saying "hey baby how was your day? ....i love you =]" for 6 months isn't really a relationship... i know that's probably not how you people really talk but that's what i picture I agree.. an IM isn't really a one on one person conversation.. |
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Mar 27 2005, 11:29 AM
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 This is all my luck, it's all I got. Group: Member Posts: 1,373 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 76,532 |
QUOTE(Spiritedfreak @ Mar 26 2005, 12:28 AM) I wouldn't count it unless I've met him. I mean, you've never kissed him, never even felt his skin, never touched him once? Naww.. I mean, you haven't even done the simplest things that enemies could've done: touch each other or at least see each other in real life. (Touch as in.. hit? xP) I agree. If you guys havent even seen each other thats no relationship. |
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Mar 27 2005, 11:36 AM
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 ^-^ Group: Member Posts: 1,676 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 107,668 |
QUOTE(chii @ Mar 25 2005, 7:52 PM) if you've met this person and go on actual dates but you keep in contact online then yes...if you have never seen him in person, never dated in person...then in my opinion no saying "hey baby how was your day? ....i love you =]" for 6 months isn't really a relationship... i know that's probably not how you people really talk but that's what i picture actually, that's exactly how mine talked ---^And I totally agree with you, it's not a real relationship unless you go out with each other in real life. |
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Mar 27 2005, 12:49 PM
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 Blasian, Asian, INVASION! Group: Official Member Posts: 4,288 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,769 |
if you never met the guy then no. I find internet relationships stupid and pointless if your only seeing them by picture.
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Mar 27 2005, 02:28 PM
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 unify and defeat... divide and crumble Group: Member Posts: 2,759 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 6,379 |
I agree with what everyone else here has said, it only counts if you guys dated offline too. I think online relationships are pretty stupid actually.
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Mar 29 2005, 02:05 AM
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 Silly Girl; Insane Girl Group: Member Posts: 57 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 118,996 |
I think the Internet relationships of girl-girl or boy-boy would be real... But , if it's a girl-boy... I don't think it would be a real relationships...
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Mar 29 2005, 02:28 PM
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 Im as fake as a widow's smile ;) Group: Member Posts: 1,045 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 97,851 |
QUOTE(chii @ Mar 25 2005, 9:52 PM) if you've met this person and go on actual dates but you keep in contact online then yes...if you have never seen him in person, never dated in person...then in my opinion no saying "hey baby how was your day? ....i love you =]" for 6 months isn't really a relationship... i know that's probably not how you people really talk but that's what i picture yea exactly |
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