Do you feel awkward, if the guy is younger? |
Do you feel awkward, if the guy is younger? |
Dec 20 2005, 12:05 AM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 57 Joined: Dec 2005 Member No: 310,648 |
um i tried searching and i dont see a topic on this one but yea.. I know everyone says age doesnt matter in love but honestly if the guy is younger then you.. do you ever feel a little weird?? i just want to know everyones opinion.. cuz i kinda feel weird.. well i guess it wouldnt matter if i really liked the guy..
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Dec 20 2005, 12:28 AM
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Lurker. Group: Official Designer Posts: 2,161 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,851 |
No, unless he's alot younger.
Like Ashton and Demi Moore. It looked a little odd to me, but they said they loved each other. then, hey, who gives. |
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Dec 20 2005, 02:15 AM
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Heart | broken -Once again. Group: Member Posts: 260 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 109,092 |
Um, if he was year or 2 younger than me. It wouldnt be too weird but as for me, I would like someone a year younger, same age, or 1/2 years older than me.
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Dec 20 2005, 06:34 AM
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<3 Group: Member Posts: 3,657 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 64,493 |
depends on how much younger 1 year is fine. but i prefer guys the same age or older than me
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Dec 20 2005, 09:43 AM
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Senior Member Group: Official Member Posts: 4,882 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 47,064 |
Yes I think it is weird. I wouldn't date guys younger than me.
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Dec 20 2005, 10:03 AM
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yan lin♥ Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 14,129 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 13,627 |
yes i would. once i had a minor crush on a guy who was 1 month older than me, but later on, he was still too immature for me. i prefer guys who're at least 1/2 a year older.
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Dec 20 2005, 11:25 AM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 950 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 30,808 |
Not really, but it kinda depends on both of your personalities. Usually the younger guy is more naive and callow, so the girl has to take the lead. Unless you're okay with that, it is going to be weird.
[edit] Actually it IS true about the age not being important. However, this only goes for couples that are a *bit* older than us because by then, the maturity levels of both people are pretty much equal. |
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Dec 20 2005, 11:41 AM
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Newbie Group: Member Posts: 1 Joined: Dec 2005 Member No: 328,358 |
yeah i guess if its true love it wont matter....i use to think couples where the girl was like 1 year+ and up older than the guy that..it was super weird...but i dont know anymore.. i wouldn't go fer younger than a year though..that's just too strange fer me. xD
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Dec 20 2005, 12:04 PM
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you`re undeniable Group: Member Posts: 1,136 Joined: Nov 2005 Member No: 283,828 |
yea. it's awkward for me i'm usually not interested in guys my age or younger.
but for other ppl, it's fine. just go with whatever you want cause we all know age aint nothing but a number. |
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Dec 20 2005, 02:48 PM
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Jus Sweet Chocolate Group: Member Posts: 739 Joined: Aug 2005 Member No: 216,959 |
nope not really. it all depends on if he looks older and if he's mature then it doesn't matter.
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Dec 20 2005, 10:28 PM
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-Officially Insane- Group: Member Posts: 870 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 117,293 |
As long as he's mature enough, then what the heck? why not?
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Dec 20 2005, 10:44 PM
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skaters gonna skate. Group: Official Member Posts: 6,860 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 6,336 |
nah cause if i'm with a dude younger than me it's cause he has a level of maturity.
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Dec 21 2005, 05:10 AM
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Oreo Nazi >=) Group: Member Posts: 234 Joined: Oct 2005 Member No: 281,794 |
psh no. I'd only go a year older or younger though. The guy I like is a year younger, I don't think it'd be awkward. My ex was a year older and that wasn't awkward either.......come to think of it, it only lasted two days but I'm fussy and he wanted me for sex so he wasn't worth it.
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Dec 25 2005, 09:01 PM
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Kermit the frog = <3 Group: Member Posts: 2,315 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 15,215 |
age shouldn't matter as long as the age difference isn't too big but I personally would feel awkward dating a younger guy,.
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Dec 25 2005, 10:09 PM
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Diana =] Group: Member Posts: 1,318 Joined: Jul 2005 Member No: 174,147 |
if he's 1 or 2 years younger than me, no.
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Dec 25 2005, 10:53 PM
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unify and defeat... divide and crumble Group: Member Posts: 2,759 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 6,379 |
I've always gone for older guys, so yes. But really, it's cuz of the immaturity. Younger guys can be SO freaking immature...of course you have your exceptions, so I would have no problem with "mature" younger men.
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Dec 26 2005, 12:18 AM
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Some 1 plz find me, help me find my way..my way bak 2 bliss Group: Member Posts: 288 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 1,748 |
i rather go out wit younger guys but ill only go as far as 2 yrs younger
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Dec 26 2005, 01:22 AM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 109 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 38,382 |
yeah haha ... that wasn't really normal.. but now i noticed there are more couples like that. i have a guy that is my age, but i think a lil older is the best.
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Dec 26 2005, 02:05 AM
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Hey People Group: Member Posts: 199 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 94,295 |
if he's youger if months then it's ok but in years nooo way! but to me wut really matters is the height can't be shorter than me!!
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Dec 26 2005, 03:30 AM
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live.love.surf. Group: Member Posts: 264 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 103,920 |
hmm maybe a year younger.
i prefer older men. |
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Dec 26 2005, 05:05 AM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 889 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 42,392 |
i've only dated younger men, sadly.
It wasn't such big a deal...i mean, one guy was only like 2 months younger than me, and the other was only 5 days younger than me. I think i felt more akward when i dated a shorter guy. ...i was only taller than him by an inch, but it was still pretty obvious that i was taller, and for some reason that really bothered me. The worst part is, he became the same height as me after the summer...and he was a whole inch taller than me when he started dating my best friend....talk about super akward. |
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Dec 26 2005, 11:56 AM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 1,220 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 81,808 |
my boyfriend is younger than me [by about 3months june - september], as long as hes not a yr younger or w/e.. im all good... since we are born in the same yr, it doesnt matter..... it would feel werid if he was born a yr younger than me
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Dec 26 2005, 02:20 PM
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Member Group: Member Posts: 20 Joined: Dec 2005 Member No: 333,776 |
well I guess it all depends on both your ages...like me and my bf hes only like 3 months younger than me(dec-me march-him)...but say your like 14 or 15 and he is like 2 years younger and hes 12 or 13 yea thats kinda wierd. Guess it all depends on how old you are and how much younger he is...
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Dec 26 2005, 05:54 PM
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Newbie Group: Member Posts: 8 Joined: Dec 2005 Member No: 320,653 |
my boyfriend's 1 year and two, almost 3 months younger then I am. Mentaly we're on the exact same level. At first I was worried he'd have childish feautres, but defenitely not. He's been through extremely rough stuff, so he matured faster then lots of his peers.
I don't notice any difference between us when it comes to maturity and interests. The only crap part is that when I turn 18, he'll be 16 for two months more. It's not a problem to me, but I know other people will think weird stuff. My sister's already teasing me about it, meanwhile my birthday is still a while away (march). It's simply annoying when people do that. If it was really that bad I wouldn't be with him in the first place. But we're absolutely perfect together. If age really is such a big deal in a relationship (constantly worrying), then obviously it's not meant to be. |
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Dec 26 2005, 08:17 PM
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Pretty Rad Group: Member Posts: 193 Joined: Aug 2005 Member No: 202,955 |
its so weird.. cause the way I see it, couples feel weird if they're a couple years apart, when they're in school. But, once they're in their 20s and 30s, age doesn't really matter =/
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