BiSexuality, a trend? |
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 Jun 5 2005, 04:41 PM
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Everywhere I turn, there's another guy claiming he's bi. Thats all fine and dandy. I could care less what gender you choose to perform intercourse with. Your business is your business. But, I do have a question for all those "bi" guys out there; By claiming to be bisexual, does that mean you'll get into a serious, life-partner-esque relationship with another guy, or does that mean you just want to, literally, fcuk around?
The more I see it, the more it seems like a trend. Enlighten me, please. 
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Jun 5 2005, 05:11 PM
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I personally wouldn't know since I'm not bisexual. Well since they have 2 genders to choose from, it's harder for them to know whether or not they be in a serious intercourse with a partner.
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Jun 5 2005, 05:33 PM
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Yanno, with this emo fad thats been going around.
theres more and more people saying theyre bi. It started what, like in march? &Im bi.. but i recognized i was about.. 2 years ago. &some of the boys that claim theyre bi.. its for um "sexual reasons" unless theyre the type who says it for attention |
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Jun 5 2005, 05:41 PM
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(had to edit my post)
i dont raelly ahve anythin agiast gays or bi's because my mother is gay....kinda creeppy but sometimes she has sexy grlfriends. |
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Jun 5 2005, 06:01 PM
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I agree with Lost [child] after the "emo" revolution occured more people have been saying their BI but honestly most guys who claim their BI just do it cuz der afraid to say their gay cuz of societies views on gay rights/people etc, Ive been BI for like i dont know how long... Girls are Sexy and Guys R 2 YAYYYYYYYY =D
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Jun 5 2005, 06:56 PM
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haha. i'm not bi. but i can kiss other boys. i've really only seen 2 or 3 same sex relationships. bisexuality is cute to people, i guess.
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Jun 5 2005, 07:02 PM
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Arrrgh, its like they want to start another stereotyping tend!!!
 There is this guy I know, he wears girl pants, and such. I am like, hey whatever rocks your boat, but don't do this so you could fit in with the crowd. And then out of the blue, he proclaims he is bi. Sorry if this may seem harsh to people, but I personally don't believe in people who are bisexual. Its either one road, or the other. Its basically like either being pro-abortion or against abortion. You can't just stay in the middle. 
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Jun 5 2005, 07:29 PM
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k
im bi and im not doing it becasue its a trend and i am in a serious relationship with a guy.. for 2 years ive been so... i dunno about other kids out there... but im not doing it for attention. and its not at all like being pro abortion or against abortion. nothing like it at all... abortion is a one way thing. putyourself in this position: you like boys you like girls too so... what would you do? say your straight and lie? or say your gay and lie? your bi sexual.. thats what you are... 
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Jun 5 2005, 07:42 PM
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livin up to the name. Group: Member Posts: 1,594 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 54,539 |
^I have to agree.
&Its something that.. you cant really help. |
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Jun 5 2005, 08:06 PM
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I agree with ichigofan. I think most guys that say they're bi are afraid to come out and say they're actually gay. However, I think that a lot of girls saying they're bi are really just straight, because everyone knows girls follow trends more closely than guys.
And I can't imagine why a guy would give up his masculinity in the eyes of some for the sake of a trend. and about what fo0d says: I totally disagree. You can very easily be attracted to both genders. They're not roads, theyre attractions and thus, you don't have to pick one over the other. The abortion thing isn't a great metaphor either, because there are plenty of people (like me) who think there are very strict circumstances on whether you should abort or not (i.e. only if you've been raped, or there are comlications with the birth). |
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Jun 5 2005, 09:34 PM
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QUOTE(LOVE machine x @ Jun 5 2005, 6:29 PM) k im bi and im not doing it becasue its a trend and i am in a serious relationship with a guy.. for 2 years ive been so... i dunno about other kids out there... but im not doing it for attention. and its not at all like being pro abortion or against abortion. nothing like it at all... abortion is a one way thing. putyourself in this position: you like boys you like girls too so... what would you do? say your straight and lie? or say your gay and lie? your bi sexual.. thats what you are...  If you're in a relationship with another guy, and you're not messing around behind his back with females, then wouldn't that just make you gay? 
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Jun 5 2005, 09:41 PM
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livin up to the name. Group: Member Posts: 1,594 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 54,539 |
^ No.
It means right now he's in a relationship with a boy. But he could still like a girl... |
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Jun 6 2005, 12:45 AM
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I'm in a relationship with a girl but I could still like another girl. So am I a cheater?
No, no, I get you. I just said that to be a smartass. 
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Jun 6 2005, 01:04 AM
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Good question but they same thing can apply to girls. I dont care what anyones reason is for saying they're bi, its their business. Why waste time worring about what their intentions are.
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Jun 6 2005, 01:09 AM
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hmmmm...
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Jun 6 2005, 01:16 AM
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QUOTE(Mileep @ Jun 6 2005, 2:09 AM) hmmmm... Seriously stop spamming!! If you have nothing to contribute dont post. |
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Jun 6 2005, 10:53 AM
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QUOTE(lost [child] @ Jun 5 2005, 9:41 PM) ^ No. It means right now he's in a relationship with a boy. But he could still like a girl... true. <3 |
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Jun 6 2005, 11:45 AM
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QUOTE I don't think bisexuality even exist, I think it's a layover on the way to gaytown. QUOTE Isn't that right next to ricky martin's video? i always wanted to say that. Now i have the occasions to say it. |
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Jun 6 2005, 06:33 PM
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quote from my friend ''its the year of the Bi'' i think its pretty normal
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Jun 7 2005, 11:37 AM
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I AM bi. I found out few years ago and started accepting it early this year...
am i attracted to girls? VERY. I am VERY attracted to girls. When i see a hot chick passing by, i think dirty, TOO dirty. ever been in a relationship with a girl? Not yet. I've done few things with girls though, like touchings and kissings, i'm hella horny now!! will you ever date a girl YES. Definately! Yes. Ohhh yes. If a "bi" boy/girl can't kiss or date a girl, then he's a straight wannabe... |
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Jun 7 2005, 12:47 PM
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In my case I wouldn't really say I'm bi, but I think guys are cute though, not in a case that I want to do anything with them, it's kind of hard for me to explain.
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Jun 7 2005, 02:46 PM
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i have noticed the same thing, more and more guys are "bi" now. i have nothing against bi's, or gays. i am all for gays/bis, i believe they should be married but i really think its a trend thing, and people aren't being serious about it. America is all about trends, if you haven't noticed half the stuff that's popular is loved more and more, and things that happen on TV & etc, people try to imitate or duplicate. it is a possibility guys are saying they're bi instead of gay because they are afraid of telling people they're gay. but if you're bi you're with a guy already and your really gay, you might as well tell people your gay. there's no point in lying to yourself or to your partner.
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