ok, so like you met this guy dated him, he's another ethnicity..and... |
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 Apr 10 2004, 09:32 AM
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well, your parents dont like other ethnicities...what is the first thing you say?
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Apr 10 2004, 01:26 PM
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say... i dont care if u like him or NOT. And go slam your room door..
 Well, actually what i'll do is continue dating him... |
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Apr 10 2004, 01:33 PM
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How old are you. If you're not atleast a junior in high school dont bother telling your parents cuz you guys will most likely end up breaking up and its not worth the hassle to tell the parents.
If you ARE old enough and marriage is a viable possibility then might as well tell the parents and explain the details. When a relationship has developed to that point most parents are pretty understanding. |
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Apr 10 2004, 01:34 PM
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 3,565, you n00bs ain't got nothin' on me. Group: Official Member Posts: 3,761 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,565 |
This should be moved to Relationships
Yea, my parents are always like that. If that person is black, they don't like it, sadly. And kevinma, i don't think she's asking for advice. |
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Apr 10 2004, 01:34 PM
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 wanderlust personified. Group: Official Designer Posts: 7,515 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 797 |
I'd say, "It's my choice who I date and I'm going to continue dating him whether you like it or not, but I'm sorry ya'll feel that way."
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Apr 10 2004, 01:36 PM
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Yeah should be Juliar.
Anyway, Just tell them to keep their noses out of your life. |
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Apr 10 2004, 01:52 PM
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 lovedme_lovesmenot...explain that! Group: Member Posts: 590 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 5,423 |
I think this should be moved to relationships
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Apr 10 2004, 01:55 PM
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 muted imperfections <3 Group: Official Member Posts: 3,295 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 2,260 |
QUOTE say... i dont care if u like him or NOT. And go slam your room door.. Well, actually what i'll do is continue dating him... yes totally what kim said.  jackie
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Apr 10 2004, 01:56 PM
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Moved to Relationships
Just tell them that you have your own life and you're growing up and blah blah blah... |
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Apr 10 2004, 09:34 PM
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 doot doot doot Group: Member Posts: 1,803 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 1,954 |
well if u really like him then i guess jus keep goin out wit him, what can ur parents do? lock u in the closet? ok lets say they do that, but if ur bf truly loves u, then i guess he wont mind lol and wait till u move out after hs graduation
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Apr 11 2004, 06:31 PM
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 Some 1 plz find me, help me find my way..my way bak 2 bliss Group: Member Posts: 288 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 1,748 |
stick wit him n have fun who kares wat ur parents think
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Apr 11 2004, 09:18 PM
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 t a c o s Group: Member Posts: 1,187 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 9,122 |
ok, so like I met this girl, chilled with her, and my dad is like wtf? in the end if your parents love you they'll accept whoever you're with. but if he ends up breaking your heart then they'll be like see i told you it was a bad idea. then you kick them in the shin.
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Apr 21 2004, 03:31 AM
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 i'm susan Group: Official Member Posts: 13,875 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 5,029 |
my dad doesnt want me to date
+vietnamese +thai +african +african-american +japanese +chinese +mexican... +filipino =o=;; i only can date +koreans +americans -_-;; heh... oh wells... my mom doesnt mind if i date japanese, chinese, and... filipino~^__^;; heh... but it's weird.... all the guys that i like was korean, american, filipino, vietnamese..... and since i liked korean and american guys a lot...my dad still doesnt like the guy i like-_-;; it's so confusing...makes me mad |
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Apr 21 2004, 01:15 PM
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 technicolor girl Group: Member Posts: 1,075 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 4,104 |
tell your parents that he's a nice and great guy if they would just try to get to know him before judging him just because of his ethnicity or color
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Apr 21 2004, 04:34 PM
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 lil azn supermodel... =] Group: Member Posts: 461 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 10,841 |
QUOTE(anqel_r0h @ Apr 21 2004, 4:31 AM) my dad doesnt want me to date +vietnamese +thai +african +african-american +japanese +chinese +mexican... +filipino =o=;; i only can date +koreans +americans -_-;; heh... oh wells... my mom doesnt mind if i date japanese, chinese, and... filipino~^__^;; heh... but it's weird.... all the guys that i like was korean, american, filipino, vietnamese..... and since i liked korean and american guys a lot...my dad still doesnt like the guy i like-_-;; it's so confusing...makes me mad i can ONLY date chinese ppl n thas wen i get ta college cuz thas wen im officially allowed ta date personally i wouldnt say sh*t ta my parents if they found out that tha guy i date is pr, i'd jus walk away from them cuz i've lost all respect fa them months ago, i could honestly care less of wat they think  besides if i did say sumthin, they wouldnt even hear me
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Apr 21 2004, 04:40 PM
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date him whether thye like it or not......and tell them that you're going to.
