i need advice, about guys. |
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 Oct 3 2007, 06:44 PM
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im 16.
my first boyfriend was in the beginning of ninth grade and he broke up with me because i wasnt pretty enough for him. now im totally over him but i want a boyfriend i always check out these really gorgeous guys that have the best personality and stuff but i know i will never be with them im shy in school but im not when im out of school what should i do? |
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Oct 3 2007, 06:48 PM
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Talk to them online or something.
You're out of school then, so you can really be yourself. |
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Oct 3 2007, 06:50 PM
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i mean like am i really not pretty or what. i just want to know why i cant get a boyfriend.
my parents are really strict so i cant even hang out with my guy friends without saying to my parents something like "im meeting my best friend at the movies" but i actually meet my friends there. thats what i did with my ex. |
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Oct 3 2007, 06:54 PM
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Moved to relationships chicka.
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Oct 3 2007, 06:55 PM
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Well for one your signature is to big:
QUOTE SIGNATURES Signatures should not take up more than 300 pixels of vertical space (equivalent to 20 lines of text) and 590 pixels of horizontal space (to prevent from stretching). Signature images should be less than 100kB in file size when combined. They may only contain references and links to personal pages, such as your blogs and profiles; references and links to anything that is not personal, such as websites and outside forums are not allowed. Pet Peeve! Sorry  Perhaps get this moved to relationships. *nevermind on this, when I hit submit Diana moved it xD And as for advice. Dear, your so young. I had the same problem as you when I was your age. Honestly I just got over it. I lived life and stayed shy and eventually I met this really great guy and now I'm a social butterfly  Just be yourself and eventually you'll find a guy that likes you for you. Also considering your parents have rules for you not to date wait it out. Meet a few guys and become pretty good friends with them and stuff. Talk to the guys your interested in online if your to shy to talk to them in person. It can open up some doors. |
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Oct 3 2007, 06:57 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 166 Joined: Sep 2007 Member No: 572,690 |
thats like the best advice anyone has given me! thank you so much
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Oct 3 2007, 07:09 PM
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I say...gather some confidence. There's also no rush to date, so just be who you want to be. Eventually you'll become more comfortable with guys whether it be through friends or whatever If you want to be noticed, don't sit in the background all the time. I understand you said that you're shy, but hey, if you stand in the shadows all the time you'll rarely be seen.
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Oct 3 2007, 07:09 PM
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Wow, really?
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Oct 27 2007, 12:08 PM
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this is what my bestfriend told me " be everything he wants " |
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Oct 27 2007, 12:14 PM
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^ Well your bestfriend is a dick head.
If he wants a girlfriend just for the f**k, would you be that kind of person? If he wants everything you're not, will you be willing to be that kind of person? I hope not. Like someone said, be yourself. Don't think too much about it. Who knows, you might meet your future boyfriend the day you least expect it. I wish you all the best. 
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Nov 1 2007, 05:30 PM
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be confident and outgoing girl! my parents are strict til im a freshmen year i get to hang with guys, but even if they're strict i still hang with my galfriends and guyfriends, you just have to have confidence,and belief in yourself and just be yourself *n.n* guys these days dont go only for looks its also for personalities that counts *n.n*
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Nov 1 2007, 06:11 PM
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boohooo..
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Nov 1 2007, 07:57 PM
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I say if its not workign out for you right now, don't worry about it. Just get by in school and get good grades. Hey, it never hurts to go on a few dates.
 You don't have to have them as a boyfriend but go out with them a few times, you never know.
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Nov 3 2007, 06:42 PM
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Just be yourself
Don't go looking for a guy Make friends with a load of guys Have a good time being single After a while someone will fall for you Then have an amazing time with them Never let a guy put you down or nought If they do they're not worth it =] |
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