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Almostsane
post Feb 11 2005, 09:44 PM
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i know this might make me sound really really stupid but is it really bad to be in love with your best friend? btw its a guy not a girl. I dont know if I should tell him I like him or what but I dont want to put myself out there and get hurt.
 
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post Feb 11 2005, 09:50 PM
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Sometimes. It might destroy the bestfriendshipness you had before.
 
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post Feb 11 2005, 09:54 PM
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I agree with Mishyerr, it can end up just ruining your friendship..It's better to be friends, than to be nothing at all, right? You can give it a shot, but just keep that in mind.
 
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post Feb 11 2005, 09:55 PM
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post Feb 11 2005, 09:59 PM
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classic boy-girl-being-friends plot.

no, it's not bad, why should it be? but if you're going to tell him your feelings, be prepared on losing or gaining something, or nothing at all.

think things through before telling him.
 
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post Feb 11 2005, 10:12 PM
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QUOTE(mishyerr @ Feb 11 2005, 4:50 PM)
Sometimes. It might destroy the bestfriendshipness you had before.
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i agree...or it might just stay the same...
 
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post Feb 11 2005, 11:59 PM
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sorry im intruding the girls room! but! i always fall for my best friend. either that. or i slam them against the wall in a fight. im a bi guy. actually. im known as being girls "girlfriends".. its kinda cool. we have all this girl talk..oops. well yeah. sidetracking. ... but yeah. its totally okay. u know them enough. but its just that. it could end the relationship you already have. life is short. do what you want
 
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post Feb 12 2005, 12:06 AM
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I fell for my best guy friend... and now... we're just friends... not best friends anymore.. and we hardly talk...

So if you want to risk losing that, then it's your choice.
 
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post Feb 12 2005, 12:15 AM
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nah its not bad. i was in love with my bestfriend and now we're going out. but anyways u should tell him how u feel
 
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post Feb 12 2005, 12:17 AM
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it mite destroy your friendsship or weeken it ALOT
 
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post Feb 12 2005, 01:04 AM
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it might ruin it, or maybe he likes you back and that's good happy.gif just try taking it slowly. like give small hints and go from there, and if he doesnt respond just let it go i guess _unsure.gif but hope it works out flowers.gif
 
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post Feb 12 2005, 01:04 AM
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It's okay, but telling him...Get to see if he likes you first or something and go from there. :] Good luck with it.
 
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post Feb 12 2005, 01:20 AM
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Nope... i fell in love with my best friend... and he told me that he didn't like me back.... a year and a half later... he told me that he liked me this whole time. He was just scared. Now we're going out... and i love him with all my heart wub.gif
 
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post Feb 12 2005, 02:30 AM
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QUOTE(MusicalAngel @ Feb 12 2005, 1:20 AM)
Nope... i fell in love with my best friend... and he told me that he didn't like me back.... a year and a half later... he told me that he liked me this whole time. He was just scared. Now we're going out... and i love him with all my heart wub.gif
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Same here ! Except that my best friend liked me before I liked him ... but he didn`t tell me until I told him that I liked him.
 
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post Feb 12 2005, 02:41 AM
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its really up to, because he could like you back and things could work but if things didn't, it could turn awkward and the friendship could possibly be lost. depends on what risks you're willing to take.
 
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post Feb 12 2005, 11:49 AM
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what happened was last year i liked him but hadn't like talked to him since 5th or 6th grade and he talked to me more when he found out and then i didnt like him for a while and told him and then we became best friends and i really dont want to lose that but i just really like him so much and i would want to know if there was even the slightest chance of us having something sad.gif
 
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post Feb 12 2005, 01:22 PM
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well does he like you back?
 
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post Feb 12 2005, 02:06 PM
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that might kinda screw up your friendship, but i guess it's okay to tell him how you feel..
 
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post Feb 12 2005, 02:25 PM
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if yall are best friends, they u can tell him almost anything.. if he's ur best friend.. he wouldn't mind. and yall would still be best friends.. or something a lil bit more..
 
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post Feb 12 2005, 04:58 PM
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i think it's good and bad.
good- you can tell him anything. you're open to him
bad- getting together may ruin your friendship.
 
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post Feb 12 2005, 05:01 PM
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First you have to find out his feelings....so the pain will hurt less
 
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post Feb 12 2005, 06:24 PM
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I don't wanna start liking a best guy friend because it will destroy your bestfriendship and I would feel weird.
 
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post Feb 12 2005, 08:54 PM
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i dont know.. maybe he likes you back.. but it really could ruin the friendship.. if i were you, i wouldn't risk it.
 
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post Feb 12 2005, 09:24 PM
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Yes & no.

Bad: falling in love with your best friend might ruin you guys` friendship.
Good: if your willing to take that risk then yeah go for it.
 
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post Feb 25 2005, 02:43 PM
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omg.. i sooo know how you feel... cry.gif cry.gif cry.gif
 
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