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 Feb 7 2005, 08:21 PM
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ok here's my dea, i rly like htis guy i mean like A LOT. and he know i like him and he likes me too. BUT he is one of my good firend's ex and my BESTFRIEND'S CRUSH! now there is another problem he's 22 and im about to turn 13 and he is suexually active. i'm not shure what to do becuz he is a very nice and intellegent guy and we have had some rly intellectuala and interesting diccusions but im scared PLUS i could get in A LOT of trouble w/ my mom and the law im so confused HELP!!!!!!!
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Feb 7 2005, 08:23 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 3,957 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 51,665 |
i really don't think the guy is safe
recently a guy told 5 girls that he loved them and he was about 19, and the girls were like your age, and he gave them AIDS. anyone that age can talk intelligently... it's just a trap. I really don't think you should do anything with him. |
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Feb 7 2005, 08:25 PM
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 dakishimetainoni... Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 4,322 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 75,318 |
he's 10 years older than you...and you're only 12 now...that's so...wow...
 but anyway, think about this logically, what 22 year old will go out with a 12-13 year old? and plus he's sexually active...even if he really did get with you, it's most likely for fun you say that he's intellectual and smart n yada yada, you're only 12-13 and no offense...but i doubt a 12-13 year old will be able to have an intelligent conversation with a 22 year old...it's just a crush you'll get over it since apparently he's your good friend's ex and best friend's crush, it's not a good idea anyway there's a reason why these things are against the law 
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Feb 7 2005, 08:31 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 359 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 77,930 |
^well said
10 years is just too much of an age difference. What would motivate a 22 year old to date a 12 year old? |
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Feb 7 2005, 08:32 PM
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 ...and this is me.. Group: Member Posts: 3,518 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 57,899 |
two words: stay away.
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Feb 7 2005, 08:35 PM
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deleted Group: Member Posts: 3,168 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 92,276 |
thank you so much everyone you posts have helped me think a lil beyond what i was thinking b4
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Feb 7 2005, 08:37 PM
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RaWr! Group: Member Posts: 603 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 90,404 |
two words:booty call
thats called sajatory(lol cant spell it) rape screw him and find someone yur age. |
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Feb 7 2005, 08:39 PM
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020405<3 Group: Member Posts: 179 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 45,729 |
hmm. have u read the story about that one girl tiffany and the other guy? they were seperated by the law, and he's going to be charged for minor molestation - or whatever it is. >___< i think right now, 10 years is a big difference. maybe u should wait until your 22 and hes 32. its as simple as that.
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Feb 7 2005, 11:27 PM
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 I'll never be who I was again.. Group: Member Posts: 2,886 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 77,981 |
wow ten years...a big age difference there..i think u should stay away from him...find someone hus ur own age...
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Feb 8 2005, 09:33 AM
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 crash and burn. Group: Member Posts: 254 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 95,791 |
i guess it is really hard if you really like this guy but you'll probably get over it easily. it might be a temporary thing or just infatuation. try to like guys who are ur age or just... stay away from guys for a while
good luck |
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| *Azarel* |
Feb 8 2005, 09:50 AM
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Well, the law certainly is in place for a reason, yanno..
