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 Feb 10 2005, 10:38 PM
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Forgive me for my spelling...i'm a newbie
 My friend...she's a really good friend to me until she found out this guy she likes, likes her back. Suddenly, their g/fs and b/fs and she won't talk to me anymore and she's ignoring me. She basically chose me over a guy  then she hooked up another friend of mine to this guy I like. Somehow...she made ALL of my friends ditch me and hang out with her so I'm basically a loner. I didn't even DO ANYTHING TO HER...Should I befriend her or leave her? |
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Feb 10 2005, 10:41 PM
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 Holla if ya hate me Group: Member Posts: 2,386 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 80,819 |
Find out the root of her actions. Try and find out what shes trying to do. If you manage to find out you should know what to do, we don't have to tell you
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| *salcha* |
Feb 10 2005, 10:46 PM
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i dont get it.
why did she just suddenly ignore you? |
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Feb 10 2005, 10:47 PM
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 I watch you while you sleep. Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 1,068 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 7,685 |
... Isn`t the answer a bit obvious?
I mean, come on. If your friend stabs you in the back three times, are you just going to forgive her and then die of blood loss? ..... Exactly. Go slit her throat before she slits your`s. xo, Pauline //edit: Er. I mean: leave her, and make new friends. |
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Feb 10 2005, 10:47 PM
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 durian Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 13,124 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,860 |
^ Yea, ask her what's up with her lately. Tell her that how she's been treating you lately is hurting your friendship with her. If she gets angry or ignores you and says you're wrong and whatnot, then perhaps she's not worth being friends with.
You know, a girl that used to be my friend back in 8th grade talked behind my back and madea ll my friends ditch me. I moved on.. It just goes to show who your real friends are. All those friends that ditched you aren't even worth your time if they did that to you. |
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Feb 10 2005, 10:52 PM
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 none of it seems real Group: Member Posts: 2,469 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 73,889 |
That's just messed up.
I think this just comes to show what kind of person she really is. It is clear that you do NOT need that type of person in your life. |
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Feb 10 2005, 11:02 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 5,585 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 38,082 |
I always like Christina's responses.. (Just_Dream), so I got to agree with everything she said...
Talk to your friend about it. If something goes wrong, move on and forget her. |
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Feb 10 2005, 11:07 PM
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 I'll never be who I was again.. Group: Member Posts: 2,886 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 77,981 |
get new friends...if shes doing that to u then u shouldnt be her friend..and if ur other friends r following they arent really friends either...sooner or later they r going to realize that u got new friends and they will probably regret it..
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Feb 11 2005, 02:44 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 1,564 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 30,336 |
Talk to her about it or just get NEW friends to hang out with. She ain't worth your troubles.
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Feb 11 2005, 05:41 PM
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 The Eurasian Concert Master Group: Member Posts: 484 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 54,826 |
Wow, I'm sorry that sucks. You should confront her and tell her what she did was wrong and if she doesn't care, you don't need her to get some new friends! Goodluck!
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| *Fallen_Fairy* |
Feb 11 2005, 05:42 PM
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you shouldn't take it to heart, eventually she will realize what she is doing is wrong
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Feb 11 2005, 06:11 PM
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Jessica Group: Member Posts: 480 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 29,118 |
i think you should talk to her about it. x] yea. buh if she keepsz on acting this way, then just move on and ferget her.
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Feb 11 2005, 06:46 PM
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as i always say... DITCH the B*TCH
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Feb 11 2005, 06:48 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 3,957 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 51,665 |
"if you can't pwn her, then befriend her" (i forgot the actual line)
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Feb 11 2005, 06:50 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Official Member Posts: 6,953 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 52,702 |
QUOTE(LittleLulu @ Feb 11 2005, 6:46 PM) as i always say... DITCH the B*TCH  yeah.....that bitch isn't a good friend...so why should you be? |
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Feb 12 2005, 01:07 AM
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 the chick who is the alien Group: Member Posts: 106 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 42,327 |
i would leave her. if someone does that to you that many times then she isnt a true friend
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Feb 12 2005, 01:24 AM
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 Oh babyy. :d Group: Member Posts: 616 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 30,708 |
Get new friends, be REALLY GOOD friends with her boyfriend, and stab her back in the a$$. Well, atleast thats what I'd do... I'm the kind of type that likes a little thing called revenge.
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Feb 12 2005, 02:01 AM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 575 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 92,400 |
omigosh! that happened to you? it happened to me too, kinda! this girl in grade 7, that used to be my so-called best friend.. lied to all my friends and made them ditch me.. except one of my friends were faithful and then.. i found out what she lied about, and told all my ex-friends, "you actually believe that liar?" and finally they saw my LOGICAL thinking knowing that SHE lies a LOT... and i guess they are my friends again.. and they ditcheddd the girl that ditched me INSTEAD. but i'm only close to my 'faithful' friend.. because she's the best ya know? =x
anyways, all i can tell you to do is.. talk to all your other friends, ignore that girl that's trying to seperate you. maybe she just doesn't like ya, you'know? =/ i dunno what's wrong but... try talking to her, if you can't... make new friends. =x |
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Feb 12 2005, 08:16 AM
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 uoyevoli Group: Member Posts: 177 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 81,430 |
psh. just find new friends. if you friends can leave you like that, then they arent worth it. find some friends who actually care
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Feb 16 2005, 10:56 PM
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 You can't keep running from what you're trying to find. Group: Official Member Posts: 5,030 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 54,096 |
QUOTE(PAULiNE_x @ Feb 10 2005, 10:47 PM) ... Isn`t the answer a bit obvious? I mean, come on. If your friend stabs you in the back three times, are you just going to forgive her and then die of blood loss? ..... Exactly. Go slit her throat before she slits your`s. xo, Pauline //edit: Er. I mean: leave her, and make new friends. haha  very cool way to explain it... umm find out why she did it first. but personally, i'd hate her right away...
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