Losing best friends? |
 Feb 12 2005, 02:33 AM
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okay... my friend let's call her Star.. has this other friend, lets call her Sun.. ahem anyways..
Star and Sun has known eachother for over 5 years.. they have been the best of friends, always there for one another. Except, Star was 'cool' and tomboyish.. known by a lot of people. Sun was not cool, but she was smart, a straight A student. One day, Sun tells Star that she was jealous of her. Barely anyone wants to associate with Sun because Sun was well, too intellectual. (sp?) Anyways, Star doesn't want Sun to feel bad, Star doesn't even like being so-called cool. Ahem.. to the point. One day, Sun made a new friend. Sun still hangs with Star but her new friend, lets call her Swish. Sometimes, Swish asks Sun to leave, and Sun just leaves. Leaving Star alone. Making Star feel sad. Star wants Sun to at least TELL her when she leaves, but Sun doesn't. She just disappears. Whenever Star turns her back, Sun is gone. Sun even told Star once, "Swish is my only real best friend," straight in her face. Star doesn't want to lose Sun as a friend. But it feels like they are drifting apart. Ahem.. yeah, kinda like a story.. anyways, one of my friends really need help, and I really care about her, but I don't know how to help her. >.<" So, I'm asking createblog. =x Any advice? |
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Feb 12 2005, 02:41 AM
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 Holla if ya hate me Group: Member Posts: 2,386 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 80,819 |
For 5 years yet she says something like that? Hmmm....
I'm confused with the names the whole Star, Sun thing lol. Star doesn't want to lose Sun as a friend... maybe you can tell a little bit more of the story so that I can give a real answer. The "point" alone doesn't always tell the whole thing... |
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Feb 12 2005, 03:12 AM
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 This bitch better work! Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 13,681 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 28,095 |
QUOTE I'm confused with the names the whole Star, Sun thing lol yeah.  i guess that star is shallow. if she is going to be friends with sun for such a long time and then all the sudden drop sun and become "best" friends with swish. wtf?  i think sun is better off without star.
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Feb 12 2005, 04:52 AM
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sowieee.. if it confuses you guys.. haha. =x yup! my friend told me they were best friends since they were.. 8.. and now they are 13.. =/
if it confuses you.. you don't have to reply x_x... |
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Feb 12 2005, 08:26 AM
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QUOTE(Frankie_08 @ Feb 12 2005, 3:12 AM) yeah. i guess that star is shallow. if she is going to be friends with sun for such a long time and then all the sudden drop sun and become "best" friends with swish. wtf? i think sun is better off without star. it's sun that dropped star suddenly  well star is just better off without sun i mean best friends for 5 years and she just drops star for someone new just because star is so called cool? 
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Feb 12 2005, 09:07 AM
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i lost a best friend that i knew from pre-k.... catching feelings.....she was one of the best friends i ever had always had my back....we had lost contact with each other after middle school....and met back up...when i graduated from high school.....we both caught feelings....and one thing let to another.....and yeah....."hotel room".....but the thing was afterward....she treated me like i wasn't anything...like i was any other guy......like she was scared of commiting to me.....and im kicking myself in the head for letting myself catch feelings..... it ruin my friendship....we don't talk anymore we both know where each other live...but that's the way it's gonna stay.....maybe one day.....who knows....ill get one of my best friend back.....
 kinda know how ya feel on losing a BFF part...
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Feb 12 2005, 09:23 AM
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Just take Star and Sun in a room with you and say taht they really need to talk.....then leave teh room..and lock the door
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Feb 12 2005, 10:07 AM
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Tell sun that star is really her best friend considering they've known each other for 5 years, and she's only known swish for less amount of time.
I think Sun is being a little stubborn. Or maybe she thinks she has to make new friends cause she can't compare to Star. You could always tell Star to make new friends considering she is so popular. But that's not an option I would go with. |
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Feb 12 2005, 11:06 AM
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 Another ditch in the road... you keep moving Group: Member Posts: 6,281 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 85,152 |
i think staar should just roll with it, i mean if sun deosnt want her, then its her loss.
go hang out with some of the people who think shes so cool although sometimes friends do just drift apart... its sad but it happens |
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Feb 12 2005, 01:37 PM
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Star should just move on..after being best friends for 5 years, sun's going to say something like that to star? That's messed up. Tell Star to get another friend.
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Feb 12 2005, 03:10 PM
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 ...and this is me.. Group: Member Posts: 3,518 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 57,899 |
Sun doesnt deserve Star period....
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