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Feb 8 2005, 01:33 PM
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 none of it seems real Group: Member Posts: 2,469 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 73,889 |
Woah. That's definately a "NO"
Why the hell would a 22 year old guy be interested in a 12 year old. Only one thing comes to mind... so enough said. Don't even think about having to do anything with this guy. |
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Feb 8 2005, 03:13 PM
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 Blasian, Asian, INVASION! Group: Official Member Posts: 4,288 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,769 |
QUOTE now there is another problem he's 22 and im about to turn 13 stop right there. forget about him cause hes 22 and ur not even 13 yet. its kind of a give away that he only want to bang you then leave so forget about him. dont be a dumb naiive young girl. You dont want to be those loser girls that give birth when they arnt even 13 yet. lets try not to be a whore. |
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Feb 8 2005, 03:54 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 179 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 82,420 |
QUOTE(mouse_3k @ Feb 8 2005, 2:13 PM) stop right there. forget about him cause hes 22 and ur not even 13 yet. its kind of a give away that he only want to bang you then leave so forget about him. dont be a dumb naiive young girl. You dont want to be those loser girls that give birth when they arnt even 13 yet. lets try not to be a whore.  well, shes not a whore. but I agree with everyone else. stay away you'll just be in a bigger mess. |
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Feb 8 2005, 04:43 PM
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 tower over me Group: Member Posts: 1,190 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 77,717 |
You should only be dating people 12-15. You're 13, wtf.. wanting to date a 22 year old.
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Feb 8 2005, 06:58 PM
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you shouldn't be the one worrying, it should be the guy. i had a friend who liekd me and he was 18 and i told him no, i was 13 then come on 22? he's i supose a man. if you really think about it. it be kinda akward. espically if your 13 you'd wanta bf in your school. to hug you, hold you whenever your sad. and people come up 2 u saying "awh you guys go out XD how cute", something along the lines of that. bad choice if you go out with him.
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Feb 8 2005, 07:44 PM
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 thanhnie Group: Member Posts: 240 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 26,059 |
My parents are 10 years apart.. but whatever. That's besides the point. =P He's too old for you right now. I mean seriously, everyone here is practically right.. Don't even think about him now unless you're really really serious. But even then, wait til your like 22 or whatever.
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Feb 8 2005, 08:00 PM
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 i need an sn change. Group: Member Posts: 1,915 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 27,746 |
if i were u, get over him. unless he can wait til ur older which i doubt.
sorry. |
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Feb 8 2005, 08:14 PM
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 Hello There. Group: Member Posts: 1,572 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 88,673 |
 thats gross....hez 22? he probably just wants to make love with you...i bet
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Feb 8 2005, 08:16 PM
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questions make me blue. Group: Member Posts: 2,608 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,796 |
ask him why he likes you and maybe that`ll reveal more to what he wants from you...
 it`s better to date someone who`s around your age. you`re only 13 and he`s already driving, drinking and sexually active. you know it`s wrong, too. don`t you feel some guilt? |
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Feb 8 2005, 08:27 PM
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 *dazzle Group: Member Posts: 357 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 43,071 |
 sweetpea, he's just trying to get into your pants. screw him, go find yourself a 13 yr. old guy. |
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Feb 8 2005, 08:41 PM
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 cookies=love Group: Member Posts: 236 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 92,467 |
everyones sayin that this guy's a loser, and that hes just tryin 2 play wif ur mind. i no this sounds really mean, and i bet u really do like him and he seems like a great guy. i prbly would have done the same thing ur doin if i was in ur situation, but cuz im seein it from the outside i can c it clearly... and i sorta agree. i think the guys prbly no good, and im sry
 if u still dont believe this, or wanna believe it, think of this: even if the guy isnt a loser, u still might not wanna go out wif him cuzza ur best friend etc. b/c the guy might b a loser, u definitely dont i no thisll prbly dissapoint u but i think its the right choice in the long run good luck!!!
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Feb 8 2005, 09:17 PM
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Blasian, Asian, INVASION! Group: Official Member Posts: 4,288 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,769 |
QUOTE he probably just wants to make love with you...i bet no he doesnt wanna make love with her. he wants to have kiddie sex then leave |
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| *stephinika* |
Feb 8 2005, 10:05 PM
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^^
um yeah no kidding..as much as you don't want to hear this, please don't do anything with him. he doesn't sound like a very good idea... |
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| *Programmer* |
Feb 8 2005, 10:09 PM
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whoa....that's just disturbing.....i mean im 19....but gd....i would never go below 17+ lmao.....and that's wayyyy pushing it.....more like 18+
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