Grr. My ex-Bf.. |
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Grr. My ex-Bf.. |
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![]() define our lives for us. ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 11,656 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 43,293 ![]() |
Um, my ex-bf.. I dislike him so much.
![]() He gave his friend/my friend a note that said "Anthony (My crush) doesn't like Toby (me) and never will, so she shouldn't like him and I don't want her to get hurt." and another saying "Tell toby that I can get all the girls I want, but I still want her." and other notes about saying how much he loves me and all that junk. i know it sounds sweet, but I dont wanna sound harsh or mean but, it's really lame. I mean.. we've been broken up for about 2 months i think. he's stalking me, at school of course. I mean as in following me around and junk. =x it's scary. i've talked to him, but I don't nkow how to get him to stop obsessing over me. it's scary and annoying and freaky, but sweet. ;x I think he should move on. he doesn't. he just wants me... and I don't want him to. So the next time I talk to him, what should I say? ![]() |
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![]() TSUBi ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 48 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 84,208 ![]() |
Tell him, "Move on, sucker!!" lol nah. Actually, uhm..you gotta confront him about your feelings. Tell him that you don`t have the same kind of feelings for him as he does for you anymore&that you have moved on, and so should he. Also let him know that he shouldn`t ruin your love life just because he`s overly-obsessed with you. It may sound "harsh" to him, but hey...we all gotta move on, no? I don`t know the reason of you guys breaking up to begin with, but yeah. You can`t continue to cling onto one, hoping that you`d get them back. That solely depends on both of your feelings - if it`s still there and WILL continue to grow stronger. Don`t let a guy ruin your chances with other guys because of his selfishness!!
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![]() Senior Member ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 889 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 42,392 ![]() |
uhhhh ....if the being nice doesn't work.. then just straight up bitch at him =)
or you can use his trick.. write a note saying "i really cant stiand him right now, the more hes acting like this the more freaked out i am... i whish he'd just get a life n move on" |
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![]() whaaaaaaat? ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 2,293 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,660 ![]() |
^hey alice, did u read my response in that other post? i think it was titled, "mad at friends."
![]() if being nice won't work, there's always the method of being satanic and ebil beyond all reason and like *roar, blah, away fiend away!* cause like, stalkers are just nasty... |
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![]() Senior Member ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 5,585 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 38,082 ![]() |
Keep kicking him in the balls until he gets the message.
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![]() ...and this is me.. ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 3,518 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 57,899 ![]() |
Could :
--ignore him. --flick him the *cough* middle finger *cough*. --tell him that you're already interested in someone else.. --kick his a**. --b*tch at him. --Yell. --get one of your guy friends to walk you to and from class and stuff like that. ![]() |
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