She cheated, and I'm getting all the crap |
She cheated, and I'm getting all the crap |
Jan 17 2010, 08:17 PM
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CheccMate Foo! Group: Member Posts: 839 Joined: Dec 2006 Member No: 487,531 |
So I met this pretty little thing not too long ago and during the initial getting to know each other phase (what do you like to do and stuff), her bf interrupts with a phone call. She suddenly hands me the phone and he talks to me with not too pleasant tone demanding who I was and what I was doing talking to his girl. I simply apologized for not knowing and told him we just met. After that I simply ignored the chick until months later I decided to talk to her out of pure boredom, which in retrospect seemed the most opportune moment. They apparently broken up and I played my game pretty good to the point she was dying to go out with moi. We couldn't get enough of each other and it was all gravy until the other guy got locked up and for some mind-boggling reason she went back to him. This fact however didn't stop her from talking to me with the same intensity from before and when I asked about the other guy, she just said, "So what? He's in jail." So I just shrugged it off and made plans that turned one night tremendously magical where all our troubles went out the door. After I just walked around with this stupid smile stuck on my face without a care. It was only one night at my friends party I got really drunk and called her (never calling girls when I'm drunk again) just to see what's good between me and her, only to get kicked to the curb. SHE STILL WANTS TO BE WITH HIM! I just totally dropped it and left her crying. So I'm thinking she's going to to come clean with her stupid hypocritical conscience and her bf is going to kill me whenever he gets out from doing his time from (guess what?) beating some kid to a bloody pulp. FML
Damn. I have no idea where to go from here. Used and abused it seems I am. What do you think is the best course of action for me? |
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Jan 17 2010, 08:24 PM
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I'm Jc Group: Mentor Posts: 13,619 Joined: Jul 2006 Member No: 437,556 |
1. stop calling girls "pretty young things". you're not michael jackson.
2. you cried? stop crying 3. why would you want a girl who would rather be with someone in jail? i mean she's clearly an idiot 4. go find another girl, it's not like this one was the greatest, you said you only talked to her out of pure boredom one day, can't be that special then can she |
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Jan 17 2010, 08:26 PM
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Sex, Blood, & RocknRoll Group: People Staff Posts: 5,305 Joined: Nov 2007 Member No: 596,480 |
^JC, guys in jail are always the hottest
Depends. Would the other guy be down for a threesome? |
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Jan 17 2010, 08:52 PM
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CheccMate Foo! Group: Member Posts: 839 Joined: Dec 2006 Member No: 487,531 |
Hey JC. Yo I didn't cry. I hanged up on her because she was crying. Crying because of what she did I guess. and LOL @ the pretty lil thing comment
I just can't believe she still picked him after all that and I'm probably going to get beat up for this broad. No 3somes okay. I mean sharing is caring, but in this case it's disgusting |
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Jan 17 2010, 10:51 PM
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Senior Member Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 4,665 Joined: Aug 2008 Member No: 676,364 |
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Jan 17 2010, 11:24 PM
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DDR \\ I'm Dee :) Group: Mentor Posts: 8,662 Joined: Mar 2006 Member No: 384,020 |
Don't waste your time trying to figure her intentions out, she'll have to learn this lesson on her own. On the bright side, you didn't seem very invested... so you're not losing much. I understand if you're feeling used, but the best you can do is learn from this experience so that it doesn't happen again.
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Jan 17 2010, 11:30 PM
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Sex, Blood, & RocknRoll Group: People Staff Posts: 5,305 Joined: Nov 2007 Member No: 596,480 |
That. and in the mean time I wold beef up a little seeing how the dude might be pissed when he gets out.
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Jan 18 2010, 12:46 AM
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Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 7,019 Joined: May 2008 Member No: 653,768 |
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Jan 18 2010, 01:04 AM
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<(- -)><(- - <)(>- -)><(- - )> Group: Member Posts: 646 Joined: May 2006 Member No: 400,609 |
just leave it alone and move on. she is carrying a basket full of drama and it will only get worse (for you) when her bf gets out of jail.
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Jan 18 2010, 02:27 AM
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The Resident Drunk Group: Head Staff Posts: 8,623 Joined: Nov 2007 Member No: 593,266 |
Dude stop posting dumb shit in here....nobody even cares. You and Gabi should team up and write about your dumb love stories that no one cares about.
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Jan 18 2010, 02:30 AM
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◕ ◡ ◕ Group: Official Member Posts: 4,779 Joined: Jun 2006 Member No: 416,697 |
LOL
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Jan 18 2010, 10:28 AM
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CheccMate Foo! Group: Member Posts: 839 Joined: Dec 2006 Member No: 487,531 |
Is this not relationship worthy?
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Jan 18 2010, 11:42 AM
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Senior Member Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 4,665 Joined: Aug 2008 Member No: 676,364 |
move out of the country
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Jan 18 2010, 01:09 PM
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Sex, Blood, & RocknRoll Group: People Staff Posts: 5,305 Joined: Nov 2007 Member No: 596,480 |
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Jan 18 2010, 05:25 PM
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Senior Member Group: Official Member Posts: 1,938 Joined: Jul 2008 Member No: 667,832 |
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Jan 18 2010, 09:03 PM
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Drank wit your boy Group: Official Member Posts: 1,711 Joined: May 2008 Member No: 649,997 |
Falling in love with some stank hoe. We off that.
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Jan 20 2010, 11:55 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 34 Joined: Dec 2009 Member No: 755,355 |
no sympathy from me. you knew the situation with the phone call. lil thing called common sense bro
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Jan 21 2010, 06:26 PM
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Senior Member Group: Human Posts: 525 Joined: Nov 2008 Member No: 695,913 |
f*ck her, a chick that rather be with some dude in jail, when she has a dude on the outside who actually wants to be with her is retarted... not worth your time dude... plenty of other girls who would appreciate your shit and not play games
Stay Up -1- Subliminal |
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