PLEASE help me, I really don't know what to do. Options

[boomchikapow]

On Sunday, my dad came home with a speeding ticket (70 mph in a 55 zone). My mom went ballistic because if you get 3 infractions within the 18-month period (no matter what the total of your points end up to be), the DMB suspends your license for 6 months. My dad's a trucker. If he loses his license, we're pretty much effed up.

I haven't slept since Sunday. Why? College. That's a good enough answer. What happens when you don't sleep for three days? Well, I think that's self explanatory.

Here's where the problem begins: My mom told me that she and I had to go to the DMV or Insurance or wherever the heck she said (I can't even remember) to make some sort of plea or something Tuesday night. I just said "sure, no prob" and, well... I went to sleep.

My mom started nagging at me about sleeping in that day. I don't have any classes and I haven't slept in two days. I think I earned a day to sleep in. And then she starts ranting about how the devil creates laziness in your heart and all this religious stuff and that's when I basicaly told her that I needed to sleep and relocated. That was around 8-ish.

She woke me up 9:30-ish and started saying stuff like, "You and your dad are all the same -- do you think I'm some sort of slave or something around here? You know what? I don't care whether or not your dad's license gets suspended and if he loses his job -- we'll all starve and die together." She goes on about this for like 5 minutes and then she gets really mad at me and says, "I don't have time to go to the DMV/insurance/whatever so you go with your dad, okay? From now on, you two do what you want to do by yourselves -- I'm done with you both."

And she went out to do grocery shopping.

So by now, I'm pissed as effing hell and I don't argue back with my mom because she and I are one and the same. Once we start arguing about something, we stick to it and refuse to back down. (extreme stubbornness) So I've learned to keep my mouth shut around her because I always say things that I regret anyway. (explosive temper... - -; )

I leave the house and don't come back until 9-ish. I don't pick up calls, etc. I'm a princess so my mom usually picks me up when it's late, but yesterday I had to take the bus home. I'm totally not used to it and I freak out when people even bump into me on the train (paranoia much? - -; ) and the bus driver thought I was harassed on the way to the bus and asked if I was okay, which made me almost freak out again. Yes, I'm pathetic. Go on, laugh.

ANYWAY. So I get home, my dad's like "blah blah blah we needed you & you weren't there blah blah blah". My mom TOTALLY ignored me. Like no glance or anything. She won't talk to me, look at me, etc. So I'm just pissed and upset because I'm the family princess who's spoiled as fck. And I'm a "thinker"/brooder, not a runner, so when I'm faced with a problem I don't run from it -- I keep thinking about it over and over and it distracts me from everything.

omfg She just dumped the coffee I made this morning and made a new pot herself. WTF. See? It's little things like that that she does just to piss me off a little more.

This is a long post so I'm gonna cut it short.

What should I do? Should I put some distance between us for a while? Should I confront her? She's the type where I can talk on and on and she'll act like she didn't hear me. I honestly don't know why she's mad at me -- I admit that disappearing like that is drastic, but seriously. I could've done worse things.

WHAT SHOULD I DO. I'm about to lose my mind here, really. UGH.

[LittleMissSunshi...]

^whut he said.