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Apr 27 2004, 04:58 PM
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 WUT THA DUCK? Group: Member Posts: 3,950 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 14,138 |
i dont care wut u think! give him a chance!
my parents dont care when i date other races... but when i get married... he has to be VIET! ooo i hate that! 
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Apr 28 2004, 10:58 PM
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 Hi! I'm Dani :) Group: Member Posts: 5,637 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,369 |
hmm first i'd get mad at em for bein racist, n sae stuff lyke idc wat u think n i would stio continue dating hym
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Apr 28 2004, 11:36 PM
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My mom would kill me. She said that i have to much korean culture in me, and i wouldnt get along with other races.
 anyways. i would be like "STFU i get to choose the guys." 
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Apr 29 2004, 04:01 PM
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 hi. call me linda. Group: Official Member Posts: 8,187 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,475 |
QUOTE(NawtyLilAznChic @ Apr 21 2004, 5:34 PM) i can ONLY date chinese ppl n thas wen i get ta college cuz thas wen im officially allowed ta date personally i wouldnt say sh*t ta my parents if they found out that tha guy i date is pr, i'd jus walk away from them cuz i've lost all respect fa them months ago, i could honestly care less of wat they think besides if i did say sumthin, they wouldnt even hear meSame here, my parents would rather that I go out with Chinese guys only, and marry a chinese guy and date in college. But, in the end, it's really my decision who I want to marry. Anyways, I haven't told my parents that i've got a boyfriend, and i don't plan on telling them either. |
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Apr 29 2004, 04:37 PM
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I'm in an odd situation...:
I'm not supposed to date anyone who's not Chinese [-American]. My sister saw some of my conversations with a close guy friend and she misunderstood them. The guy is American and she knows his brother. She thinks I'm dating him and threatens to "ruin my life" by telling people I'm dating an American. ...  edit: American meaning caucasian. I'd say something like "You have your own lives. Get out of mine." Then keep dating the boy. |
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May 28 2004, 01:26 AM
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say this "f*ck you" no don't say that. this is hard for me cuz i can date anyone i want as long as they respect me and aren't too old. that includes girls, jews, christians, chineese, italian, english. doesn't matter. but, i'd say you should tell them this "mom (and/or dad), this guy is really nice. i know he doesn't have our same background, but he's really sweet and respects me. he understands me and i really like him. won't you at least give him a chance? you can meet him if you want." and see what they say. that's the best i can do. 'night.
and for the people who say just tell them to stay out of your life.... it'd be cool if you could, but i doubt they'd even let you out of the house. i mean, you'll probobly going to get into more trouble and have less of a chance to see him. well, hope you get to see him!!! 
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May 28 2004, 04:04 AM
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t a c o s Group: Member Posts: 1,187 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 9,122 |
i'm chinese-american =D
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May 28 2004, 08:30 AM
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say its my choice... but i prefer the same kind as me anyways i like chinese guys =)
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May 28 2004, 11:49 AM
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 he`z gOt my heart*<3`o2.18.o1` Group: Member Posts: 1,662 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 6,338 |
you shouldn't have to go by what your parents tell you. you can date from whatever ethnicity you like. you deserve to be happy with whomever you please.
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