sex help, .... Options

[topsyturvy]

^ of course you did. my comment wasn't directed entirely to you.
all those comments about it being her fault and all, it's not bullshit but it's pretty unnecessary. i mean, a few comments about her actions is more than enough. she doesn't need to be told again and again that she made a stupid mistake. it'll make her even more self-consious and just basically screw up more.

it's just that we should quit lecturing her about something that happened already and can't be changed, and give her suggestions on how to handle her situation.

[youdrivinmegrape...]

Just proves that my theory about people born in 1990 and after
are a bunch of crackies.

F.UCK that!! I'm not crackie and I was born in 90 and proud

[teeners4]

well get a test

[lovescream]

Isn't it.. ermm.. spelled Pregnant?
I see people spelling it in like 100 and million different ways. I always thought it was pregnant. not any other.

go see a doctor. or whatever.
I think I posted here before?

[flyonthewall4590]

besides from the fact that you had underaged sex (which is illegal), you're scared now, after you decided to have sex. can't help you much hun but pray for the best.

u can't get arrested if ur underage and u have sex with someone underage. if u have sex with someone over 18 and ur underage that person can get arrested. duh.

and...why is everyone so mean around here? telling this poor girl that she deserves wut she gets. maybe she didn't want too. maybe she wanted to, and liked it. ppl r allowed to do wut they do without being blamed for everything. and she was responsible. a condom was used. she's just scared. jeez...

[princess2113]

hum...condoms don't alwayz work...there was a study back a few years ago and water went threw i THINK 80% of them so they had to improve them...but theres nothing u can do at this point so u have to wait and see...go to the doctor and get checked...even if ur not pregnant u need to be checked for disease...thats the thing that you should be most concerned about right now...and guys lay off her...whats done is done...u just have to remember not to do things like that in the future...its dangerous stuff girl!

[sammehmyst]

^

that's too bad for her.

[sunissed14127]

well your young...but anyways it was your choice, and if you get pregnant, its your fault.

[piggythepigster]

yo, all she needs is some help and is you don't have any advice then shut up. You're only making her feel worse, sure she made a mistake, but wtf everyone makes them. Put you're self in her position, dude.

xX you'll be fine don't worry about it Xx

[thriftstoresecre...]

"Okay, well, if your boyfriend used a condom, then you should be okay. But even if you don't get pregnant, you could still get Syphillis, Gonorrhea, Herpes, other STDs or God forbid, AIDS. Get yourself checked for pregnancy/STDs."

Uh, not true. I think you're thinking of the pill. Condoms protect against STDs and pregnancy. that's what they're for.

I don't think you have anything to worry about. Don't over think it. There are proven cases where some girls and women have been so convinced that they were pregnant, that their bodies started a placebo effect, meaning that they got morning sickness, their breasts became swollen, and even their stomachs started to bulge, dispite the fact that they weren't pregnant.

but for real, don't worry about it, and don't let anyone else bug you about your decisions. besides being skiddish of the consequences (and who wouldn't be?), you seem to be confident in your choice.

[Angel_Cece]

Wait 9 months.
If a baby falls out of you, you're definitely pregnant.


- Solipsist

lol i so like that theory

[thriftstoresecre...]

oh, and also:

stop telling this girl that she's made a MISTAKE! these are her choices, and I think she's doing just fine. I don't think any one of you has the right to judge this girl's decisions as right or wrong; they depend on the situation, which she hasn't even discussed.

so lay off.

[xkiller_muffiinx]

I know girls that lose their virginity at the age of 10 and none of them are pregnant. If you don`t get your preiod 2 weeks after its due, then get a preg test.
And if you ARE pregnant, then the father has to pay for child support I think ..thats what one of the guys in my skoo` is doing.

[priyas]

u were the one hu chose to have sex.....tell ur parents or something so u can take birth control pills....yeah

[sweetdreamsx3]

Start praying.

[PrideOfAzia]

condoms work 97% of the time...u shud be fine unless uve had sex 97 times

[blah1234567]

then mabye you should have sex...

[mouse_3k]

and...why is everyone so mean around here? telling this poor girl that she deserves wut she gets. maybe she didn't want too. maybe she wanted to, and liked it. ppl r allowed to do wut they do without being blamed for everything. and she was responsible. a condom was used. she's just scared. jeez...

lol well if she had sex, she should have been prepared for the *fear* if she gets pregnant, then oh well, another young life wasted by sex *shrug*

yo, all she needs is some help and is you don't have any advice then shut up. You're only making her feel worse, sure she made a mistake, but wtf everyone makes them. Put you're self in her position, dude.

xX you'll be fine don't worry about it  Xx

well buddy, in your post there, I dont see any advice other then *dont worry about it* so...hypocrite? (sp?)

[*mzkandi*]

Wait 9 months.
If a baby falls out of you, you're definitely pregnant.


- Solipsist

lol i agree

[oXMuhNirvanaXo]

Hmm that sucks for you . Um Well .. I would talk to your parents they might be mad at you but you will have to tell them some day ... and your mom / dad will help you

[sammy6440]

Just proves that my theory about people born in 1990 and after
are a bunch of crackies. 

In exception of a few.. those are the lucky ones.

i agree...
but not only people born after 90..
just stupid people

[BenignEnigma]

sex is bad.

[xsweet_as_candii...]

sex is bad.

okay no offense but thats just dumb, thats not true AT ALL, um hello this mite be a weird thot, but u wud not be here if ur parents did not have sex, u realize that rite, none of us would be here, so please think before you speak.
As for advice, well im ur age and not really experienced on this stuff, but i think that u shud take the pills, and get one of those testers if your pregnant tell your parents right away, because you dont want them finding out because of ur tummy, they will like it that u were honest with them i think. Dont worry about it to much though, because if you used a condom ur mostlikely okay. And im really sorry about the mean things ppl are saying, they have no right as to say whether or not you too young to have sex so dont listen to them. Stay sweet.

[mouse_3k]

sex is bad.

yah thts a weird statement..Its only bad if your under 16 i guess. Without sex though, we wouldnt be here. ^.^ just think of it like tht

[babyxyelloe]

although i agree with everyone else about your choice of having sex - i really dont blame you because its called seduction, you can pull away from it, but you decided not to. about the pregnant thing - you should really get a test, like those EPT test or something. if you find out too late - everyone is going to know and i dont think you want that. also, you can go to the library and check out some books on pregnancy and figure out the symptons of getting pregant such as sensitive breast, or consant hunger. thats about all i know to do, besides going to a doctor, and for the next time - keep your pants on.